I discovered my husband's profile on an adult fling site! What should I do?

Dads boy	Put your own profile in fling and send him a photo.

tazman111	i have been on dating sites before. even fling. take a picture of a friend and open a profile of your own. use your body see if he recognizes it. and try to hook up with him. fling you can do things with hiding your face.then you will see what it is he is up to. just looking or cheating

THE OTHER WOMAN	Apologize! Sometimes you get what you went looking for. I am The Other Woman in my situation and I know if a wife is sneaking in her husband's email, she already knows he's having an affair. Good luck.

**starstruck	that's just so wrong, i'd be soo mad. you should ask him about it and if he has a pitiful excuse or says something like it's not a big deal then dump him, because you clearly can't trust him. Are you confident that this is the first time he has done this?

Annie	Wow, not fun to run into. Sorry you had to find this out. I assume you have talked to him about this, obviously he will know when he find out his computer is in the trash. Do not just gloss it over, he may have followed through with meeting some of these women. I wish you a lot of luck.

Spartan-girl	ask for an answer you have every right to be mad but try to be understanding It might seem hard but theres a reason for everything even the bad things listen to him even though you don't want to and figure things out from there or decide something for all you know he just wants some extra attention show him that you can give it to him and he doesn't need any body else

Jodab	He seems to be looking for options. If you're comfortable with someone whose not 100% committed to you, then stay with him. If not, then end it now while it's early and there are no kids.

Balls Deep	Two sides to every story. For all we know you could have cheated on him in the past.

Mark	Is there evidence that he has been seeking relationships with other women through Fling or just looking at pictures? If he is actually pursuing meeting other women, then hasta la vista, baby. Also, the fact that you are inappropriately snooping through his email behind his back is not a good sign in the first place. It shows that your relationship lacks trust already.

Enigma_Muse	First of all, I wanna say im sorry. It must be tough for you... My dad cheated on my mom so I can relate to what your going through. First you should calmly ask him about it. Depending on his answer and depending on whether or not you have kids you should probably decide about leaving for the night, give him something to think about, whike you cool down with the comfort of family. Then you should talk to him again and then decide whether you want to stay with him or not. Good Luck

DaNewGuy	When will you learn that curiosity killed the cat?

Willa	Confront him. You ned to bring this behavior out in the open and come to some resolution and understanding with your husband about what constitutes infidelity, inappropriate boundaries, and unacceptable behavior. And then haul him off to marriage counseling. If he's not receptive, then you can know you married the wrong man before you settle into this marriage and have children into an unhappy home.

Tom	Stop advertising for FLING.COM troll

Ocimom	Divorce?

Raven	throw him in there as well no but really talk to him about it and find out whats going on. Is your marriage worth saving and is he willing to reverse the damage

dis_orient_ed	What were the catagories?

LorenaBob-It!	chuck him in the trash

stringcheese	take the money and RUN

áƒ¦ âšœ ãƒ„	talk to him

cheÎ¹sea â™¥	Chuck him in the trash too!

:D	CALMLY talk to him! talk, and dont over react. takes time :/ im sorry but it might bring bad news

Mr. Pants	Kick HIM to the curb....Wait! I like the first guys answer best. Do it!!!

Doug J	You destroyed his personal property? He probably just wanted to look at the naked pictures, not cheat on you.

thesamri	maybe he just likes to look. And why the hell would you throw a computer away?

hsmith0587	chuck him in the trash too

Hitchhiker	put your profile on there and then solicit him.... that'll be good for laughs!