livetall1
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you're a bad girl & you're probably being used by the ex-boyfriend - your poor husband - what a sham you have made out of your marriage. |
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moonlite1us
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What I am hearing here is that your hubby is not giving you what you need. But this old flame is ;-)
Stop thinking about the old flame...there is a reason why he is your ex in the frist place. |
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Tony H #39
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Continue whay you are doing. everything eventually takes care of it's self. |
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heaven o
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You aren't just cheating on your husband , you are cheating on the whole family. I hope your ex is worth the happiness of your family.....hint: You will probably cheat on this guy too. Cheating isn't something that happens until you find happiness. You can't find happiness because you are cheating. Let yourself be happy with your husband. Forget the ex. Think about why you married your husband in the first place and get back to those feelings. |
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working mom of 3
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Well, aren't you a sweetheart? Give your husband the opportunity to find someone new that will appreciate him. Cheating is never the answer. Go start over with the ex, and hopefully, in a five years, he will return your favor. And it won't be his fault, because "he can't help his feelings". |
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Ron
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Get some counseling. He's an ex for a reason. Think of your kids. |
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hope
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One word. KARMA.... and it comes back 10 x's over. Your ex is your ex for a reason. Think to yourself and then ask yourself why did you guys break up and then think in the 5 years you've been married, has your ex changed. It's sugar-coated on top but inside, it's not all it's cracked up to be. Maybe he's whispering sweet nothings to you now because you're married and he's safe playing with you this way. You have alot to think about babygirl, play it safe. Good Luck!!!!! |
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island3girl
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They always say the grass is greener on the other side. You better get a grip because you are on a collision course to mess up MANY people's lives - primarily your childrens, your husbands ability to trust, your exes life, as well as yours.
You better quite messing around and figure out what you want and go with it. |
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Suthern R
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First thing you need to do, is sit your beautiful little girls down and say "Hey girls, I am a ho and I am about to wreck your home, your lifes and your idea of your mommy. I am not only cheating on your daddy, I am doing it with his friend, so no doubt when he finds out, he will probably blow his brains out and it will leave you with a unfaithful mother that probably just got dumped by her ex boyfriend again." That is about what is coming and I hope your selfish desires can see that before it is too late. Your ex obviously only wants one thing and that is in your pants, he does not care about your girls even if he says he does, he is lying. Go ahead, leave your husband for him and see how long until you get left... |
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hippiegirl672003
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You owe it to yourself and your husband to try to fix your problems b4 starting another relationship.Your not doing real well with the relationship you have now.You said it yourself ,you have 2 kids and 5 years of memories.Try to do things the RIGHT way.This will hurt your children and could destroy something that you may actually regret destroying.There may always be strong feelings for your ex and I feel for you that your confused and scared,but your in no position to give up on what you have.Make sure that you can leave your husband with no bad feelings or animosity.You deserve better than sneaking around and your husband and kids do too.Good luck. |
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I think you are a very selfish and horrible person. You are old enough to know the difference between right and wrong. If you felt feelings for this person, you should have met with your husband then and discussed your relationship. This is all your fault and no-one elses. You made a vow when you were married and you have gone against your words. I feel horrible for your daughters-what kind of mother do they have to look up to? What kind of message are you sending to them.
You came on here to ask about this, so you obviously know what you have done is wrong. By all means, tell your husband the truth so that he can move on and be with someone that he can trust.
People like you make me sick and you are what is wrong with society today. If it doesn't work with your ex-I hope your future ex is smart enough to never take you back. |
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Brian M
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What part of THIS IS GOING TO END BADLY do you not understand. Get help before hubby starts connecting the dots, and you're up to your eyeballs in a very sloppy divorce. You gave up your right to philander when you popped out those 2 daughters. If not for your sake, get help for their sakes. B. |
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honeyluv_2010
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Go on Jerry Springer. |
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Diana_84
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take it easy..one step at a time
first think about your daughters...they are the most important and their needs are definitely more important then yours or ur husband's or ur lover's needs
i advice you to take a break from seeing this "ex" and try to save ur marriage
if this doesn't work then u must break up with ur husband...but u must think very well before taking this kind of decision...it will not only affect your life but the lives of everybody you love
take care |
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just_me_1955
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you better remember why the ex became your ex |
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cheer8ko
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Sometimes it is just the rush, of doing something... somehow it seems to bring about a high like no other. I know exactly what you mean... now it's time for you to really focus on what matters most in your life! Whatever it is you need to talk this out with your husband and let him know what is going on, I know this will be extremely difficult, but if it were you in his place ..wouuldn't you like to know? If your choice is to leave him make sure that this thing you have going on with the other man is not just an affair.. to give up a family it has to be worth it! Think of your children, if they are very young it may not be as hard on them... but like I said you need to weigh everything out & rationalize! |
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Cyrus A
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Given that you have two young children with your husband, you have no right to be so selfish. Seek counseling to find out what your husband lacks that attracts you so strongly towards the other man and see if that can be resolved.
You owe it to your children and your husband to remain faithful. You made a vow! Furthermore your behavior will lead your entire family down a dark road for your own carnal desires. Not cool. |
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fred[because i can]
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Advise??? You're waaaay past that sweety...Get counselling now... |
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LaTiiNa BaBii
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the person responsible for whatever happen is you, ask your ex to leave if you really like and love your daughters then forget about your ex, |
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six7foru
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WOW, what were you thinking when you married your present husband?? Think about what made you marry him and try to bring those memories back in your life. Your ex just sounds like a piece of *** for you. So, think about this and make things work out. Remember those words??? For better or for worse......?? |
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dirkdiggler9999
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Go get counselling. It is not fair to your girls to not try to better your marriage. Stop seeing the other guy until then. |
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Kayla
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think about what means more to you...that ex or your loving family and what it will do to your family if you continue to behave in this manner. |
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