I dont love my husband anymore, its a nightmare with him, should i leave him???

Mrs. Duncan	Try counseling and see what that does. If you feel very strongly that this will not work out, then it is best to just end it.

bill b	Let's see now: fight, disrespect, hate, nightmare, ignore? And what part of this is healthy??

dawnb	It sounds like you didn't have your ducks in a row before you married. Did you talk to each other about how you saw your life together? Did you know if you had shared goals, religious beliefs and thoughts about children? Did you understand that brutal communication was important in your daily married life? Did you have any idea other than lust what your life together was supposed to be about? Sounds to me that none of these factors played a role in your discussion about marriage. Cut your losses since you have no children and figure out how to make the right choice the next time.

Michaelhere	You both made a mistake getting married. Get a divorce, you both are too young to carry that burden, you were not made for each other, put an end of your bad marriage, and move on; life's too short to waste it in such a bad, loveless relationship. Good luck

Tara	When a woman, or a man, really - really wants to leave their spouse - they don't have to ask anyone. They know. Without a single doubt, they know .. and they leave. When a person has to ask another person if they should leave their spouse .. then they are unsure if they should leave, or not leave.

:)	Don't focus on the outside things but instead try to figure if the love you guys had is really gone and try to picture yourself when he's not in your life. In the end it should be about just you 2 not the inlaws.

sun day	My husband has a temper, and tend to yell and call me names. I'm not nearly as bad as him, but I have my faults. Anyway, I started realizing that my feeling for him were starting to fade, I just couldn't forget all the awful things he has said to me. So, I packed up my things and the pets and moved in with Mommy for a few days. I left a note that said that I loved him and wanted nothing more than to make it work, but that he had to stop getting so angry all the time etc. I told him that when he was ready, to please call me. He called me and asked when I would be coming home, and apologized and agreed to really work on his temper. I came home and it's been 2 wks. and it's amazing how much he's trying to watch what he says before he says them etc. This is the thing though, we actually love each other and want to make it work. There are family members of his that don't like me either...you know what? IT DOESN'T MATTER! This is about you guys. Go to counseling and try to make it work. Think about what is was like when you first started dating and try to remember why you married him in the first place. Your pretty young, there are going to be changes that you will have to endure, only you can figure out if your love is strong enough to make it work. Good luck.

Jesse	Yes, leave now! You don't have kids, you are young, you are not happy, you are not treated with love and respect, you are "hated" .....well? Have you left yet? You won't regret finding a new wonderful life.

Jeff	OK before you get all upset at me, remember you asked! Why are you still there? You are still very young and deserve much better!

Student Doctor House	If you don't learn to work out issues like this, you are going to be 40 with at least 3 or 4 marriages under your belt. Seriously, just because you can't get along doesn't mean you quit. You guys are very young, and it's probably a new marriage. My husband and I probably didn't work out a lot of issues for at least 2 years into the marriage. Don't quit....tell him what's bothering you and try to work it out. If that fails, go see a pastor at a church (they do it for free) or go to a marriage counselor. Divorce should be a LAST resort, and I wouldn't even consider it unless physical abuse or cheating was involved.

suehellen	try to work it out, THE BOTH of you, if youre not interested, then just give up, the best things in life are hard to achieve, if you want a good marriage youre gonna have to make it work, but if you already feel like giving up, then go ahead

jess	if your unhappy and there is nothing that you can do to make things better like counciling then yes.... you should leave ..sounds like you both would be happier that way

Crystal	I think u should talk 2 a marriage councilor first before just breaking up a marriage. U have 2 think u got married 4 a reason so try and save it before u do anything u might regret

daljack -a girl	I suggest marriage counseling together or go alone. From your ages you can't be married very long.

Mac	one thing for sure is things need to change.either you both work together to try to change things or end it.it takes two to make a marriage work.talk to him to see how he feels and get some counseling.oh and by the way screw the family . all that matters is both of you.good luck

SWEETYPI	Get out NOW. Children will make your situation worse. Be thankful they are not living in that environment.

DJ R	Get out now... before things get really ugly

some female	Your relationship is abusive. Only an idiot would fight for that. Have some self respect and leave him.

Dove	You have already made the decision as soon as you stopped loving him. Leave before you have kids and ruin their lives.

Camille C	probably ought to end it... but i'd suggest getting things resolved as much as possible before parting ways... that way you guys don't have to hate each other, and you can just come to terms with the fact that you guys obviously had a connection but weren't suited for each other romantically. no regrets...

Q-mama	Why prolong the mutual misery? If there is something worth saving try counseling but if you're both unhappy why keep going on?

â™¥Pure Evilâ™¥	If u don't love him and u know that's the truth, then yes u need to leave. If u have tried all u can and there's no way the love will come back then u do what u need to do. Life is to short don't waste any of it cuz u'll never get it back!

Lisa D	Get out now. I don't think you should even think about having children at all with this guy. You're too young to put up with this move on. Best of luck.

Lulu	Obvioulsy...run like the wind and dont look back

missy	you have no kids !! leave be4 u have em and feel trapped!!

kelleylu	Get out while you can...

KingDavid	I never advocate for splitting up or divorce. But in your case, no children, you are very young, Sure!!! Maybe start off with a temporary separation and take it from there!

tiffany a	all i know is that it's harder when kids come along so if you are gonna bail, DO IT NOW

bronzebabekentucky	marriage counseling!

Mary S	if you can't work it out, you should leave before you have children. its alot easier that way.