I am an overly jealous wife... yet i am having an affair... do i love my husband?

dad	Your no more then a pile of [s h i t ] on Gods green earth suicide may be a good idea

Island Girl	Suicide is not the answer for anything, and if you don't want it done to you then why are you doing it to him, have you ever heard the saying what goes around comes around.... anyway you have to tell him and get it out in the open or it is only going to get worse...do you really want to live like that? maybe he feels the same way you do but not talking about it you are going to go crazy so get it off your chest. Good Luck

miester44	You are a pig

downinmn	You are like that because you are cheating - duh! Stop cheating and you will stop being overly jealous. Or, just get a divorce - goodness!

jbhurst01	An overly jealous wife having an affair? Oh, that is classic. Please, figure out which man means more to you and stay with that one. No one deservers to be cheated on except for a cheater themselves. I figure that is why you are so jealous. You are cheating therefore, you suspect your husband of cheating. Get help!

sevenout7	i see two options with this, one just leave..hopefully there are no kids involved..or the second option...do not take anyone with you..you created the situation, i would say get help but more than likely would not help so never mind on that

mrs.b	IT MAKES SENSE THAT YOU ARE SO JEALOUS BECAUSE YOU ARE CHEATING.YOU CAN SEE THAT IT IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO DO IT AND HIM NOT CATCH ON, AND YOU ARE AFRAID THAT MAYBE HE COULD AND YOU WOULDN'T CATCH ON.AS FAR AS IF YOU LOVE YOUR HUSBAND YOU'LL HAVE TO ANSWER THAT ONE.ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOU STOOD BEFORE GOD AND MADE A VOW TO THIS MAN NOT YOUR OTHER MAN. GOOD LUCK!

dianesomeone	you have serious issues....please get some professional help...good luck

Ma Dukes	You probably do love your husband, but it sounds more like you are self-centered. Not that it is a bad thing, most people are selfish, but self-centered is when you consider only how things affect you. For example, you are having an affair to fulfill something in your life that should be fulfilled by your husband. You are jealous because you don't want your husband to be giving any attention to anyone but you. Suicide thoughts need to be dealt with. Don't entertain those thoughts - talk with a professional.

vijay	if you are cheating him, why you are trying to stop him. can i have an affair wit u.

shi.tty.britches	what is wrong with you? so your saying its ok for you to cheat on him but he cant cheat on you. why are you cheating to begin with? obviously you don't love him.

Mum3grls	only you can answer that......it doesn't sound like you respect him though.....and instead of thinking about suicide maybe you could think about ending the affair and working on your marriage

mxzptlk	Typical woman...it's ok for me, but if you do it it's wrong.

Stefka	Your behavior would indicate that you don't love yourself. Please think about attending therapy to face the pain from your past so that you can have a good future.

Valerie	Nice made up question.

t_iran_mon	good news try rat poison and i hope he cheats on you

Awesome Rockin Mom	sound like you need professional help!!

jim	I don't want this to sound mean, but it sounds like you have emotional issues that may need professional help. You're having a difficult time controling your emotions and i hope you don't have "impulse" issues. Please seek help immediately and don't hurt yourself or anyone else.

loverboy	You have no clue what the word "love" means. You are just entirely too possessive, you want him home with you while you are out having your fun.

Robert D	You need to seek counceling to deal with your jealousy and lack of commitment issues. Shame on you for commiting adultry.

punkin	you don't love your husband because you don't love yourself,if you did you'd do all you could to make your self happy instead of doing what harms you emotionally.

CATWOMAN	so you can but he cant, thats ridiculous. suicide is dumb you just come back to earth to repeat your mistakes again.

CandyLandCondoResident	You could cheat and still love someone. You just aren't treating them like you love them. There's a difference. You may love someone but have no self control. You need some therapy I think. Also, I think the reverse guilt is common. There was even a Dane Cook comedy skit on this. However, if you are feeling like you want to hurt yourself, this is serious. You should at least look into some free help or call a 1-800 number in the front of the phone book for these kind of situations. If you have the money, think about seeing a therapist. It's nothing to be ashamed of, since it will help both you and your spouse in the long run.

lisaanndubay	just get a divorce

?	get professional help.......... seriously. otherwise just top yourself if your this mad

Alise	no u are just afraid that he is hurting u like u are hurtin him rught now... so stop before u regret it

sunbun	unfortunately u have made your mess and now u must lie in it