Husband Question??????

Kate	Is it possible that he likes to start his day at his desk with a coffee and a paper? He might also be trying to avoid some of the noise from the kids. Unless you think he's not taking care of the kids enough or you suspect some hanky-panky for some other reasons, I'd let this one go. But make sure that he's spending plenty of time with you the rest of the week. If the rest of your relationship is good, I wouldn't worry.

wendy b	If your husband is a good guy and loves you I wouldn't give him too much gruff about it. Different people need different things to keep them centered. Maybe your husband gets coffee at a drive through and then drives around blaring the radio. Who knows. But if he says he needs the time I would let him have it.

butterfly	OK, this happened to me before too. I found out that he was doing just what he said he was doing, goin in work early and havin coffee...etc. You have to look within yourself and answer that. The only alternative is to have someone spy on him. If hes not doing anything wrong though, that will put a strain on ur marriage. Its up tp you.

The Mrs. & The Boss	I would kinda be suspicious of that... Check the mileage on the car if he drives, find out if he goes to work Early and hangs out, and with who? An hour to kill before work sounds lie an affair... But I could be wrong do your homework.

Etcetera	Does he spend time with you and the kids on the weekends ? If not, he probably feels trapped by his family. Talk to him about it and if needs be, see a counsellor

Tina	He is either telling you the truth or he is meeting up with another woman. You might want to check on him. I say that because my husband started that crap and I found he was meeting up with a gal.

shezionae	Obviously he is up to something, whether its good or not i dont know, but you definetly need to find out. Follow him, ask a g/f to come over and stay with babies and see what happens. It will definetly put your mind at rest.

ginger m	ok there is only one way to find out for sure...you have to follow him! whether you do it yourself or you hire someone to do it for you, you must in order to relieve your anxiety about this situation otherwise u will always be wondering. You should get a friend or someone close to you to follow him very carefully but w/o being noticed to see what hes up to. You should try it on a few different random occasions too bc you never know if its an everyday thing or just occasionally. Hope this helps!

Sam V	it could be innocent, does anything else he does strike you as odd? if he has other "me" time he could be having an affair! good luck let us know how it goes!

I am Queen	If you're speculating that he's cheating on you, you shouldn't. You have your children to worry about. You should sit down and really talk to him about how you're feeling! Let him know that you are curious as to why he's really leaving early every morning! Perhaps he leaves early to get away from the kids. Babies do tend to add stress due to the fact that they cry a lot! Since your children are so young it sounds like you haven't been married to long? Don't let your marrige fail due to not communicating!<3

But Inside I'm Screaming	I do the same thing. I work about 20 min. from home, but leave an hour early. It's some alone time, no husband or kid, plus-it gives me a chance to get psyched up for work....get my coffee, boot up my computer, that sort of thing, before patients actually start showing up and needing all my attention.

Penny M	If he needs time to be alone which may be the truth he can do it at home !!!

f* Y!A**	How do you know if he means time on his own away from you or away from his coworkers? I know my boss comes in 1-2 hours earlier than everyone else because he is a morning person and likes getting in before everyone else...

kayla f	i don't really know your husband but i know that my dad gets to work about an hour early everyday and always had he says it because he doesn't like to feel rushed and he likes to get there sit down have some coffee and relax before he has to start his day..it may just be that he want some quiet time for himself.

Pink08	If you are suspicious, follow him some morning and see where he goes.

me	nothing. it is nice to not have rush in the morning. did you ask what he meant by alone time, maybe he was reffering to coworkers. I wouldn't read too much into though

ndnqt1966	Time to yourself? What a load of crap....Because you aren't by yourself ....you are with 2 children.....I think I smell something fishy going on.... If he were going to work to get an early start....then why doesn't he just tell you that? I don't buy his excuse....it is lame....doesn't mean he is cheating...but he should be honest about why he is leaving...even if it is to get away from crying babies...

sexyexotik	i dont think you should worry about that......its pretty hard to cheat sooo early in the morning. Try to get some details and somethings are not for u to go and find out, just let things happen and when the day comes for yuo to find out then it will happen. dont go looking for things.....the time will come

magicgee	He just might want to leave early to get coffee or breakfast and have time to himself..I think you should tell him that you need a break from the kids as well. where's your break?

Proud mama to Liam 03-26-10	I don't think he should be allowed too, next time follow him.

rev. Doc Holiday	Hmmmm! I am not buying his story. Though he may be just wanting time away from the kids.

jwalkr_83	Does he have an office? If so, call him 20 mins from when he leaves and see if he's there. Or talk to him again and see maybe does he get breakfast before he goes to work, or maybe a cup of coffee.

Vivianna	He is doing something, men so rarely think of letting others have time that this must be a lie.

â™¥Gotta Luv Pure Evil â™¥	Has he given u any reasons to think negative??? If not then don't stress about it!

littleluvkitty	i would be angry. you are the one getting up with the baby all night while he sleeps. you need time for you too. like im sure it would be nice to have a shower in the morning. right? i would be pissed. tell him how you feel good luck.

Irish Crash	just ask him what is really go on.

lindsaykinz.	ask him where he goes so early in the morning. or follow him sometime. or just straight up ask if there is something going out. if hes leaving that early, somethings up.

monkey856	ouch..check his phone and see if he has been talking to someone else...he gets those 8 hours to himself...well but then he is at work..

~nicole~	Either he is telling the truth or lying. I personally think he's lying. I mean come ON. An hour and a half?! You could find out easily by having him on the phone the whole time.