I'm in love with a married man, he has three kids, and i really want him.. what to do??

elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom	talk to his wife about it =) my guess is you won't walk away, you will crawl... bleeding heavily... lol!

ann3lizz	yea.. he has a ring on his finger. This should mean to stay away.. and if you're wise, that's what you'll do.. Imagine you get hm, and after a few years he ends up with some other.. You would like that? Put yourself in his wife's shoes!! If he sais their relationship is over.. than let him divorce before anything happens between you (he probably won't do it only if he already has a bed to jump in after that). He is lame for even considering having someone else.. can't you see? I was in this situation once, almost in love with a married man, but I never encouraged anything, even if I did wanted him. I said.. it's you decision, if you decide to break up.. ok, just not because of me. I don't know if I want you.. Don't offer him the net!! it is just not right.

Missy	You don't want him, but the idea of him. Don't disrespect yourself and go for someone that is unobtainable. Give yourself more credit and don't fall into the trap of a nowhere relationship.

charlie	Ya I'll tell you what you can do. But you won't like it. Go find someone else whos not taken or married. Get some self respect and stay away from him. How would you feel if there was a lady after your husband? Thats the problem today with people. They just don't care!!! And besides>>> Who says he'll want you!!!!!!!!! Mind your own buisness and dig down deep into that SO CALLED heart of yours if you have one and find some self respect and some morals.

kimberly k	turn around, leave, and never look back

kim4u365822000	I am going to be straight up with you, and believe me this comes from experience. Leave it alone, i promise you in the end you will come out the loser. He will not leave her or the kids for you, and you will be the one left with nothing. I know its going to be hard, to leave someone that you have developed feelings for, but please do its only going to bring you so much pain.

Greenman	Ask his wife you they would like a threesome with you.

The Sun is Shining â‚	Turn up at his marital home, naked, and tell his wife you want him.

dukemack	Loving someone means caring for them, not wanting to possess them etc. If he is married - leave him alone. You will destroy his life. If at some point he gets a divorce you can revisit the issue. You don't want to be the woman who lured him out of a marriage.

Lou B	Find someone of your own to love. It's less stressful and just as kissy. Do you really want to risk causing those children incredible pain and trauma that will last their whole lives?

Meggie	Mhh what do u think ur better than his wife,he loved her so much that why he married her en they have kids so get out of people life en get ur self a single man

â™¥The Mrs.â™¥	Get over it.

THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10	U need to leave him alone and let him be with his family... if he cheated with u and then leaves his wife for u he will cheat on u and leave u for another woman... go get some counseling and break off this arrangement or u will be unhappy...

Rene	He's married and he has children, so move on and find someone else. There are many other men in the world who aren't married.

nat85	Keep away it's a family!!!!

Jazzmin27	Get therapy or go to your closest church there is something very wrong with your judgment or you just like to sin.

Rosedolphin101	get over him, he is taken! how would u feel if u were married and another woman was trying to get your man? Think about it!

idtshadow	mail pictures of you doing it with him to the wife

Rick Ven	Walk away.

Happy A	No. Dont ruin some other woman's relationship. Just forget about him.

river2run07	Yeah that is a tough one.. he is married and he is only going to hurt you and break your heart until he is not married or you move on. Good luck, but there are plenty of single guys out there for you.. just not me.. lol..

Gee	Whatever you want to do. Just don't expect a lot of sympathy or be upset when people laugh at you when karma comes calling.

typerchic34	no brainer here..leave him alone. If he and his wife divorce make sure it's not because of you. He will eventually cheat on you too.

Super Me	Find someone else. There is no reason for him cheating and you are not helping his marriage or his children.

Cocker S	You look for another man. Singe one :)

justchillin'	Get over it and move on. You will save yourself a lot of heartbreak.

bubbles	stay away from this married man..he has a wife and children and you shouldnt want to hurt those kids.. find someone that is unattached...

marinewife0028	dont be a homewrecker!!

ladybug136	Married is the key word there.