I had an affair with my neighbor's wife, and now she is pregnant?
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I had an affair with my neighbor's wife, and now she is pregnant?
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I'm pretty sure the baby is mine, but my neighbor is so happy his wife is having "his" baby. She doesn't want to tell him it's not his, because it would expose the affair. She thinks he won't know and would only find out if one of us spills the beans. Should I just keep my mouth shut? I feel like one of those birds, that lays eggs in other birds nests, and let's the other bird raise their young.
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aabigaa2
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You should be on TV |
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BeSt N
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you dead man |
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chaminda l
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1.)You need to tell the truth
2.)The child needs to know her/his real father.... |
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jolie
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and u are asking??? |
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Jacqui Waze
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Well, you make your bed, you lie in it! You reap what you sow! You really ought to be ashamed of yourselves! Her husband will find out because the child will look like you and your other children! What were you thinking???
Are you sure it couldn't be his? Poor guy! |
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Switch
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How do you know for sure it is yours? Cuz she told you? lol
She was probably sleeping with her husband too if he thinks its his. |
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erwafredsfdsfsdf
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Is this a joke because there are many of these out there.? |
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nickygirl_3
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You are bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You should have thought of the consequences before acting out some stupid fantasy, having an affair with your married neighbor's wife. You sure did lay an "egg" in another nest. Well, this is something you're going to have to live with for the rest of your life.
Get a DNA test to make sure the baby's yours. Check your dates... if you do the right thing and come clean, know that your stupid decision to sleep with this neighbor is going to ruin her life, your life, your wife's life, your marriage, and more.
Stupid! I sure hope whoever reads this learns from your mistake. |
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Kia A
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You should be thoroughly ashamed of this instead of bragging about it on the internet.
Go tell the husband, and support that baby for life... not just the minimum 18 years. |
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sash
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Wow!!!!!! U can actually make a film on ur story. Very Interesting plot. On a serious note, its better his wife says it to him and not u. However u can explain to her dat its not right to play with anyone's feelings and dat she shud speak the truth. Also i wud like to ask u, R u willing to take the child's responsibility? If yes, then wat i just suggested u seems apt. |
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abafna
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hahaha first do the mistake for sake of fun and now ask question for help,why do you want to have an affaire with a happily married family ? let then enjoy their married life ? |
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Don't say a word. and pray the baby don't grow up looking like you. Even though babies usually resemble the father. |
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thecharleslloyd
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You idiot. Alas you are going to have to take this one on the chin. The two of you have tricked another and the two people that will get hurt are not you and the lady neighbor. To avoid the gates of hell, tread carefully and remember your feeling do not count on this matter. |
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bunnygrl43
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well thats what you get for sleeping with ur neighbor's wife. Anyway tell him, he's going to find out eventually. what if the baby comes out looking like you? |
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caseyal1
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omg, your a very sick person. what you need to do is tell him, and go see a physicrist, I mean really, who does that? geez ppl are crazy these days. ppl like u |
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uranus2mars
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my mother used to say,'you play with fire: you get burned'
it is going to cause some problems somewhere along the way, however, i don't think that it is YOUR place to do anything about it...
here's why: she is married, you have already caused enough problems by sleeping with her
the baby may or may not be yours
obviously, she doesn't want anymore to do with you or she would have separated from her husband and been with you...she wants to 'pretend' and never really be sure about who the father is...if this child is really your child afterall
do you really want your child suffering the consequences of it's mother's infidelity? if you want to upset the apple cart and cause more damage, then confront the mother and tell her you want a paternity test done after the baby is born...but, brace yourself...some of the apples will be rotten when they spill out
most husbands can tell when their wives have been cheating and if he can't, well, that is HIS problem...obviously, she has been sleeping with both of you...if that is the case, what makes you think it IS your baby? is it so much worth it to 'spill the beans'? what would it gain you? she would be divorced, probably, and doesn't want you or she would be with you and not her husband...the baby didn't do anything to deserve all this rubbish... |
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Tongue In Cheek
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for one thing...YOUR A @)*&ING idiot! he diserves to know if its his kid or not so tell the whole truth and what ever happens to you after that, is less then what you and his wife diserve! DONT MESS WITH OTHER PEOPLE'S WOMAN! and just think how the kid will feel when he learns that he was brote into this world because his mom was going around banging neighbors and that U were the one that did it! it will be very uncomfertable having to whatch him play infront of your neighbors yard or if he talks to you for some reason! which again you dont diserve to hear his voice! and to think, 4 months ago you were worried if his wife was hitting on you! |
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lostchild
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why cant guys learn how to keep it in there pants. i mean come on now. shes married and you still went after that.i just dont understand it. |
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cleocat
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If you can I'd keep your mouth shut, more for the child's sake than anyone else's.....if her husband found out the baby was not his he may end up hating it and if they stayed together the child would have to live with that situation and may be treated differently to any other children they may have. But remember that if you are the farther you do have rights and if you want to be part of the baby's life that's up to you. |
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Yeppers!
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first of all, you two are a couple of low-lifes. I'm sorry to say that but, bringing a life into this world is hard enough and now you add this drama to this poor kids' life? You better find a good way to tell this unsuspecting fellow before he finds out on his own. |
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xxstormcrowxx
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Reap what you sow.
Now at least man-up and take responsibilty for your foolish and selfish choices. |
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The Wizard
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Shame on you .. not coz she is pragnant , but coz you had this affair. |
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๑۩۞۩๑Jake๑۩۞۩๑
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You Done What You Dirty Man!!!!!!,
Well Make Her Say to her husband that it is his baby or just tell the truth |
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Hani
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You must be so thrilled because you're going to be a dad. Better to keep your mouth shut because you don't want to create any more complications. She won't tell as long as you comply with her wishes....that is not going to be easy. Alas, you cannot celebrate just yet.
I'd love to have you for a neighbour though. |
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sauvee41
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how are you going to feel knowing another man is raising your child if you got a conscience it will get the best of you and if you care anything about it you seed demon |
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SANAT
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man, u are in trouble, talk to your wife & say sorry to her ASAP. OR GET READY FOR GOD'S PUNISHMENT, U R A SICK MAN, SINNER. |
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engineer46526
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I think you are both horrible people for doing that to him. She should have divorced him before she felt like having an affair with you. And you should have never gotten involved with a married woman. Of course you both should tell the husband. That is so wrong to make him think the baby is his. |
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