I broke up with my boyfriend but im in love with his family! I feel I have lost them too..how shall I move on?
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I broke up with my boyfriend but im in love with his family! I feel I have lost them too..how shall I move on?
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I don't like my family so I used to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend who lives in denmark. He introduced me to his family and my gosh...it was like paradise. They loved me and treated me like their own daughter...!! They loved me so much, i cant describe but I was always wlecome in their new home. I felt like I finally had a real family, a wonderful boyrfriend and his parents who treated me like their own daughter. Even my boyfriends sister and her husband used to treat me with so much respect and kindness.
But my boyfriend and I broke up due to many many complications. I then moved to england. But he still was sooo nice to me. He said I was always welcome in their family. He still sends me regular photogrpahs of all of them, their parents call me. I speak to my sister who was also married recently and I couldnt attend the function but she still sent me photos of her wedding. When I hear them over the phone, i cry....my gosh...theyre the perfect family.
I havent told MY family about them at all. They just knew about my boyfriend but THATS IT. It would hurt them more if i told them that i love his family more than my own.
Problem; I know i dont have a future with my ex. And i know i have to forget that family and move on. I just dont know how. Many people have nasty breakups with their ex and its sooo much easier for them to move on. But my ex..he is still as perfect as ever. After my ex I went into another relationship and still 'my ex' was very patient and tolerant with me. I know he deserves someone better than me
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Raymond
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I ended up in foster care as a child. I never really had a family until I got with my second foster care family. That was in the 9th grade, their whole family took me in as part of the family. When I got divorced at 37, they literally took her in and never once even called to see how I was. I had thoughts of going postal, though I never would. That aside you don't have to tell your family you love them more. Just say you care about then and stay in touch with them. It is a wonderful feeling to have people come into you life that will care about you and stay in touch with you no matter what. They sound like wonderful people. |
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Mike
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its hard when you had a connection to his family but you need to realize that things were not perfect with him, there were alot of problems and it just didnt work out. Accept that and move on, the more you keep obsessing over this the worse you're going to feel and you're not giving yourself a chance to form new relationships either. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, why dont you focus on improving things with your own family? You experienced a loving family, the same can happen to yours but you need to be positive and make the effort. They might already be thinking the same as you, they just dont know how to tell you. Go out with your friends, get to know people who share your interests and make new friends, see where the friendships go. Figure out what it is you're really looking for. If you're constantly living in the past, you'll never have a future. You have your whole life ahead of you. |
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Nicola
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It is a good thing to be bought into a family but please NEVER down yourself! You both deserve whatever it is that makes you happy in life. Sometimes things just don't work out unless you've done things that made him walk away from you and it's something that time can heal. If that isn't the case, maybe you guys weren't meant to be but if the love is there and you two were really in love, give it time and see where it goes, you never know. As far as his parents, call on holidays, birthdays and leave it at that. They too will need time to re-ajust their families since you are no longer a close part of the family. Give yourself time to heal and seek love within to help you love whom you are. |
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