I checked my boyfriend's computer and found he was searching for female singles, what do I do?

marie	Well, I can't answer the part about his opinion of your snooping, because I have no point of reference for that. I wouldn't have asked for so much trouble. But if I were you, I would make a beeline for your computer and sign up with your own personal account ASAP. And dump him, why waste your time?

ajanene71	I found the same stuff in my b/f e-mails, he was looking for 18 to 32 year olds, I confronted him with it and he said he was just curious and has never really talked to anyone because he would have had to pay for it. I do believe that he was curious about it and I also know that he was getting some excitement from certain sites when i wasn't around,(if u know what I mean) but he is always home with me at night , so I guess I have nothing to really worry about. If yours is actually meeting these women you should find out and if he is KICK HIM TO THE CURB IMMEDIATELY!!! but try to give him a chance and see what happens.

geneosandman	I hate to be the one to give you bad news....But....I have been down this road and it ends with you getting hurt.....Love can make youo really stupid and make you accept things that you normally would not.....I gave my life to a woman that did this very thing to me...After 14 years we are no longer together...The last several years were the worst.....Then She left one night and didnt come back till late the next day.....Cut you losses and protect yourself....I know you love him but love doesnt fix everything...No matter how much you want it to....You deserve better....G

David P	Why do you even have to ask this question? Unless you are blind, you already know the answer!

Gn Lee	Unfortunately your suspisions maybe true. There is no reason for him to be searching, he has you after all, you do not deserve this or should say he does not deserve you. Just friends? Unless he is gay, I am sure he doesn't have just girl friends...

smilingtalker_au	It is a very dangerous game he's playing and I wouldn't trust him. I am married and only have women friends all of them are kind and my wife knows about them and they abour her. If he's doing it behind your back I think it gives you an insight into the future

PRISCILLA L	hey think looking for girls on the web? talk to him a realashonship has to have trust.

freedomrings	For you to be worried about this, should answer your question. As for your boyfriend, he is not mature enough to handle a commitment. He is looking for greener pastures and all he will find is desolation. Break it off while you can. The writing on the wall is before your eyes so heed the warning before you really get hurt. It's easier to do than you think. Go for it and good luck.

Maybe I am a smartass..so what	So he was searching for girls that are single...this is not enough to convict him for cheating. He can easily say that he was looking for an old friend or that he prefers to chat with single girls...that does not mean he is cheating..if you find logs regarding hook ups then that is diffrent. I think you jump to quick this time though..

fergi909	just ask him about it

Chech~A~Roo	I would talk to him about it, let him know that you feel that his behavior is not acceptable. He may just be looking just out of boredom, and many guys don't consider internet relations as cheating. So you really need to make it clear that it makes you uncomfortable, and that you really want to be able to trust him, but this puts doubt in your mind about your future together. Communication is the Key.

Tiffany	I would tell him its fixing to be over if he does not stop! No man specifically searches for just females to make "FRIENDS" Don't be blinded by the truth and let him walk all over you!! Im sure you are a good beautiful person and you can find someone else if he is not man enough to not look for other women!!! Put your foot down now before its too late!!

mustang.baby	If your so worried and if use have a stable and serious relationship sit down and talk to him especially if he knows that your snooping ask him why his looking for singles and that you just want to understand whats going on. Tell him how you feel then if you still dont believe him after that then your afraid and dont trust him and in a relationship you need trust the best thing is if you sit and talk to him and try and find out why his doing it so you can understand, it will be alot better then snooping around and least your confronting him.

lilshrtcke2001	he is looking and the writing is on the wall, but what I always say is if you go looking so you should find. you were wrong to snoop in the first place so not only do you not trust him he don't trust you. About at the end cause with no trust there is nothing anyway. You just want it to be.

phxtiger30	just start looking for men..Dont waste your time fighting, crying or anything else over a man...So not worth it.

glassflower	it's not a good sign, maybe some more investigation work would do. Usually I'm not one to say that, but I think you have every right to do what you need to find out the truth. You'd rather know now than after you're married or have kids.

Dell Tech	Yes, he's planning to cheat on you... Why in this world would I want to look for single girls while I already have a girlfriend? Plus, you shouldn't even ask us this question, you should use your common sense.

Special K	Let him be single. Don't try to hold on to him, if he wants to be single, let him be. The proof is in the pudding, don't be a blind fool for love, it hurts when you go into the game a loser.

Bayne	Get moving! If he's looking now he'll always be looking.

curmudgeon	Dr. Phil says, people with nothing to hide, hide nothing. You can't plan a life together with him as he is.

hulkamanialivesforevr	Set him up with a gay guy.

k eric b	hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm you can shop and he can't? is that fair? maybe he is just curious whats out there if and when he is looking maybe he wouldn't do it online either

bogey	snooping around is immature and a true sign of insecurity. Your time woud be better spent looking for a replacement for him on line.

Mrs. Smarty Pants	Four letters honey..........D U M P! Get rid of him now, before you regret it. If he is being sneaky now, he will be later. Also, the seed of doubt has already been planted in your mind, it will do nothing but grow from here.

Miley Cyrus	First of all i no you want to no wats going on but you have no right to be snooping around with his stuff and 2nd if you no this MOVE ON ALREADY

Nagitarâ„¢	first off quit spying on him and then leave his butt

bella36	go with your gut....have a heart to heart chat. sounds like a cheating dog to me........i would send him to the curb and wait and see what happens.

Crappy Haircut Girl	Do a bit more snooping-- I'm not going to give you the trash that it's wrong, but in some cases it's okay. Don't let him find out, if he is looking for more girlfriends, and you find that again, tell the girls he's talking to, then leave him and move on.

beccaa ox `	hun, hes just a pig who isnt good enough for you. you need to pack your bags and dont let him do this to you. if he truely loved you, he would love ONLY you.

Ms. Denton Lone Star â„¢	Leave him. You deserve better.

pete c	Do you love him? Why snoop? If he hasnt done anything Dont worry. Get some proof before you start pointing the finger