I'm getting married tomorrow well today actually what should i do???

Glittergirl	I dont understand what you are asking.....?????

Heather P	Never too late to back out-- before the the wedding that is. Marriage is rough. So if you're having second thoughts now, I'd definitely listen to them. I think our high divorce rate speaks for itself.

master_der_man	And now you want to do something about it?Why didn't you before setting a day to get married?And who gets married on a Monday?Like the old saying goes,Be careful what you ask for,You may get it.

will	Tell her the truth. You don't want to be married. I think you have a few issues of your own to work out. She didn't suddenly start acting this way, this is who she is and if you're not okay with her being the way she is you should have gotten out of this a long time ago. If you really love her you will tell her the truth and postpone this marriage or separate. You're better off without her and she's better off without you.

nquizzitiv	So, you've known this and you're marrying her? Why? Loving someone does not make them change. If you think she's crazy now then wait until you marry her. She'll only get crazier.

Helpfuldoc	i bet shes good in bed, have you found out yet, crazy grils always are. dude if you love her thats all that matters, besides crazy girls are fun

DrSH	If you love her, really love her...then you'll accept her for all her faults and all her good points. Focus on why you fell in love with her and if her behaviour is such a problem...talk to her about it, but better after the wedding because right now it sounds more like pre-wedding jitters/cold feet from you. Chill out, you're just stressing.

WhyNotMe	Respect each others individuality. Do not go into the marriage with secrets. Be open and honest.

gr33n_3y3d_grrl	LoL Why didnt u realise this problem before you proposed to her! Your a big meanie! Marriage is a serious commitment, its not something you just throw around. Your the child, considering your the one b&*^&ing about her. And what kind of advice should i give u? You should never have proposed to her in the first place and secondly you should cancel the wedding now before you end up ruining her life in the process.

jaywalk57	You have to figure out if this is just "cold feet" or if there is a critical problem. You did propose to her, right? There had to be some reason for that. Why did you propose? Are those reasons still valid? Are the things that drive you crazy things you can learn to live with in exchange for all the reasons you say you love her? Do you honestly think you made a mistake, or are you just coming up with reasons to panic? It's fish or cut bait time, man. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage, but you have to make up your own mind. Incidently, they're all crazy. Deal with it.

Jaedyn=God has heard	When you get married the things that bothered you before you got married get multiplied by 1000. IF she was 1000 times crazier could you live with her and be sane? If your answer is yes, marry her. IF no, you may need to call off the wedding. Divorce is horrible. More horrible than calling off a wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!â€¦ Was she crazy before you began planning the wedding or after? Planning a wedding is very stressful and can make you appear crazy and childish...

520	PRAY A LOT !

exaluva	A bit late now for advice dont you think lol

Staci	You don't say how old u R? But your definately not ready for a commitment of marriage if u can't even level with your financee. Her behavior is nothing new to u? Why are u leaving it to the night before online post. Stop the wedding. Both of you need to go to marriage counseling that is done when your considering getting married. Both of you need to learn more about the other and wheither you are truely meant to be together.

SAMMIE JO	how does that song go??? It's alittle to late. Why in the world are you on the computer the night before her big day. It is easier to call it off than a divorce.. GOOD NIGHT... better make up your mind soon...

candleinthewind7579	You really should have thought this thru better since the wedding is today! Try to imagine your life in 1 year...5 years...10 years if she doesn't mature or change. If you don't think you want that kind of life...then don't go thru with it

viva_bamm	Let me get this straight. You're waiting until hours before your wedding to even second guess your decision to marry this girl? You're a mess. She's a disaster. If you hate her so much, why are you marrying her? Anway, if you want to leave her at the alter, that's your business. I think it's stupid of you to wait until the last minute to second guess it.

r2d2	you should call off the wedding dude! you will not be happy until you get a lot of counselling...her too! If this is too late and you married her anyway...run with her to get counselling in a hurry, for yourself to not be overly controlling, and for her to understand her roll as a responsible adult, wife and to gain some self respect.

Sofia	lol I am sorry but you are asking a little late. Sweetheart is just going to get worse if you already see this flaw in her forget it guess what?? I hate to break the news to you on your wedding day but is just going to become a bigger problem for you in the future. darn you tell us barely today you have a problem. Why did u wait so long. I had to laugh someone said here who gets married on a Monday?? LOL but is true why on Monday ?? just curious here.

brian	wake up in the morn and find your way to the church ( it's that building with a pointing thing on the roof) and when your asked just say I Do and have a fun night ;-)

freggs	The best piece of advice anyone ever gave me was that "This is as good as it gets...." meaning things do not get better when you get married. Typically people are better behaved before you get married. Once you are married and locked in people start to let things slide, and already bad behaviors can get worse. You also need to ask yourself, "What is in this for me?"- "Why am I marrying this person?" You cannot change anyone. They have to want to change. If this is a behavior that you cannot tolerate, then do not go through with marrying her. It is a lot easier to get into a marriage than it is to get out, so really think this through and make sure it is something you absolutely want to do. I knew at my first wedding that getting married was a mistake when the minister asked me if I do and I said, "If I have to...." We were only married six months. So, if you are already feeling like it is not right, then do not do it. If you love her and you think you can tolerate these behaviors for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE then go for it! If there are any doubts put it off....there is no harm in delaying things.

lyn	IT'S EASIER TO POSTPONE THE WEDDING THAN TO GET A DIVORCE. CALL HER AND SAY IT'S JUST NOT THE RIGHT TIME FOR THE BOTH OF YOU. DON'T FEEL BAD ABOUT NOT GOING THROUGH WITH THE WEDDING.

gypsy	This may sound cruel but this marriage needs to be delayed until these problems are solved. Don't go through with it.

Alessa	I guess the questions are: Will it be all worth it in the end? Could you see yourself with her thirty years from now? Do you love her enough to accept her faults? If you answer these questions honestly you should have your own answer.

ohio_gurl042	well i dont think you need to get married

Chickybabe	You need to sit down and think real hard before you say I do

oppositeangles	u a hole what took u so long look if u don't wanna get married or your scared u need to sit down and talk to this girl and stop being a wuss no need 2 ruin 2 lives . take care

Heidi	This may sound original but listen to your heart. If you really love her then you will be able to look past the faults you see in her and go on with your lives together. If your heart tells you something other then that, well....that's your decision. But just remember....even though your freaked out now there is a reason that you wanted to marry her in the first place. Good luck. I really hope things work out for the best. Farewell.

jqdsilva	you knew the way she was before any of you popped the question. now it's too late to be crying crocodile tears.