Husband has a new female "friend" every other month. Should I leave?

I am thinking about separating from my husband. We have been married 7 yrs and have 2 daughters, 6 and 1. We have had many problems, but the main one is him talking to other females on the phone. I don't mind him having female friends most of whom are coworkers. But he calls them all the time on a daily basis and tells me stories of them sleeping with other women's men. Tonight I checked his phone (i hate doing it) and I saw where he called this new coworker right after I left for work. The other day he was talking to her when I called him and he lied and said he was talking to his brother. We have been going through this for years and I don't want to go into another year like this. Should I go? I don't know what to do. My heart is telling me to go before we start hating each other.
I have scheduled a counseling session but he hasn't said if he was going or not. he insists that he has always had female friends and he doesn't have a lot of male friends.

Archy B	DAMN WHY DO WOMEN HAVE TO BE SO NOSY

Ann T	show him and give him evedence that you know what hes up to. dont let him off easy. tell him u will leave if he doesent get his act together. also show him that you love him....

J K (Semper Fi) Beer is good!!!	Time to move on with yours and your kids life and make sure your lawyer gets you child support while he is at it. It is that simple sweetie.

YourLaHire	Your problem is the lying. If their is no truth, there is no true marriage.

Bella G	beofre leaving, make sure he is actually doing it. They might not be slepeing together.. just hanging out as good friends best of luck

GreenDays number ONE fan	wow... u need to dump him! he is so cheating I am so sorry tho! but he is! and ask him who his lil friend is!

Socially Correct	Well it sounds like he is not willing to change for the sake of the marriage. Its down right disrespectful for him to carry on like this. With a heavy heart I would says Yes, you should leave. Your daughter is watching you!

Sweetie	move on!!!

dragonswatching	leave

Robinson126	Give your husband an ultimatum to stop his flirting behaviours, if he refuses to abide, the best solution is to kick him out of your life for good.

JingleBell	One word for you... Divorce

Kenneth R	WTF hell ill dump him

N_Burn23	Dump his sorry *** before he does it to you!!!!!!!!

Officer Friendly	If he's lying then there's a problem.

zain is sane	what you should do is document all that he is doing hire a private investigator and when you have the evidence slam him in divorce court

marheather	Walk - He does not love or respect you. What is it the point of hanging on. Good Luck

HoneyBuns	Girl, what you need to do is schedule a date for you to meet these girls. Then you start hogging their friendship so you can find out what these girls are really up to. If he refuses for you to meet them ask questions why.

Shane H	Give him the ultimatum and stick with it. Tell him it is time for him to choose between you and them. See what he wants. If he is cheating he will pick them. Then you go on your way.

mJc	Duh!

lions	yes go to counseling, he isn't about to change. also go to a bible based church, talk to the pastor or his wife, get lots of counseling, before this destroys you ..

am_2004_1	female friends are one thing, my husband talks to them all the time but if he's lying to you about talking to them then I'd say he's hiding something.. if you're not happy and don't trust him.. leave.. remember there is two young kids seeing and feeling what you guys do... if I were you I'd leave now while I can

ziggy	Hi: Your husband should respect you and your children first. Ask him if any of his buddies are calling their co-worker etc.etc. Maybe you should start calling his co-workers and tell them to stop talking and wasting his time as you have 2 kids to take care of. Your husband must not be busy when he comes home if he has so much time on his hands.???????? If he is cheating than kick him out.

MzTerioz	hes cheating on you, leave him , it hurts but you will be better in the long run and it will effect your kids for know but their young so they will get used to it. same thing happened to a family member, she has 2 kids aswell, its the best thing to do, dont let him ruin your life.

"dumblond"	get the hell out of that relationship,..hes playing you and women dont need to lower their standards "to try and work it out" its disrespectful and theres someone else out there that will actually love you. im not saying it will be easy because as you can tell the guy below me,...the men now a days are pigs. LEAVE HIM GIRL.!!

tea ali	Your marriage and family should be more important to him than socializing with those women friends. If he doesn't go to the counseling session with you, you should take that to mean that he's not willing to work on trying to fix the problems in your marriage. Then you start making plans to separate.

unschoolymomma	I think you need to listen to your heart. It would be concerning to me that he is feeling the need to lie to you. That goes to show you that is is hiding something. If he really cared about making your marriage work he would stop this not needed contact with other women and focus on you and his Daughters and trying to save this marriage and go to counseling with you. Otherwise I would leave.

R.I.P Michael Jackson 6/25/09	Honey, Leave him before things get bad I mean it is a new year and I know you have a 6 year old and a 1 year old they will get used to the idea that mommy and daddy don't live together as when I was 10 almost 11 and mature it was alot harder for me but I think for younger kids it is better!!! I say leave if he constantly talks to his co workers!!! Consider my opinion please!!!