I've done something terrible and after 6 years of being divorced and hating him, I need to let him know...

lillylizard	nothing you should do nothing maybe express that you know you did awful things and you are sorry but anything more than that is really stepping over the line you obviosly didnt love him in the first place leave him be to his better life and move on what goes around comes around he wont leave her for you

Cafe au lait	It's not about you or what you want anymore. Leave the guy alone since he has obviously found someone who actually cares and loves him for himself. It took him knowing you to know what he DOESN'T want or need in his life. Be happy for him but stay away and deal with those demons and issues that are haunting you: get counselling.

Belinda J	seeing him happy is his best revenge...........sorry but you deserve it and dang it he definitely deserves to be happy after all you have put him through..........yes say you are sorry and mean it and be the best ex you can be and do it not to get something out of it yourself .......you sound so selfish.......you want him back cause you see that there is someone great wanting him so there must be something great you gave up and you hate that someone else has it and not you............poor girl, poor guy........learn from your mistakes and change what you can change and except the things you can not change........maybe a great guy will come into your life one day

ideally_rational	Oh, so suddenly you feel that you have lost his affections, and want them back, until next time you're bored, eh? I can hear you now---No, no, it's not like that...I realized I love him. Oh PLEASE. Leave the poor guy alone, haven't you done enough damage already? And do you really believe that he would take you back now that he has a loving woman in his life? Maybe he would laugh. I have left someone before that I shouldn't have...and I do understand...but you need to move on now, you're time for chances with him has passed.

tanam73	QUIT BEING SELFISH, GROW UP, AND LEAVE HIM THE FCK ALONE, ****.

momrfg2003	Own up to your mistake and apologize. Think of the example to your children if nothing else. However, do not do apologize for your own self seeking purposes. If you really want to make amends, call the woman in his life and tell her of your intentions.

Denis B	Leave the man alone, you've done enough damage already. Let him live his life in peace without you messing with it.

llewis001	Leave him alone...its too late for you...i understand what your going through....i had a good man but i didn't realize what i have until now....but when i left him i had my reasons...everything happens for a reason...move on and find someone else.

Tanyah	DREAM ON! he has a better life now... and i doubt/hope u doesnt give that up! ur selfish for wanting to take him away--ur a TR!CK lady..always looking to do whatever it take (destroy families obviously) all for ur GAIN... what have u gained?..nothing but guilt..and lonliness I pray ur life gets better too- but YOU need to act righteous.. right now all ur thinking about is having what others have...happiness. AND that has to come from inside woman! u need to grow spiritually cuz obviously ur lacking grace. peace n blessings

Anji	Um....he has a "good woman" in his life now. You were evil, vindictive and self serving - AND you accused him of the sickest thing a man can be accused of..... You need professional help. You need to learn from this and pray that another good man comes in your life again... But I believe in Karma....

Feythe	If you really care about him, let him be. Let him go on and be happy with the new woman in his life. If you're truly sorry, make ammends. Go set the court record straight, tell them he didn't really molest his daughter. Give back the money and property you took. You're still thinking of yourself, wanting him back now that he's found some happiness. That's a wrong attitude in your heart. You can't change the past, you can only learn from it and do better in the present and in the future. Pray and ask God for forgiveness, don't do these things again, and move forward from where you're at now.

thewindtwister	The best thing you could ever do is to let him be happy. Why put him through the emotional turmoil and drama just because you've had a change of heart? You hurt him too many times and now you think that somehow, magically you're going to make things better by coming back NOW when he's going to potentially be married to a new woman and happy for the rest of his life? If you're truly remorseful and think that you can be a better girlfriend to him... do him a favor and be that GREAT girlfriend with someone else!

Jaysmomee	If you really love him, LEAVE HIM BE!! Let this poor man be happy for once. I don't even know you, but after reading what you wrote I DONT LIKE YOU! grrrrrrrrrrr

FillyLilly	NO! Do NOT mess up what he has going for him. SHAME ON YOU!

Mrs D	he would be stupid to let you back in his life. You need help

Ð©Ñ—Å‰Î¬Ä·Ïƒ Æ¸ÌµÌ¡ÓœÌµÌ„Ì¨Æ·	If you truly love him, you'll want him to be happy. LET HIM GO.

TelomereGuru	Just stay out of his life. You had your opportunity and messed it up. He's got this woman now and she's making him happy. Don't mess up his life again by making him confused.

Blue Haired Old Lady	Grow up. You dumped him, took his money, his stuff, his child, and made horrible accusations about him. Leave him alone - you have done enough harm. Now that he has someone else you want to screw that up for him too. You need counseling.

jemmamomma	Um, what the h*ll do you think? Why, now all this time later, after he's met a wonderful woman would he EVER want a lying cheater like you? You lied about one of the most HORRIFIC things that can happen to a child, and you call him and treat him like crap on a consistant basis--I'd get a restraining order on you if I were him. Let him be happy--you OWE him that.

maddammaria	You heartless *****! Leave him be!

Qyllix	The question is why would he want you back? I know that I wouldnt if I were him. The answer to your question is stay away, and give the man some peace.

Nikki	I wouldn't let you back in my life either. The best thing for YOU to do is to appologize for your past and clear things up that way, and to LEAVE HIM ALONE.

vampire chick	i would aplogise! but i wouldn't try and get him back. he has moved on and you should to! dont hurt him anymore or it will just get worse. you will never be truly happy if you spoil his chance of happyness. oh and grant him visiting rights of his children!!!!!

I have an answer !	You sound like you have a lot of issues woman ! Your bitterness and anger, will not get you anywhere ! Stop "chasing" the ones that you willingly hurt ! Move on ! Actually, seek help !

ted.stryker	I would put a gun to your head and pull the trigger...

justakiss62	leave the guy alone you've done enough damage, sounds like you need some counseling.

Flan	How about leaving the poor man alone to be happy instead of intentionally making him miserable for your own personal satisfaction?

tom_gpp	You need help! You are a sick, sick individual and I feel bad for your children! Why the hell would he want to be back with you? He deserves better!

Queen of Beer	He'd have to be insane to take you back! You accused him of molesting your child?!?!?! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? You are lucky he didn't beat you with a 2 x 4.

Stick	Grow up and let him be happy.