I dating a married man?

John S	umm how can you not know he is married? Lets see not around on weekends? dont plead like you didnt know.

d	whats wrong with you? ,Yes you are a bad person and its not going to work out. That man is married.

misty c	No it will not work out. and you need to tell his wife cus it sound like you both would be better off without a scummy man like him in your lives.

Quasimodo	And the moral of the story is: It takes no brains, morals, scruples or decency to ***** and breed.

It's Her Again!!	Yes, you are bad. No it won't work out. Give the baby up for adoption. Move away and start over. This time try to be a decent human.

Horse Up	Shar, Shar, Shar. You really are stupid arent you! But then again, if your that stupid I guess it just comes natural to you ! You will be the big loser in the end!!!!!!!!! The answer is your worse than a bad person. Being stupid is worse than being bad!

kimberly k	well it makes you a person with no respect for others feelings or any morals. his poor wife. you should be ashamed of yourself. be prepared for the consequences.

2Westies	You decided to have a baby with this man after you found out his wife was pregnant. That's not bad it's totally irresponsible. I feel sorry for the baby ... its dad playing house in 2 different places. I hope you know what you're doing.

sheloves_dablues	It makes him an even slimier dog than he was.. Does he plan to support this child? Because his wife is going to notice that he's giving money to some strange woman... I hope you don't regret this in the future.. If he'll cheat to be with you, he'll also cheat on you...

...Tammy...	Yes youre a bad person and NO it wont work out.If he hasnt left her for you hes not in love with you.He is however having his cake and eating it to and will or should be paying child support...she'd find out about you then... THEN he might be single lol

gala ria	not another one. you are a bad person because you knew he's married with 3 kids. now, you're pregnant. how fair is that to your child? he's not going to get to see his dad. no, he's not going to leave his wife for you.

cheezyhill	YES you are not only bad you are pretty stupid. Will it work out? Lets see he is in a relationship (married with 3 children) and he is cheating. Will he cheat on you in the future? A DOG does not change. He is a dog and you are worst for continuing long after you knew.

kelannde	Sure it will work out - for HIM. He has a wife at home, and you on the side. He's the only one who has what he wants - two stupid women who both tolerate his infidelity. If you mean "will he leave his wife and marry me" - then I'd have to guess "NO." They rarely do. Now you get the added bonus of telling your child that its father was a liar and a cheat.

LonnieLove	It makes you a person that does not have good self esteem, a good sense of judgement and your lines between right and wrong are blurred....Unfortunately, it will not work out, will only end in drama and tears, confused children and hurt feelings....consult with your obstetrician or midwife about having an std panel done and start protecting yourself for your child.

MEghzzz	see babes.... if u thought tht it was wrong in dating a married person in the first place then u should have learnt to let go... if u stilll continued to be with him then i am assuming tht u beleived u were right... if u were convinced tht he loved u then u should have asked him to leave his wife... if he didnt agree to tht u shouldnt have planned for a kid, if it was a mistake thn it was a different thing... Have u ever thought wht the future of ur kid will be... this man is not even married to you .... wht is ur child going to face.. where is the security for ur kid... Love is blind but not to this extent.... Prioritize ur life and think long term.... ur kids future depends on wht decision u take...u dont have the rights to ruin ur kids life simply caz u wanted to have a kid with a married man ....

roseanna h	It makes you despreat. No its not going to work out. One of 2 things will happen. He won't leave his wife and you will be raising his baby by yourself or he will leave his wife and the 1st chance he gets he will cheat on you. Karmas a b*tch. What makes you so special were you think he should be with you and not his kids.

YaWhoDee	Yep...and when the KARMA you deserve comes to call don't say "why me!". You're living in a fantasy...shake it off...grow up...and get into the real world. It's never to late to end a relationship THAT NEVER SHOULD HAVE BEEN. Do you think he is going to leave his wife and kids when she finds out he is going to have to support his "love" child for at least the next 18 years? Don't count on that event being anything more than a confirmation you are a single parent home wrecking machine. The biggest loser here is the innocent you selfishly added to this situation.

Justin R	It is not your fault that he didn't tell you he was married. So don't blame yourself. What you should do is tell his wife she deserves to know that the man she married broke his vows and is cheating on her. If you have any sense you would not want get envolved with some who cheats on his wife. He obvisouly cares for no one but himself. The fact that he has kids just makes it more disgusting.

