I am a concerned cheater husband i need to know how to help my wife thrue this im worried about her?

Lissy C	Ur an ***! Your wife should see a counselor and you should too. She is much better off without you.

hahaha	marriage counseling

Chi momma	Now do you understand how your action's affect others . I do not want to name call but , you reap what you sow .

dlwhit	Have her move on and meet someone who WON'T cheat on her. She'll be much happier. Once a cheater, always a cheater

Don	You should give her some space. Seeing you reminds her that she married a cheater. She needs to move on.

KingAndrew	Set her free. This is the best gesture of love that you can give her. It will allow her to find her own peace and maybe even find true love. Good luck.

James Dean	You could have prevented the whole thing by not cheating. Tell her to get a divorce, she'll be happy.

ladyren	It's called getting her into counseling, and you, getting out of her life.

ALYSE	well show her you care take a vacation buy flowers,romantic dinner let her tru your stuff to be honest let her have you wiped the only way of her seing the truth about you

Mrs. Jack Sparrow â™¥	Get her in touch with a good therapist and you have to be very understanding right now and prove yourself to her..it's like starting your relationship from the beginning....

Pastor Biker	why dont you tell her your an adulterer and you will always be one, she doesnt deserve you she should divorce you then why dont you get out of her life and she will be much better Im sure in time....

â™¥ Ñ‚Ð½Ñ” ÏƒÑÎ¹gÎ¹Ð¸Î±â„“ gÎ¹Ñâ„“fÑÎ¹âˆ‚Î±Ñƒ â™¥	Let the woman go - grant her a divorce so she can find someone who really loves and cares about her. You are obviously not him.

summer=happiness	it's hard to heal a broken heart, and it's hard to learn to trust someone again. it'll just take time - if she gives you that chance!

don'tmesswithme,bitches	U guys have a really long road ahead of u. It will take everything out of u, and u need alot of counseling, but I give you props for working on it. Just try not to let it happen again, you PIG!

jsmich01	Try marriage counseling. If you are both wanting to save your marriage, counseling is the best way. Give her time to forgive you, and do not expect her to trust you any time soon, if she ever does again.

QWERTY	She will have to have time to get over this. You've absolutely destroyed the psyche of this woman (way to go, I hope it was worth it). If she plans to stay with you you're going to have to regain her trust and love. It's very very difficult.

lola	u knew this would happen, but now u want to help her. U CANT HELP HER! u need to move out of the house, she needs to seek therapy (and u WILL pay for it). i would suggest you stay very clear from her. u really are the last person who can help her. the only thing that will help her is time.

Just Me	You may be truly sorry that you did this to her, but that doesn't mean she's going to be OK with it. I personally would not be able to get over being cheated on. It would always be in the back of my mind anytime you were late or took a call in another room... most women can't continue a relationship with someone who betrayed them this way. She may never get over it. But you only have yourself to blame. Maybe you won't treat your next wife this way.

Narcisist	Wow,,,,,,,how sad you are,,,,,,,,,,I have the perfect solution to your problem,,,,,,,,find her a stud of a man,,,,,,,,have him make love passionately to her while you watch,,,,,,,,,,and then take your wife home to mend your problems if you can. If you really really love her, then after this, you two will be fine. Betrail is very hard to just slip by. I am curious to know what kind of help you got?

nite_angelica	You sound like another self-serving male, that is trying to do NOTHING more than ease your own guilt... at an additional cost to your wife. I'd love to help her work through it. First we'd take all of your clothes out to the front yard and then we'd have a little bon fire. Next, we'd have a garage sale - and all of your toys are a buck each. Of course, you could have the cash when we were done. You'd need it for the crappy little apt you'd be able to afford when my attorney was done with you. Then we'd take your car to your work and spray paint a message so that EVERYONE can understand how sorry you feel about things and what you are going through. Be glad you are married to her buddy... If it were me you cheated on, you'd be looking for a hiding place. Loser.

yvonne p	Why did you cheat to begin with? If you really care about her, you should have known better, many woman cannot forgive & forget, especially if they remained faithful. I tell you if it happened to my relationship with my husband, if he cheated, I'd divorce him, because I dont know if I could ever trust him again, plus if hes out messing around, in this day & age, he could bring home the AID's virus & thats a killer.

DooWopKid	I hope you learned a lesson? Do you know that right now she is also very varenable and can easily make the same mistakes with other men? Ok, pal let's try & fix this. Get yourselves both into marriage counseling. Give her time to heal. Behave yourself like never before and give her any amount of freedom she requests. Kiss her butt 24/7 cook, clean, buy her gifts, flowers & send love notes. You need to give her respect and some control back. Come straight home from work and call her 10 times a day when you are out. Take her to nice romantic resturants and places of fun. Be her friend and make her laugh. You may even have to become a wimp just to save your marriage. It's your mistake now fix it! I gave you helpful hints. Good luck.

notrabaerdna	I think finding a good counselor is the best way to go. She needs someone else to talk to and to help her see what the right thing to do is. Someone who is totally bias about the situation. Shame on you for putting your wife through this. You have done her the worst dishonor by breaking your marriage vows. I hope that you can mend things and right your ways and save your marriage. Good luck to your wife and to you too.

The Original Magic 8 Ball BILF	Even though it seems to be over in your eyes, it is in NO way over for her. It will probably take her months or years to get over what you have done, depending on how deeply you hurt her. The best thing for you to do now is to stand up and be the best damn husband you can be and to live up to what she deserves. Do that everyday for the rest of your life, and you may have a shot at getting over this with her.

Pebbles	Well this is a tough one because you don't want to see her in so much pain, yet you did cause it. The good thing is that you acknowledge what you've done and you're doing something about it. The best thing that you will be able to do is giver her space because the last thing you want is to push her to "feel better" and forgive you. Nothing you can say or do right now is going to make her flip a switch and get better. You just have to be patient more than ever and do things that will regain her trust. You've shattered that and trust is one of the hardest things to build. Be patient and reassuring to her, but also be ready to face good days and really bad days when she remembers and becomes resentful towards you for "no apparent reason." It may take a long time. You can both seek counseling together too! Good luck.

luvcoaster	It's good that you've been trying to be honest with your wife now, however, there must've been times where you were dishonest with her to continue your affair. You must be patient and let her deal with this in her own way. SHE must learn to trust you again, and I'm telling you this could take years. If you truly love her and she truly wants to work this out, I suggest marriage counseling and that she seek a therapist to go to by herself. You must be patient with her feelings during this difficult time in her life. If you say you are going to do something or be somewhere at a certain time, make sure you do it, any slip ups will set her back in regaining trust in you. Good luck!