Husband Wife Fighting..need Help...PLEASE?

Diggler	you are over reacting, unless he is cheating

*YG[LAKERS 09]**	That is perfectely normal..

ladybug	hey, call the husband of this woman that would stop! you ask her not to call or textyour husband she didn't care about how you feel so fix it in another way find out who the husband is and start texting him tell him to check her text and you check your husband's phone and see what the deal is that smell fishy to me. watch out for the red flag sounds like this 22 years old marriage woman is a vulnerable and is trying to let your husband pumper her. i would not be comfortable for that either that is sick.read all the text in your husbands cell. that would get all your doubt out of your mind.

Starlight4u2	You are not overreacting at all! And no don't let go of this situation! My boyfriend had this girl from the office text messaging one morning at 7:30 am.I just got off from working night shift which was 12 hrs night shift. But any way I saw that text message and I read it and he was still in bed and I asked who is this?? He just said to me oh it's just one of the girls who says good morning once in a while. I got really pissed off and I told him now you call her and tell her to stop text messaging and calling you or it's over!! My boyfriend didn't want our relationship to end at all. But what I did I text message her back and said to F**k off! Then I called her and then she hung up on me! So I called her back and left a nasty message and I told her I know where you work at and I will get you fired! Yes, I was on fire! He did call her and she didn't answer but he did leave her a message and told her to stop text messaging him and calling him too. I even called the office and talked to her boss and she took care of the situation right away! I was mad at him for a while but we did worked it out. You need to talk to your husband and set the record straight and he needs to act like your husband and not like a teenager! You are his wife aren't you?

Josue E	you shouldn't jump to conclusions, never assume anything you may be just over thinking the situation. Of course the phone calls and text messages do sound somewhat suspicious, but maybe they are work related, if he starts "working" late and he seems different emotionally to you, that is when you are to begin worrying. If you do not completely trust him hire a private eye..jk jk jk jk

jiggy jammer	call that cheaters show... they'll catch him

trouble	sounds suspicious to me. watch out

Beth	There isn't that much to talk about in regards to work. Something fishy

richard t	not a problem if he is gay,,,,,,,,,since he is not,there is a problem.......

firewall	he maybe cheating or she is seeking advice from him about her situation.

Dani	no you`re not over-reacting, she`s married too, tell her to stick to her husband.

pinksteel10	that is what is called emotional adultery. drag his butt to a marriage counselor.

cool.panamania	DANGER paisana ! No, you are not overreacting.It sounds like he has the "7 year itch." Nip this in the bud before it gets any worse.

The Rawle	No if your uncomfortable with it he ought to respect that since your his wife, unless your jealous about lots of people and then I could see why he would disregard your feelings.

bonnie	No if you are uncomfortable he should respect your feelings towards it.He is disrespecting your marriage and she is too. Do you think he'll mind if you had a male friend as well?

GibsonGuitarist	you are just overreacting you need to calm down a carefully think about the situation you have been married for 7 years why would he do that now?

Fa Que	I'm sure that he wouldn't be pleased if the situation was reversed. Make him settle down with all the messaging and conversations.

Furbz	Honestly, talk to him fully and explain everything you just said here to him. You're not wrong, if it bothers you then it bothers you. He's your husband, not hers.

robinmcr46	Yes and him to if he does'nt get it together,Hey if you're hot give him a tatse of his own medicine give a guy at work your info so you two can do the samething.

StoneCold	I know this refers to friends (dating), but it is not uncommon for this to happen to married couples as well. Are You Having an Emotional Affair? http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/relationships/24263/dating-question-are-you-having-an-emotional-affair/;_ylc=X3oDMTNtbm9wYzBxBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEX3MDMjE0MjEyODMxNwRrA0Vtb3Rpb25hbCBBZmZhaXIEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawNkYXRpbmctcXVlc3Rpb24tYXJlLXlvdS1oYXZpbmctYW4tZW1vdGlvbmFsLWFmZmFpcgR6egNhYmM-

iluvmel	Girl don't be blind. He's obviously cheating whether it's emotionally or physically which u haven't caught him yet. So nooo you are not overreacting and you have every right to question hi m and if he gets offensive and upset then he's hiding something. Good luck

Taylor Swift Rox, Got that?	Read the text messeges and if there is nothing wrong about them I think its okay... If it doesnt seem good to you and its not about work, then I guess you are right. Answer this EVERYONE! Its about "New Moon" http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ao9KlBTFNU2E2uMdurCuiSXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090323173331AAOPFFi

Soula S	No you should ot let go. The whole situation doesn't seem very kosher. If he is doing nothing wrong ask him to show you the texts as soon as he receives them. And according the contents you take the necessary steps. ( Marriage counselling maybe?)

mem11363	I would NEVER let a relationship with another woman cause tension with my wife. But my wife treats me great and knows what is important to me. She treats me the same way she did when we were dating and she wanted me to propose to her. Think about that. Do you do that? I bet if you did, he wouldn't be doing this.

Chloe.L	Explain it to him how u feel about what he is doing and explain to him how it would feel if roles were reversed...would he like it??? No he wouldn't!!! I wouldn't let go of the situation, if he won't stop doing it and fess up what he is doing and is going on then I suggest marriage counseling and if that don't work then a divorce.

Gabby The Great	if he says you can trust you, you have to give him the benefit of the doubt. however, you should be mad that she did not respect your request to stop calling. one thing i would say is that if it is business it can be handled at work, not at home on his own personal time.

duval_bound	Well, disregard the fact that she's married because I'm sure that her husband would not be to happy about this situation either. Also unless she is like his main partner @ work there should be no reason why she keeps such a close relationship with him. I would be upset! You have every right to be. How would your husband feel if a 22 year old young man was calling and texting you ?. Good luck hun!

~Amarie~	This behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable. She has no right to text your husband and if she is it is not about work. I think that this needs to stop immediately and if he has a problem with it you should stand your ground. Frankly, texting back and forth with a married 22 year old girl is disrespectful! Put a stop to it!