LuluB	You had a baby after knowing he was a liar, cheater, and married. Besides being immoral, you're not too bright. Being 'in love' doesn't make it right. He will not leave her and has probably done this before. He will string you along, keep on lying and cheating. It won't work out. Cut your losses now and throw him out of your life. If you decide to raise the child, get child support. If you decide to place for adoption, that would be good. If you throw him out, have no contact with him so that you can move on. Check out www.lovefraud. com for more info on liars and cheaters and how to take care of yourself.

Monica Sigstad	You found out he was marriade,why did you have a baby with him.If he cheated on his he cheat on you too,garanteed.If you were his wife you would not like him to cheat.Most marriade men stay with there wives,especially if they have kids.my ex cheated on me and i found out,i garantee she will find out soon or later.NO THIS WILL NOT WORK OUT>Turn to God in prayer,ask Him to help you get out FAST.He is an adulter,they dont change.

Mary!	It doens mean that you are a bad person, you are just confused in love. Honestley its not gong to work what is going to happen to your child. He is going to go home to his wife and kids. Sleep in his house have dinner with his family, what about your child? Is he ever going to live with you? or how is he going to spend time with your dhild? now is the time to really think what is fair to you and you child.

FlyGirl Kori	Shar, he's a cheater. What do you think? You are not a bad person, he is. You are not the married one. Trust me, you do NOT want this guy. Even if he does leave his poor wife, alone with 4 kids that he has to pay child support on for the rest of his life. Whatever you do, do not blame her. She is not at fault for her husband being a dirtbag. Think about how she will feel when she finds out about you. She thinks she's in a good, secure marriage with someone who loves her. They have THREE little ones already here and another on the way. Those kids do not deserve to have their daddy ripped apart from them.

Da 5th	Wow that is a sticky situation.For one you're not a bad person he just didn't told you accurate infomation.I mean if you asked for sandwhich did you said peanut butter & jelly or ham & chesse?We guys do that alot & for you to be pregant really I think he didn't see that one comming from you.I mean he do knows about his wife was but you just now sent this dude off to go buy more liquor for the double shots he'll taking now & trying to figure out who he gonna get out of this relationship or with his wife or might try to play both ends. It's like my moms used to tell me you can't get ya cake & icecream too & if you then you bit off more than you can chew & that's what it sounds like on ya guy's part.He done messed up now.My question to you is are you gonna be mistress who will mis-stress (I mean not dealing with his bull) or be the woman who know gotta learn this life's hard lesson on her own & remember never put ya heart in a minds predictament?I feel sorry for ya becuz you love him but truth to be told something gotta give either you his wife one of you is on the chopping block.Stay loved & good hearted~1~!!! P.S Been there done that I made my choice very well...

Kat	Do you even really have to ask? Seriously, you knew he was married and still stayed and decided to have a baby with him. Have fun raising the baby on your own. The man isn't going to leave his wife and soon to be 4 kids for you. He's disgusting and so are you. If you really thought it was ok, then you wouldn't have had to ask this question. I feel bad for the wife, at home pregnant probably thinking all is ok with life, and then there you are....

daddys girl	why would you decide to have a baby in this situation. you know you are going to raise this baby on your own. he has probably said that he will leave his wife soon right. but when the kids are older, now there is another one on the way. my mom used to hear the same thing, that is when i was in the 6th grade now i am 34 and he is still married and all the kids are out of the house. it makes you a person that fell in love with the wrong person and for you i hope it works out and that you dont waste your life waiting for him like my mother did all these years.

â™¥ = loved â‹† â˜…	it could go either way.he may cheat on you or he may love you to death.all I know is you have yourself in a bad situation.why would you want to have a baby with a man who has a pregnant wife?you should have waited till the divorce was final and the baby she was having was born.all I can say is that since you went about everything wrong you might get what you deserve.treat others like you would want to be treated.by you being with him after you found out he had a peg wife you were in the wrong.as for will it work out I don't know how it could your beginning of the relationship was based on lies and deceit.

luvlisteningtomusic	You are not a bad person you just don't have commen sence. You should of broke it off with this no good for nothing cheating man. Now he has his wife pregnant and now so are you. Your future doesn't look so good. Be prepared for lots of stress in the future. You now are going to break up a family and hurt 4 other children plus your own. He might come running to you after his wife kicks him to the curb and you will be there opened arms letting him come in because "you love him" then after a few years this man will probably find someone else to replace you as well and then you will get a taste of your own medicine. You screwed up.