I cheated, he's the one apologizing. I want to leave, but I feel too guilty after cheating.SO LOST!?

Real American	send me a private message so we can meet up

Monica	Oh my goodness the lady is a tramp

Grape Head	Leave him alone, poor guy

LorenaBob-It!	just leave him and move on with your life

Onthego	You cheated on him. What a mistake!!...So, cheater, do him a favour: get lost.

Thomas	sad to said, but sound like to me that you have a condition love for him.

Cooley	Be a real woman and leave him.

brkn	Can't u see?? He is USING you... He doesnt want u to leave cuz u r to good for him and he knows it.. U cheated cuz he is a tool. DUMP HIM!!! Best of luck!

Bitchin88	If you cheated you have answered your own question. You owe it to him to leave. God has nothing to do with it.

Bret F	If you dont love him get out, you will only hate yourself for not moving on. Be honest, and tell him that its over.

â™¥BeautifulKâ™¥	You made vows. Stick with them. That's the problem with people. They never wanna stick to their promises. So prove me wrong!!! Get some marriage counseling!

frank c	You cheated and you feel guilty? Maybe you don't want to go you just want things to change.

jude	if u want to leave just leave. why lower yourself by cheating and compromising your own morals. why waste your time or his.

Marilyn	what do you mean a real woman and left him? a real woman respects her vows and works through it, as long as he's commited.

Quaker O	Number one leave then again, you were dumb to marry a non working loser in the first place. Keep making these mistakes.

Carly Robertson	you need to end the relationship asap, it will only get worse if you keep prolonging it. youre just hurting yourself and him by avoiding conflict.

Franklymydear	What is wrong with you? This isn't a question. Cut him loose. Then do yourself and him a favor and leave town.

mike67333	everybody falls in and out of love. Its up to you. maybe a break and time to think. It really is your choice.

honest answers	You are going to be in the same boat a year from now when the guilt has worn off. If you want to leave, then you have to be honest and tell you want to separate. Don't delay the inevitable.

Jake	Are seriously going to listen to people over this and decide upon the answers like seriously this is serious buisness not to offend you but not many people are going to but a very thought out question. Ask someone close to you what you should do not this stupid forum.

patty44	Remember what goes around comes around, all you and your husband are doing is playing games with each other. Whose going to be the adult in this marriage and really get to the reason why both of you are not ready for RESPONSIBILITY. Both of you are selfish.

jaclovision	hi if you don t love him anymore there is no point in staying,you are doing him more harm than good,be honest talk to him and let him go. both of you deserve to be loved, and a chance at happiness. both of you made mistakes forgive each other move on.my advice to you.good luck bye

CoeyG	Of course you feel guilty, you destroyed your marriage. You made yourself untrustworthy in the eyes of someone who believed in you. All you can do is finish it, end the marriage and let him move on to someone who actually deserves him.

iceman	You need to be honest. With yourself. You aren't and weren't happy. Both of you deserve honesty in your life and the opportunity to go on with your lives. If you were a guy, I'd say "man up" do the right thing. You aren't a guy, so I can only say..."do the right thing"

luvn mi life az mommie and wife	LEAVE. Believe me if you stay it'll get worse and you'll end up resenting him even more and he you this will cause unnecessary heartache and drama. I think if you seriously don't want the marriage anymore you should be woman enough to tell him and walk away.

MsIndependent12	Do you have any kids? If you do then i would say try to work it out because it will be too hard on them. But if you don't then keep it moving until you find the right one for you or at least give each other space for a couple of months and then decide what to do. Maybe you just need time away from each other. Good luck. I know it's tough.

Thomas	Limbo: As you say "I cheated as an easy out of the marriage". "but my love for him was lost a long time ago & I don't know if I can fall in love with him again. So why now stay in a LOVELESS marriage? Who is it helping neither one of you. Do as you say "I should be a REAL woman and left him". Better to do it now instead of wasting another 2 & 1/2 years or longer.

banana6464	What I hear you say is that you are done but you don't want to tell him you are done because you feel so guilty about cheating. If you are done, say you are done. Be honest - he deserves at least that much. Don't string him along with the hope you can reconcile if you can't. That's a hard thing to do but it's the right thing.

Travis	He obviously loves you, you committed for better or for worse with him. One of those for worse parts was him mooching off his mom and being too busy for you etc. Marriage is the bond that keeps couples together when they fall in and out of love. Marriage counseling and a personal therapist could do you alot of good, you owe it to your spouse in the commitment you made, especially before you walk away from him. He's willing to forgive you, who else would?