I'm in love with someone besides my husband?

how funky is your chicken?	Have an affair. Just remember not to tell anyone!

slick_3501	Tell your husband. He deserves to know. Are you sure its love between you and your other guy? Make sure it is before you know what your giving up with your actual family.

Uncle John	Divorce him

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LAL	Both of you get a divorce so your spouses can marry someone who values them..........or knock it off! If you don't think spouses will find out then you're living in denial. You're going to ruin a bunch of lives just so you can fulfill your lust. So, get a divorce Or knock it off!

Teresa	Stop seeing this guy NOW and concentrate on fixing your marriage. No good can come of this relationship.You both are thinking of cheating on your spouses.How can you trust someone who cheats on their spouse.

"U" is for Uranium	Stop whoring around! Your the reason why the divorce rate is so stinking high in this country! If your going to let this other guy plow you, have the common decency to get divorced first. Spare him the embarrassment beforehand. BTW: How would you feel if he was boinking someone else? Put the foot on the other hand. Bet you'd be pi$$ed too. To Funny: like the other guy, but want to stay married...what a crock of s**t!

Tonyz	Adultery is a sin and you will go to hell where you deserve to be. Get a divorce and let your husband find the woman he deserves. I feel bad for your children

Lady J	Well think about it like this-Your both married and messing around. If you were to leave your husband for him what will stop him from doing it to you? He could cheat on you. You always have to look at your marriage. Are you happy? Can you fix your marriage? If you can't fix it then seek divorce. Things like this are hard. I kinda went through something similar. Your properly not in love this guy. Why did you marry your husband to begin with? Maybe you should think about the good and how you have a wonderful daughter and focus on that. Its best to stop this affair your having and see if your marriage can become better before you throw it all away for a lifetime movie.

autloveswes	quit messing around .. or talk to your husband

lookingforanswersandquestions	break it off with the other guy. he has his own family. he is probably bored with his wife and wants someone else on the side. he will probably never leave her for you.

â™«You hate Cuz I'm a RockStar	Quit your Job.And avoid all of this Together once and for all.Stop acting Immature

drunken_monkey1988	You're stupid, it is people like you that can't help yourself and always looking for someone else and breaking hearts. The fact that you are cheating on your husband with someone else who is married that is going to break up two families and all so you two can be happy. Well I hope you are happy, and when you are eating your next meal I hope you choke.

CCRIDER69	QUIT YOUR JOB.....AND MOVE ON...IT WILL BE MAJOR DRAMA...FOR BOTH PARTIES...

bbjr38	do your husband a favor and get out of your marriage. He deserves better.

* straight~acer*	Go with your gut. What would make your life better in a year. If you really love this guy you cant torture yourself. But also you have kids and so does he, which would be better for them.

teritaur	get another job!! These work attractions always blow up in people's faces. I've seen it happen again and again. The only reason this is happening is because you see each other all the time. If you didn't I guarantee there would be no in love... really. Think about what's going on with your own marriage that you think that what you're doing is okay. It isn't. Either change jobs in your current office away from this guy or get another job . start looking now You're playing with fire. And two families will be hurt. Get your act together and move on.

Brian	I know im not in to this kind of stuff but im hear to help. You cant not dump you husband for annother because how would you explain that to you kid? It is hard for a kid to have parents who seperated and it takes a long time to get over. And who said this guy cant be your friend? You can hook him up with your friends and you and your husband can go on a double date with them and do faimily stuff together

Denise.	ok. i no u dont want to break that up but u have to if u dont love him. im sorry but ur feelings r taking u on u on a different road. u kids r going to take it hard but its wat u want

Lucky S	Are you really in love with this guy, or are you in love with the forbiddeness and excitement this whole venture arouses? If you love your husband and child, please refrain from making a mistake that will cost you dearly just because you've been watching too many romantic movies.

rod85	Perhaps you took a video of your wedding. You may want look at it. You no doubt made vows. You allowed yourself to get close with someone other than your husband. You have no right to do so. Do not allow yourself to be in situations with the other guy unless you are divorced. Perhaps if you tell your husband of your activities, it can be sooner than you think. Don't just take my advice, though. Talk with the other guy's wife and kids.

Wee E	Stop giving the excuse that " there is a part of me that knows we were meant to be together" to try to redeem yourself from all the faults and wrongs you have committed. Its about time to be more mature in your thinking, for goodness sake, you're married with a daughter and as a mother you should know your priorities and responsibilities. A child's life would be ruined if you continue this way and she will probably follow your footsteps, just like in statistics shown in the past decade that children who were abused when they were young eventually seek for husbands who eventually abuse them. Would you want your daughter to be in a state of yours? Well if you are proud of what you have done, then i suggest you should go seek some treatment. Your husband and child deserves much better considering you having these kind of skeleton hidden in your closet. However, if you are willing to give up on that job and guy and turn over a new leaf, not all is lost just yet. Confess what you have done to your husband and talk it out nicely, he deserves to know. Honestly, i feel sad for him. Its such a pity.

gone!	no you're not in love with him you are in LUST. love lasts a lifetime. lust lasts till you get what you want and then some. but eventually dies

cireengineering	You are asking for trouble, you are better off not playing with fire.

latice g	Just showin' some tough love.............You need to get a hold of yourself quick, give your husband the wife he deserves, while he's at work trying to support the family dont be out dowing things like that, this is just a fling, do not buy into this!!!!!, besides if you become his wife he'll do the same thing to you that he and you are dowing to you spouses. Try to start an old flame with you husband go out and do sumthing, but do not buy into this guy!!!!!

kelsmo1971	First, you should never mess with someone you work with. If it doesn't work, you still have to work with them. Of course, I'm not condoning this in anyway. You are cheating on your husband and he deserves the truth. Don't ever stay in a relationship because of the kids....they end up hurting just as much when mommy and daddy start showing less affection toward each other, then fighting, then not talking at all. Think long and hard about what you are doing. You should end the other relationship before you end up hurting more than just your husband. Or, be honest with your husband and end things with him in a somewhat pleasant manner, before all hell breaks loose in front of your children's eyes.

FaZizzle	If you don't want to break up your marriage OR his then you need to stop this silly infatuation and make it clear to this other guy that you could never and would never cheat on your husband.

pennypoolblue	if you feel like you need to get out then get out, you don't want to waste your life with someone you don't love, but you need to think about what your children will say, and is he willing to leave his wife for you?