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I'm having an uncontrollable affair.?

I am a 38 year old married man. I love my daughters and I ā€œlikeā€ my wife. I’ve known my best friend (who is also my neighbor) for 16 years now. Our families are close. But I’ve done something horrible. I’ve fallen head over heels for his youngest daughter. She’s a senior in High School. I always knew she was attracted to me. But I did not pursue her until she came of age (I am not a pervert! ). We have become intimate for the past two months.. I feel bad about betraying my friend and our families. But sometimes you can’t control who you fall for.

A boy at her school is trying to pursue her and I know she likes him as well. I am extremely jealous by this. I wish I would tell her to run away with me and start a new life together. But I know it’s not going happen. How do I get over my love for her?!

Sincerely,

Can’t sleep.







Johnny
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Grow up and be a man


windmill ever
just knock her up.

she will be tied to you for 18 years then.


Lally's Mommy
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WOW DUDE YOUR INTO SOME DEEP CRAP!


mark
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You are in deep doo doo. Nothing good is going to come out of this.

I can think of nothing good to say to you.


1selkie
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Troll.


LeeH
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Try stopping. That would be a start.


ஐThat Sallieஐ
You are not a pervert, but you were attracted to a teenager? Right.


TRIXIE
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get divorced, be single, and then you are in a time frame to say run away with me.


papaz71
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And I thought I was living a dangerous life!


Shani D
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Talk to a police officer about it. I am sure they will be able to tell you exactly what to do.


Nancy C
Think about how you would feel if you found out that your best friend was messing around with one of your daughters!


Tone L
you're 38 which means she's at least 20 years younger than you. You are old enough to be her father, find a way to get over it.


Beauty P
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Now what if that was your daughter and your bestfriend. You would think he's a perv...right??? exactly!

Another thing let her date people her age. dont be jealous...u really sound sick. Where's your wife?


♄ii does thiisz♄
just forget her you will fuuk up your family loose your friends and the hole street and neighbors will know you as a perv down the road forget about her


A
Take all the energy you've been spending on her and try putting that into finding out what's wrong with your marriage and fixing it.


i_ate_sponge_bob
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You can't be serious...

Keep it in your pants and leave her alone, she is a child in mind even if legal she is old enough.


Spaghetti Cat
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She has no desire to run away with a grown man w/ kids when she can date the captain of the football team.

You should go to counseling.


A.B
i dont think this is "uncontrollable", maybe your feelings are, but the affair is certainly controllable. just stop sleeping with her. you are married!


Scared
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You need serious psychological help. "you can't help who you fall for" Yes you can. I hope they al;l find out and you are ostracized for being the perv you are. How long have you had your eye on her?


Angel Y
Realize that she is too young for you and get over her fast before you get in a lot of trouble with your wife and your friend. You can do it if you really try. You should have never gotten yourself involved with someone that young to begin with. That leads to nothing but trouble. Don't you realize that?


friendlychick08
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lmfao. that's so funny. you're a grown *ss man cryin over a little girl. what do you think? people on here will sympathize for you? get real. if you don't love your wife, you love someone else, you are cheating on your family (not just your wife, you're cheating on your kids as well), then you need to leave them. but please believe me when i say that this little girl will want and find a man her own age who has more to offer her than a bitter ex-wife and some step-kids.


j51ack
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You are 20 years older, how long do you think this will last? Not to mention she may be legal but she is hardly mature enough to be that person your looking for. Grow up, and realize that A) your married, B) she is just experimenting, C) you are acting like an idiot.

FYI - Just cause she is legal doesn't mean your not a pervert.


Tia D
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You should write a book to go with your little story... and in the end you enroll in the same college as her... ya'll have a great affair... she dumps you for a real life, in the real world, with a real man... you try to get your wife back... she refuses you, cuz she's remarried to a hot millionaire... and you end up living under a bridge.


Justin Credible
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Get counseling. You're obviously a disturbed individual. Just because you waited until the stroke of midnight on her 18th birthday doesn't make you any less of a pervert, guy. You're old enough to be her dad yourself! You're pathetic, you jeopardized your entire LIFE to bone an 18yr old!
She's been attracted to you to? Well, she's a stupid teenager you are the adult and should know better. You are being extremely selfish getting jealous because a boy her age wants to be with her and vice versa? WOW, you need serious psychological help.

EDIT: Tell your friend he can bone one of your daughters. See how much you accept that one.


Hawk
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I hate to be rude or blunt but this time I will. You are WAY TOO OLD for this girl and you need to back off. To get over this love you say you have for her, just remember it's her life you will be ruining. If you love her, truly love her, then you should know that all you are doing is hurting her in the long run. Leave her alone and if you are so unhappy with your married life, then get the heck out and quit hurting your wife too. GROW UP


Marina D
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Get therapy. And get some for her too.

She's in high school. I don't care if she's legal or not.

I don't buy that you cannot control yourself. You can control not letting your wife or her father know. You can control waiting until she was 18.

You were 20 when she was born. What could you possibly have in common?

Let the poor girl have a normal life. You are using your life experience to manipulate a young girl.

I hope her dad shoots you in the pants.







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