Hubby will not take wife to reunion....

Kitten,Doc	Let him go , then you and your friend get your tickets and show up . go see what it is he does not want her to be involved in . So he can not afford it .....bogus. Find out why .

Natalie B	What she is going to do there if she is seven months pregnant. Why she just doesn't leave him to go and enjoy. Some wife's cant understand the fact as more freedome they give to their partners as much they will love them.

mbutterfly	I would be very upset instead of hurt! Is there going to an ex-girlfriend there? That would be my thought! He does not want to take her due to him thinking he would be able to hook up or at least try to impress someone there. The lowlife!!

HumanToe	That is downright cruel. I think he's more worried about being seen with a pregnant woman than the cost, and he's her freakin' husband. He should WANT to take her, and $25.00 is not hard to come up with.

gemlover24	you never know what the reason could be ..and he is not telling... no need to worry ....marriage has lots of ups and downs...let him go how can she stop him...hopefully he will tell her how it went...not a big deal..in the scope of marrige til death part.

thebigB	Well that is crazy. He obiviously wants to go alone because he had a fling left behind. I had to go to my husband and trust me I really didnt want to. It was last month and honestly most of the ppl was stucks ups.

TeeTee	This means he's up to no good and I would go and spy on him. It shouldn't have to be this way but she sould see what he's hidding and see the truth. Or is it because she's big and pregnant (which doesn't means she's ugly either.) He's wrong for that. He must be embarresed

Nancy D	HURT?????? I'd be furious!! If HE can afford HIS ticket, then he should afford to get one for her, too. I would definately NOT go for that AT ALL. Either you both go, or not at all. If the shoe was on the other foot, he'd have a fit.

ozonat3d	well i'd be pissed if i was the wife esp. if she wants to go! he needs to get his head outta the past and realize this reunion is not for him to go relive his highschool years and that it's the present and unite with those he hasnt seen in years.

grandersongirl77	uh, if they are having a baby, they better have more than $25 to spare. I bet he's been up to no good and doesnt want her talking to somebody there lest she find out! Maybe he's having relations with some girl there and he told that girl he's single. Or he's afraid somebody there knows and will tell on him. Sounds fishy!!!!!!

Felicia	She should give him the $25 then. But, seriously if he doesn't want her to go along there is obviously a reason. I can't imagine why he wouldn't want to take his wife along and show her off to all his old buddies. Something is not right.. she needs to find out what it is.

quadwilly	I would be SO mad! I would think that he either was embarrassed of me or he was planning on seeing and maybe hitting on someone there. Of course, maybe he feels like because she is so preg. that he would be held back from really enjoying himself, if he had to look after his preg wife. I would understand that more than not spending $25 on me.

Rant & Rave	its only an excuse, it sounds like its too much baggage... its his tenth so there is something or someone that will be there that he doesn't want to take his wife.... you as the friend needs to make a surprise visit to the reunion... and the husband needs to stay home.

airhead	She should see if she can convince the Dr to induce labor the day of his reunion. Arrange to have someone get her to the hospital. Then if he goes to the reunion instead of seeing his kid born she should divorce his *** and hit him hard for child support.

A Canadian	This is what I'd do :) I'd get my own ticket and not tell him. then I'd show up with a paper bag on my head with two eye holes cut out. I'd wear a sign around my neck that said"Hi, I'm Ralph's wife and he didn't want me to come so I'm incognito" (Insert guys real name instead of Ralph obviously) he'd never pull that crap twice!!!! Don't get mad, get even evil grin

momma2oneboy	hmm,,. she is 7 months pregnant and gonna have a baby soon, and he can afford that, but cant chalk up $25 to take his wife with him? something sounds fishy to me. the point is not that she is very pretty or he has a good job, the point is that this is his freakin wife!!! i would be livid.

Amber Lynae	I think your friend needs to have a conversation with her husband. She should be at his reunion with him. It is crazy to not bring her because it cost an extr1 25 dollars. There is something either you don't know about the situation or he doesn't want her to know.

Moni	He just doesn't want her there period. I understand she is hurt, but it is HIS reunion, and I think he has the right to go alone. The way he addressed to her though that he was going alone is not a very nice one. He should of just told her he wanted to go alone but not in the way he did.

enjoyrselves	There is a reason he wants to be going alone. She may have already thought of that and some open communication needs to take place here very soon. If it were myself, I would make it clear that we're going as a couple or nobody goes. The whole thing sounds like she's dealing with dishonesty and infidelity, if not already he's planning on it. I'm so sorry for her. She needs to take a firm stand NOW!

