I'm 37 and she's 22. With me so far?

*Nickster*	AS LONG AS SHE IS OF AGE..... GO FOR IT.

Quasimodo	Masochist eh? Why don't we leave that to your little girlfriend.

girishn_blr	Look at yourself and your health. If you are healthy and your family has relatively long lifetimes, then the 15 year difference does not matter. Alternatively, discuss the issue with her. How will life be when you are 60 and she is 45? If both of you get to a practical answer which both of you agree, then MARRY.

Slick	I was in a similur situation a couple years back, I was 35 she was 22 and we did the same thing. We went to lunch EVERY day for over a year. She was totally beautiful and personality wise the perfect person. We just "fit" and I battled with the age thing and so did she but we went for it. We began to date and it was great but she got an offer in another state and took it and moved. I have to stay where I am at because of my kids and I have no regrets for that nor the relationship we had/have, we are still the best of friends. so get over the age and if it feels right go for it!

God Loves You	were talking about 15 years well my husband is 9 years older than me and I love it age has nothing to do with love {over the age of 18 of course} but maturity does I went through alot of changes since I was 22 now I am 32 so we all grow and just to make sure get grounded in a good bible believing church and go to some pre marriage classes

Jai	I can't see what the problem is your both adults. I'm only 24 and my man is 34 and it's not a problem for us.

BillyTheKid	I myself am 22 yrs younger than my husband, so your 15 yrs difference doesn't mean a thing NECESSARILY. However, I was quite a bit older than your gf when we met, and had been supporting myself (and 2 dead beat husbands) for the last 8 years, so had a pretty good grip on the real world. Our mental and emotional mind sets are close, we hold the same beliefs and values and goals. So in this case, age was just a number. It's the mental age that matters more than physical, and what each person's motivation is for desiring the other. I can remember being 22....I have changed so much since then, and I haven't even reached 37 yet. I had no idea what love was...are you sure you even love each other? Compared to where people are by 30, 22 is still very immature. This could quite easily lead to growing apart thru no one's fault but time. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing, but I would very much advise waiting, or a trial living together if you believe in it. If it's for real it will last. But her pushing after only one year of what sounds like not overly intense dating to get married, to me, is an indicator of, let's say, a higher level of maturity yet to come for her. Act in haste, repent in leisure.

MiSsY	age is just a number, what lies in front and what lies behind is a completly diff thing compered to what lies within us

b_ryanjnkns	I see nothing wrong with it as long as both of you are happy. Age becomes less of an issue as you get older...LOL!! Seriously though, i wouldn't stress over it. If you are both mature, consenting adults i don't see any reason why you shouldn't go for it.

ricepat2000	I think you should go towards taking the relationship to a more serious level. If with in the next year everything is still going smoothly, then you should be at least proposing to her. THEN... have a long engagement at least a year. If everything is still good; DO IT! Marry her. Stop thinking about the age thing.

Stick	Do what you have to do. Do what your heart tells you to do. All you are accomplishing by asking this question is letting society's opinion influence your decisions toward your own happiness. You should only be listening to your heart.

45 auto	What will you have to loose>You sound like not your idea>If children are wanted there's another Issue>What does she have to offer for the balance>No free rides today>There are other girls>Have fun it only the beginning<>Live with her for a yr and see if it's going to be acceptable for the both of you> Good luck>>

Military Mama due 03/09	It is hard to put an age on love? I know many people get queasy when seeing someone date older people but sometimes you meet someone and something clicks. You are physically/emotionally drawn to someone. Like you said, you tried to NOT let it go there, but nature took it's course. If you are unsure about marriage right now talk about the options of living together...see how your daily lives intervene under one roof. If you want children later in life, be thankful men can produce longer than women. You're in Love...Live Life to the Fullest (the good and the bad) Best Wishes to You and Happy Holidays

Craig J	IF you'll are in love than go ahead. AGE is Nothing but a number past 18. Just make shore you love her and shes loves you back. I dont know how long youll been dating but if its been consistently good than go for it. Just make shore she is not tryin to get you for your money. And I think you should tell her exactly what you feel and see what she thinks about it. But if you dont trully love her or you have doubts about her love dont do it! You dont get married to get a divorce you feel me.

starting over	you know what, age really doesn't matter if she's honestly mature enough and you too to handle this relationship. the biggest thing between the two of you is your age, so that will also factor in how you view things, life things, which could be an issue with goals or decisions you may have. if you are both right there with each other in your ways of thinking, i say go for it! blessings and luck to you

â™¥Sweetâ™¥	I can't see any reason why you shouldn't. I met my husband when I was 18, he was 28. We got married when I was 22. Here we are almost 14 years later still happy, still married. Age has never been an issue. Most people don't know there is a 10 year age difference unless we tell them.

something crazy	Id say go for it. She knows what shes in for... she doesnt need someone to rub it in her face... at that age you know wht your doing, and if you find it worth it, go for it. My mom is 39, my dad is 49... so what? they love each other, and thats all that matters.

hsmommy06	Look you shouldn't be going on age here. You both are adults here. I say go for it if you feel you two are compatible. You will never know unless you try. I wish you the best and don't let other dictate what is wrong and right for you. You make your own decisions. Besides women your age come with a lot of baggage and often a whole sleugh of kids. You don't want that. Start out fresh.

Rachel	When I was 20, I dated a 34 yr old man. At 21, I went for a 37 yr. old. At 22, the guy was 29 yr old. And by the time I was 24, I was dating guys in their 40s. And those are just to name a few of my relationships - the point being they were always with men 10-20 yrs older then me. Why? Because I thoroughly enjoyed it and it worked out well. Now at 29 years old, I've been married for over 2 years and together for almost 5 years with my husband, who is 8 years older then me. And it's great! Believe me, it CAN work out. It depends on how compatiable you two are and how much you both want to be together. 37 and 22 is a fairly big age difference so you have to ask yourself if you feel comfortable bringing her around your family and friends, and if you think something serious could ensue. When I was 21, I fell for the guy who was 37, but he ignored his feelings due to our ages and we ended up going separate ways. A year into my marriage he sent me an email saying he wished he would've never let me get away. I believe age truly doesn't matter - it comes down to the connection. For me, I've always loved older men. Go with what your heart tells you.

No one	Sorry dude. My mom and dad have 11 years in between them, and I know of two successful couples that are over 18 years difference. If you guys are cool with it and you both are of age to make your own decisions then have a ball. So long as you guys have the love, communication and connection then make it happen. Hell, there are a lot of couples out there that are considered more age appropriate that don't make it so who is to say that you guys couldn't. Good luck.

llexiann30	Go for it. YOu only live once.

Jerry S	my late father was 18 years older than my late mother and they were married until the day my father died. you love each other, get married, go for it. good luck.

LilSunbeam	I don't think your wrong for marrying her just because she's 15 years younger than you. I respect that you took it as slow as you did and because of that we probably won't be reading divorce questions from you on here in the next few years. Life's too short, if you wait for all the stars to fall in line perfectly you will be waiting a long time. Be happy and go for it, enjoy life and have many years together.

Lunaeclipz	Sounds Ok to me-if you are both happy what's the problem?

Jessica C	I don't see anything wrong with it.

Sexy Cuban	imagine that you have a 22 years old daughter... would you let her marry a 37 year old man.....?

flyfish_777	slippery slope, but crazier things have happened.... Live together first and see what happens...

Brooke	sounds like a plan. i would wait a little longer for marriage though. try living together to see if it will work.

Valerie X- ooops!	She is over 18, your in love, what have you got to lose?!