I'm going to spend the night at another mans house and I'm married, is it wrong?

My husband is so annoying and useless. We have got a 6 month old baby boy together and I'm 17 weeks pregnant with the second one. I only married him for our baby's sake. It bothers me that he's white and I'm biracial ( black, white) and I can't trust or like white men based on experience and he's a typical white man.

I'm 22 and I'm soon finishing college and I work part time some weekends and my baby is in daycare. My husband is 24 and he's working but not making enough money. I get so tired of him it's as if everything is a joke to him. Even if he's annoying he at least tries to be a good father

I have met this man through work he's 31 and he's so mature and handsome, he's divorced and has got a child. We usually go out for coffee and even if he's white he's a good white guy. I feel attracted to him and we kissed once. He invited to me to spend the night at his place so that we can get to know each other better. He said I can sleep in the guest room. He lives quite far away that's why I'm staying over and I want to get to know him since he's a new friend. My husband doesn't know about him and but I haven't lied I told him that I'm spending the night at a friends house. And I'll leave my baby with him. Is this wrong?

s4ndr4j4n4	It sure is wrong, you say you didn't lie but you did. You say he's a typical white man which you don't trust, yet you have 2 children by someone you dislike so much, you chose to have children with him. Think you need to do him a big favor and give him a divorce so he can find someone who respects him and is more worthy of him.

Paul	Well, this old white man won't be as hard on you as some have. My take is that very little is wrong between two consenting adults. What fidelity you owe to a boring husband is up to you, I'm sure not going to condemn you. In fact if I was you I'd get ready for bed and wait about 5 minutes and go crawl in bed with my friend. In my book that's up to you as well, but I'll be damned if I'm going to get that close to a great evening and back away from it. Good luck

Ava	Is this wrong? You're MARRIED. You know this is wrong! I suspect you've just run out of ways to justify it to yourself and are looking for someone else to provide it. If you have issues with your husband, address them! Make him go to counseling! Or maybe take a long hard look at your own behavior. He's annoying?? You judge him for his race and how much money he makes when hundreds of single mothers would love to have a dad in the picture who has a job and wants to be a good father! The grass is always greener on the other side, hon. Step out on your marriage with this other guy and you're only borrowing trouble. When it all blows up, it's your baby that will suffer. My advice is to re-adjust your priorities, STAT!

Big Richard	Nah just makes you a sl*t

.	I am a very positive person. You won't get prego... Have a blast.

Andriana	Are you married. Than yes. It's 100% wrong. End of story.

Mr O	if it's wrong, then you shouldn't want to be right.

Cherry	If it wasnt wrong you wouldn't be having doubts. Why'd u marry him in the first place?

AaronP	Yes, and if he ever found out he could take your kids

Sup Plicating	I actually encourage my wife to enjoy life to it's fullest.

Elated	Oh, so you have a disposable marriage with vows you can edit at any whim...gotcha.

RudiA	You already know the answer, and if you keep going on this way your happiness will never arrive.

BabeHart	I've seen a lot of the old trolls re-appear lately but had completely forgotten about you...happy holidays coco-troll!!! â˜º

Madworld711	Do you really think you'll make it all night in that guest room? Do your husband a favor and let him move on with his life.

Tim	Why bother asking if it's wrong? I'll bet you have never thought anything that you have ever done is wrong. and yes, you have lied. But you probably do so much of it anyway - whats one more?

Poopypuss3	It's perfectly fine Coco. Enjoy attending church services with him on Sunday morning. Why does everyone automatically assume the worst? There are so many racist and judgmental tendencies around here lately

Michelle	Your kidding right... Imagine your husband innocently sleeping at another woman's house because she is so mature and beautiful.

spinningfaster	if you don't kniw it's wrong, there is something seriously wrong with you. at 24 and working hard doesnt entitle you to anything. you 're gross.

RHM	Divorced????? I guess he's not mister perfect either. You may, eventually drag your new interest down with you or maybe you'll go down with him. Get your own **** together, and your own independence before you drag someone else into the picture.

Catherine	yes, it is wrong, you need to get your life together not only for your baby but for yourself, the grass is not greener on the other side, be careful

Goodness Gracious	You have a 6 month old and you are a little over 4 months pregnant? You have issues. Don't worry go spend the night at the guys house he was planning to spend the night with his girlfriend anyway.

Abigail Grech	ohh there's a solution to know if youre wrong or not.. go tell your husband what you're gonna at do at who's and what you're gonna be doing then see what his reaction is and you'll notice yourself if you're doing anything wrong or not.

Bubbles	Of course it's wrong to sleep in someone else's house if you're married and the house where you want to spend the night with belongs to another man. How do you think that would make your husband feel? Not just that. It is also indecent.

SusanLynn	my only question to you is, why did you marry him? the baby wouldve been just fine without you two being married, if not better. "It bothers me that he's white and I'm biracial ( black, white) and I can't trust or like white men based on experience and he's a typical white man." wow!

Bella Goth	You just spent the night there because his house is far away, right? It's not wrong unless you sleep with him, because that breaks a lot of trust you have with your husband. If you're having strong feelings for this guy (which it sounds like you are) and you're both serious about pursuing it, then you have to talk to your husband about it.