Be Nice	He's a dog. Looking to dig up that bone he buried 10 years ago. He shouldn't go to the Reunion, if he doesn't have enough money to take his wife. He could borrow twenty -five bucks from someone if he really wanted take her. Where does he live? Give me his address. I will pay for her to go to his Reunion and tell her to beat his *** while she's there.

â„¢ Falcon Punch! â„¢	what! That is so sad! I would have loved to show off my wife and bragged about her What if he is trying to catch the eye of an old flame or something. maybe the star cheerleader He will only be crushed to see that she has a husband and 4 kids lol or he is going to meet a single woman who he had the hots for. You know what you should show up anyway. This will show everyone what type of guy he truly is

KrysNyte	I think that is definitely a sign he's trying to do something behind her back, OR he's ashamed of her for some reason. When I was married to my first husband, I was very overweight when his ten year came up and I said, you should go without me I'd just embarrass you because I'm so fat. He said, Okay. And went without me. Because he was embarrassed and ashamed of me. I was devastated. Needless to say I am no longer with him.

turtleheadfred	Honestly - I would be crushed as well! She SHOULD be hurt... what's $25 more? My husband wasn't even going to GO to his 10 year reunion... but I INSISTED he go - and I went with him! He had a blast and so did I! Even though everyone was older than me... it was fun and it made it fun for him too! And he's gone with me to mine... though he choose not to anymore because he's not as outgoing and doesn't want to - so I'm not going to "make him". I personally think a husband and wife SHOULD go to reunions and things together... that's part of what "marriage" is! She needs to tell him how much it hurts her feelings that he would consider going without her... that she considers them a "team" and that she WANTS to go. Good luck! I hope he changes his mind!

chelles_insanity	I can understand how she is hurt, I imagine I would be too. There is obviously a reason he doesn't want her to go, and it may not have anything to do with her. He may feel that he has not achieved everything in life he set out to, and doesn't want her to see how much his old school buddies have achieved. School reunions bring out weird emotions for everyone, maybe she should try talking to him about how he is feeling aobut going

TomTomsMom	I would tell my husband that he could take me or not go himself! I can see why she is hurt. It is definitely unfair for him to not take her, and to act as though he's ashamed of her. I would feel like that's how he's acting anyway. And if he has a very good job, then I'm sure he has an extra $25 to spare, especially considering he could spare the $25 for his own ticket!

Owen E	I would be very pissed off simply to state that it sounds like he is not happy with her and doesn't want to show her off to his old school chums. If I was her would tell him fine go to your school reunion by yourself just do not expect me to be here when you return. What a complete asss. If it was me I would be like lets go I want to show you off and show everyone that I'm going to be a new daddy. Tell your friend to tell him he goes the marriage is over!

Miss Jina	Sounds like he's pretty immature. I'd be really sad too if my husband didn't want to take me to his reunion....I'd feel like he was embarrassed to bring me to meet his old friends or something. I know that if my husband had a reunion ..he'd beg me to come to share a little bit of his past with me and to introduce me to all his old friends. It sounds like your friend needs to have a chat with her hubby and get down to the real thing and ask him what the real deal is ...I think she deserves a reason than a lame excuse.

David C	It's obviously NOT the $25, so it's one of two things; 1) He really doesn't want to take a pregnant woman, some guys freak over that big bump thing and just can't cope with it. 2) He's hoping to revive some old flame from school and get a little action after the party. Whatever, the wife should arrange with you or another friend to go out at the same time, maybe dinner and a show or a weekend special at a spa or similar, do it openly, have the flyers and letters on show, discuss all you are going to do, get excited, that'll put a damper on his plans.

soozemusic	Maybe he is not going to a reunion at all. He obviously has another agenda. Could he possibly be afraid of what you, his wife, could find out at the reunion? Possibly he has a child out there being raised by an old flame, or just the old flame period that he wants to see. It may not be that he is doing anything at all wrong, he just wants to spare you from hearing old news that he feels could make you feel less of him. If you have time, hire a PI or a family member to follow him around that reunion, if there is one he is attending.