Husband Problem....Unsafe?

computermaniac78	Not safe at all....get a restraining order or something.....

bethkanga	Get out NOW. Wont get any better, believe me. You & child r at very great risk. I thought I had probs. but yours far outway mine !

garchompagin	I would get a divorce, or call the cops on him if he does it again.

mlholley1	You are NOT safe. Take your children and leave immediately. You cannot risk your childrens' well being. Good Luck.

CeCe ;)	noo wayy hes a maniac (no offense) um i say divorce (again no offense my opinion)

Russ Man	That is a call only you can make.

Foo Fighter	Phone the police. Your "husband" is a monster. Get him put in jail, he's dangerous and what if one day he ends up killing you.

Micheal B	people like that dont deserve to live. you need to get outta there before he kills you. dont be stubborn. and you need to tell someone about it who can stand up to him.

nita	I think you know the answer to your question but you are scared. You should call a domestic abuse shelter immediately and follow their recommendations to the letter.

Amanda C	i dont think that this is a real question. but to answer you, of course it is not safe. anyone who would keep their children in a house with a dangerous man like that is a neglectful parent.

Carolyn E	Grab the kids and go straight to a woman's shelter. He will kill you and your children if you do not leave. At least this way you will have a chance of getting out alive.

Take a Breath <3	please get away ASAP! he's crazy, beating you up is wrong, he shouldn't be getting drunk, and you have a life. you should be allowed to get friends. please, leave before you and you're kids get seriously hurt!!

nanna	Kick him to the curb babe,before it is to late,You are wasting precious time and it is'nt good for you or your kids,plz do and get rid of that idiot,k.

jmdit27	Nope, not safe for you or the kids, get the hell out of there while you still can, no human being deserves a life like that.

sarahxx69xx	course your not safe! he has serisoly hurt you twuce what would stop him doing it again he could even kill you. get you and your kids away from him now ! before he hurts your family aswell, am all for second chances but with something like that he will never change. sarah xxx xxx xx x

russiangirl06394	I think you should divorce him and stop getting him out of trouble. You should also get a protection order against him. If he's done those things in the past, you never know what else he could do. He is a danger to you and possibly your kids.

Reinstated!!	HOW COULD YOU SLEEP NEXT TO A MAN WHO BEAT YOU ALMOST TO DEATH NI FRON OF YOUR CHILDREN?? YOU ARE NOT BEING A GOOD MOTHER, AND YOU NEED TO BE STRONG AND GET THE HELL OUT BEFORE IT GETS WORSE.. THEN WHAT ARE THOSE POOR KIDS GOING TO DO WITHOUT THEIR MOTHER??!! OR WHAT IF HIS ANGER STARTS BEING DIRECTED TOWARDS YOUR CHILDREN??????!!!!!!!!! IF YOU LOVE YOUR CHILDREN.. YOU WILL GET OUT.. NOW

crazywoman88	Of course he's not safe! He's a lunatic! He will never stop. Get away from him ASAP. Your kids might be next to suffer his beatings. He's also a coward to beat on a smaller person and/or a woman. Don't be a masochist.

chinadoll	It may not seem clear to you from the inside of the situation, but it is REALLY clear outside of the situation. Get help. Talk to your family and GET OUT! Do it for yourself and do it for your kids!!! They deserve a better life and they should never have to see such things!

Kelly	You or anyone else shouldn't have to go through that. If he doesn't realize that what he is doing is wrong then he needs help. It's not ok for someone who says they love you to cause you pain physically or emotionally. You need to confront him and tell him that something has got to change.

onion head!	i feel so sorry for you. its horrible that still some people have to suffer from that. you shouldnt have to put up with that, you are better than that and deserve a lot more. this man is horrible, leave him asap and take ur kids 2 i wouldnt leave children with a monster like that

corys mom -	You are an absolutely IDIOT! Your are putting yourself and more importantly your children through this, what kind of mother are you. This is more fool you for actually putting up with it. This is an absolute disgrace! You need to leave him, before he ends up killing you. If not for your sake, you childrens. If you're not going to leave him then don't post stupid questions on here asking wether its safe. OF COURSE IT ISN'T SAFE!

Vortex	I would not have gotten him out of trouble with the police. He does not own you and marriage is an equal partnership. You are a fool if you think you are safe. You should leave him if he ever drinks or gets rough in the slightest bit. If i were your brother I would have grave dug for him already.

Spartan	Safe, i don't think so. He has beaten you up more than once and chances are it will happen again. I would do yourself and your kids a favor and leave him, the next time he could seriously hurt you or even worse. Do you really want to be with someone that controlling who treats you like dirt.

Charlie	Unless you want to go through life having every aspect of your life controlled and beaten to within an inch of your life, I suggest you leave. Do you really want your kids growing up thinking all men are like him and either marrying one just like him or becoming just like him? Do yourself and your kids a favor and leave and never go back. He won't change.

The Original Magic 8 Ball BILF	Umm, he stopped being safe for you to be around when he hitr you the first time. He stopped being safe around your kids when he hit you while you were pregnant. Good job getting him out of trouble. Maybe when he beats up your kid (this time outside of your womb) you will hold him accountable?

Nicole A	RUN!!!!! run as fast and as far as you possibly can...take the kids too...you dont deserve to be in that situation at all!!!!! Those kids dont need to see that either...whats going to happen to them if they see daddy beating you up all the time...you better get out of there..from the sounds of things your life depends on it

Suz123	http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_help_treatment_prevention.htm Note that the site says: For emergency help: Call 911 if you are in immediate danger of domestic violence or have already been hurt. For advice and support: Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE). Help through email: ndvh@ndvh.org You are not safe. You need to start making plans to escape. Please contact the hotline above for help.

Nichole	NO i dont think that this situation is safe. My aunt went through this, I know you may love him, but it would be better for you and your kids to GET OUT. You are dumb for getting him out of trouble, i'm sure now he thinks that he could do it again and get away with it. Also he may end up really loosing it and doing more than beating. GET OUT!~

mybribri03	You and the kids need to get out. No, I don't think it is safe at all. If it happened once or more it will continue to happen and someday you may not be able to stay alive for your children. Please look for state assistance and get out of there!!! Please! No man has a right to touch a woman with harm in mind. He is also putting you through mental and verbal abuse. He can't boss you around. GET OUT!!! Good Luck and please be safe!