I dont ever want to get married again....?

kjboyd5799	It is entirely possible to stay singel and be happy, just do what you want to and dont worry about what people think...or yes it could change and you may find yourself happy with someone and want to spend the rest of your life with.

ladybyrd_20	I feel the same.I have told my hubby and everybody else that when we are over there will never be another man in my life.i want have to answer to anyone ever again.i can satisfy myself i don't need a man for that.They make to many toys for women and i don't have to do it when i don't want to.i'll get my fix when i want it.I can enjoy being with my girls and we can have a ball...

shereen	that can chnage all poepl i knows said that after divorce or after break up. but we were made postive and hopful by god . so soon the best doctor( time) ll heal u and u woudl wanna man in ur life good luck give love a chance:D

C R	It can change if you switch teams and find yourself a really good lover.

kbama	You could change your mind or you might stay single. Either way you can be happy.

kc	I have been divorced for i dunno like 5 years now and if i get married again then i do but i am happy right now not being married. If it comes along then it does and if not till im 60 then that works too.

Go GO Ressa	it will change. NEVER SAY NEVER. I would say, while you are in this state of thinking. Start working on the things you need to work on about yourself. That way, when you meet the next person, you will know what you want and what you don't want. Never spend too much time talking about the ex. I will tell you, you will get married again. Don't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch. OK?

Tweety	Both options are possible. You may have a second chance at love, and meet someone spectacular you'll want to marry. Or you may choose to remain single, and lead a very happy life as well.

come2kitty77	If you are happy with the way your life is now then.. so be it...mayb you had a bad experience in your last marriage...they are not all bad...mr right might still be out there...let him find you instead of you doing the soulmate searching...my aunt has been divorced for like 20 years and is happy as a lark...i recently split from my husband(making it the 2nd) and i could care less if i ever marry again...i like living alone...yeah its lonely sometimes but that's what "friends" are for...happiness is what you make it...not from just being with someone...

Kloe	Life is full pf possibilities!!! Anything can happen. Good Luck ;-)

Q~T	Either or... You may change your mind if you meet the right person. You may even decide that a piece of paper that legally binds you is not really that important. As long as you love one another who cares anyway.

Lady Hewitt	This is totally up to you and what you want for your life. Yes this can change over time or you can stay single and happy if you want and choose to. Life is all about choices. I feel that if my husband passes away that i will never marry again as i will be happy being by myself and maybe date here and there but marriage again will not be in the cards or future for me. I truley love my husband and if he passes away before i do i do not feel that i could find someone anything like him to even come close to comparing to who and what he is as my husband.

Nicki	If that is what you chose, you can do anything you like. If you change your mind then that is your priority. Lot of people have a bad marriage and hate the thought of having to be with someone and then finding out it isn't working. You can be happy single if you can support yourself and have the lifestyle you choose, sure you can for the rest of your days. Your lucky to be able to choose to be married or have a nice life and stay single. People get married just to be with someone and again you can be with someone any way you choose married or single, you got it made stay single unless you find that right one that may change your mind, Best of Luck To You. I choose to stay single and I love it.

martiek7	No one has to get married - ever - not a 1st time, 2nd or however many times - ever! You will decide if having a ceremony is important tp you or not and if you find yourself with another person who makes you compeltely happy and visa versa & everything is good and that person wants a ceremony - you'll either love that person enough to say ok or it will be because that person loves you so much they will forgo ever needing a ceremony. That's all it is - a ceremony. There is too much stigma attached to "MARRIAGE" If two people who are truly in love want a ceremony - so be it - but it does not HAVE to happen!

Here's your change	Once bitten, twice shy? I don't believe that you need to be married with kids to be a complete person. That is something that comes from within. If you are happy being you, can be in a monogamous relationship without "marriage" being part of the package, then you've found your happy place.

Marilyn H	I stayed single for 14 yrs after my divorce. Of course I had 5 children to support and had to work all of my life. I dated a lot but no man wanted a women with 5 children. I did marry afer 14 yrs and was with the man for 2 yrs. then was married to him for 2 yrs.......boy that was a big mistake. My children were teenagers then and did not like him and he didn't want them around either ....... so we got divorced. I never got married again...... I made a new life and am close to my children and grandchildren and I do not miss having a husband....... I can take care of myself, do what I want to do, whenever I want to do it and do not have to take care of anyone but myself. I have many friends and do a lot of things with my family. I couldn't be happier!

cool_honeybabe	I never did and will try to my best not to opt for that solution.I NEVER meant marriage is the end of freedom AND NOT BEING MARRIED is not the end of the world either!

Violet Pearl	Anything is possible.

Icewomanblockstheshot	After a long and disastrous long term relationship, I said I'd never marry. Then along came this loveable guy who was determined to capture my heart. We are married now, and have a set of triplets Life is what happens to you while your busy making other plans, so get on with it, and don't sweat.

Perfectly Said	So maybe the question you're asking yourself is, "Do I need a mate in order to be happy?" Staying single means that you don't have to be lawfully committed, but you can still be committed to someone if you choose. If you've already been married and now you're not willing to do it again, I think you can still find meaning in your relationships. Choose your own path and be willing to follow it. -BD

Tall Chicky	It usually changes. You just didn't find the right guy. You never know who might be right around the corner. :)

big one	become independent and learn to be happy. when the right person comes along, it will just add happiness to your life and then you'll know it's right.

Millionaire in training	I think it can change with the right person. I just think that if you are younger, whats the hurry? Unless you are aching to have children, what's the point. I don't see anything wrong with not getting married even if you are in a long term relationship. It's just a piece of paper and I think it definately changes people.

Nels N	I guess it is possible to stay this way and be happy. Personally I'd get lonely. Maybe you could try room-mates or friends to keep you on an even keel.

Beach Bum Wannabe	never say never. Things tend to happen when you say that. You never know when you might meet Mr. Right. I had not dated in a year half when I met my wife

ohiofirefighter42	Changed for me...remarried 4 yrs later...thats what happens when the right one comes along

a_lot_smarter_now	Whatever makes YOU happy is possible. I would give some thought as to why you don't want to get married, though. If it's because you honestly hated being married, that's one thing. If it's because you got hurt, then, people can still hurt you emotionally..married or not.

kinoko-pie	Of course! It is your life! ( v )

Drew G	It can change, or you can stay single.