I dont think im ready to give a Bj or hand job!?

dz	and why is this is marriage and divorce.

Heather G	He's using you. Trust me, I've been there before. Ditch him and find someone who will treat you like a gentleman.

purpleheartssbetches	definetly dont do it. even if you were ready i dont think you should do it. hes just using you fersure sorry

Jonny Michaels	first you shouldn't do anything that you dont want to and second if you aint goin out you relly shouldnt be thinking about anything like that

freckles_4	Don't do anything that you are not completely comfortable doing. When you are ready for that you will know.

Janet W	This question is not appropriate. It is also posted on marriage issues so it's not even in the right category.

Smiley16	Dont do wat yu dont feel comfortable doing. Yu can do tht kind of stuff wen yu are actually ready, dnt rush into it if yu dnt wnt to do it

Jon G	Then don't do it. that simple. say no i don't want to. I don;t get why people ask these kinds of question. OH I'm not ready for this. THEN DON'T DO IT!

Samanthaaa	You should wait until you are OFFICIALLY dating him. You should also wait until you feel comfortable enough to do this, since you have posted this question you are obviously not ready, My advise: PLEASE WAIT. :)

Cap	You're right.You're not.If he wants you to do that for him (assuming you're ever ready),he needs to 1) finish school 2)get a job and some money and 3) give you his last name!

kimmy	tell him that you aren't ready for any of that. don't do anything you don't want to do. you'll regret it.

Prica4	Don't feel pressured to give in to his demands...move at a pace that is comfortable for you. If he gets pushy, tell him you just aren't ready and leave him alone. Your comfort should be his top priority!!

Classy	Don't do it. NEVER do ANYTHING you are not comfortable with. If you only THINK your comfortable with it then your not ready. When you know your ready wait three more years. Advice I wish I had followed.

rob_hallock	Don't do it. He can give himself a hand job if he needs it. That is going way to far for a game. You could pull out a question like make him give a dog a hand job or a bj.

craigmacd	you are not his receptacle, tell him to go pull him self and you will be there when he is done , don't let him make this a condition for seeing him again. You will know when its time to take things further because it will be your idea!!!

Lost and never found	DON'T DO IT!!!! He is only in it for himself!! He doesn't care about you. and besides, save that for the one you love!! Would you want your husband to do anything with you knowing that you are nothing special because he's done it before??? Please don't do it honey!! You'll be grateful later!!!

xomyTEDybear	I always say "when in doubt, don't do it". If you have to think about the question and are doubting whether to do it or not, then you shouldn't do it. If you feel like you aren't ready to do it, then don't. You will just have regret if you do it for someone else and not what you want. Follow your heart and mind!!!!!

a.mcmillan2008	if you do he will go tell all his friends and they will tell people.it doesn't sound like he has any real intention in keeping you around.he just wants what he wants and something to brag about.be smart just like you are.look for fun and great conversation,and you will get more out of that from people and they will like you more.not just smile in your face and talk behind your back.

Ï»Î±ttâ„¢	Then don't do it! It's a simple as that. You shouldn't let someone make you feel obligated to do something like that. You're just going to regret it later. If he likes you as much as you like him he should understand and let it go for the time being. If not, you're better off without him. Do it when and only when you're ready and you want to. If you never are, then so be it. It's your decision. Good luck!

Blossom	Don't do it you will regret it later on. the guy is just a Horn-dog, if you do it he's just gonna spread rumors about you and i don't think your going to like that ( such as your this or that). if he really likes you he's going to respect you and will not tell you things like that. Don't do anything you are not comfortable with.

cobra2140	How old are you? that alone should dictate how far you are going to go with someone. Lets just assume I am old and don't know what I am talking about, in that case you should only do what you are comfortable with doing. eventually you are going to do that for the person you are with and the both of you will probably enjoy it, but for now it is your call and you shouldn't feel pressured into doing it if you don't want to. Try turning the tables, tell him you will but him first. If he declines then you can decline too without remorse.

gally	You've already told yourself that it's not right and you're not ready - so listen to yourself - you are right! You don't have to be embarrased or think that he won't like you if you don't. He'll actually respect you if you don't. You won't respect yourself if you do because you know it's going against what you want ... and you're the one who's important here. I don't understand - it doesn't sound like he's your boyfriend - just flirting and hanging out, maybe kinda close in a liking eachother kind of way. This guy is just trying to get some and someone who's inexperienced (like you say he is) doesn't really care who he gets it from. Spare yourself - you don't need to worry about this. Don't forget that you will have many relationships in your future and your happiness doesn't depend on this horny dude. Just tell him you like him, but you're not going to do that.