I had lunch with a guy today.. he ask me again for lunch on Friday?what does he wants..???

867-5309 "Jenny"	He want's two scoops with his cherry pie.. Ask advice from hubby on this one..

ncheliport	the question is if you are both married what do you want you must no be happy in your marriage! If you want to go through a divorce then go! you reap what you sow.

malicious5	um, lunch? dudes like to eat -- not a particularly new bit of info. i submit to you that it might be YOU reading more into this than there is. lighten up and enjoy his company.

Visualize Whirled Peas	You have doubts and you should. Decline the invite. In the future, only go if it's going to be three people or more. Don't ever do anything you wouldn't do in plain view of your spouse or your mother. It's just good policy.

Redbutter	Ask your husband what you're asking us. If you can't then there is your answer. Or better yet, what if this was your husband having lunch with another woman. Would you be ok with it?

2blessed2bdissed	Was it a business lunch? Or perhaps, he is testing the waters. To see how far it will go. Just keep it in mind, that your co-workers are watching you and the choices that you are making. Establishing judgments of you, as a person... They know about "both" of your marital statuses. So, use your wits about you.

?Lem?ny?	If you're feeling uncomfortable enough to post this question I would say NO, don't go. Maybe he's just a nice guy who likes your company but I wouldn't do it if you're feeling weird about it. An alternative would be to talk to your husband about it to see how he feels...that would probably be that best bet...

dennis m	Well do you work with this guy? Are you having a business lunch? Depends on that. Maybe he is trying to make the moves on you cannot help unless we know that about him.

Talithea H	Why not it could be that he just wants to be your friend.There are some men that do not want anything from you but your friendship.It is just a meal nothing more.

lia sophia	lunch and possibly a poo tang pie. If your both married.....careful! Depends if your flirting or just honest friends and nothing is coming outta this!

...LOST GIRL...	I don't know!.....people could get the wrong impression......I personally wouldn't go.

Ben	He prolly just wants some company. Or he might be looking for a nooner.

luvlisteningtomusic	Ask your husband this question. See his reaction. Does your husband know you are out to lunch with some guy? If so then tell your husband he asked you out to lunch again. Go out to lunch with him and see what his intentions are. If they are the wrong intentions then tell him so if not then just have a nice lunch.

bootsontheroad	If the conversation was interesting, he may want to contiue the conversation.

Student Doctor House	Nope...don't go. This can't possibly be heading in a good direction. Would you like it if you found out your husband had been spending his lunches with a pretty young woman? Doubt it!

Mickey V	He wants you....for lunch.

Random_Girl	Probably a bad idea ... he might be looking for a tryst and you don't need to get involved in that.

*Angelina Price*	who's this guy?? why did u have lunch with him

floridaman39us	No, he wants more than lunch. He wants to see your underwear....

Quasimodo	Another one who wants validation. Typical.

k9mom â™¥s my Nora dog	Instead of asking us, why don't you ask him? He is the one who can tell you better than any of us can. Your instincts are telling you something, so find out for sure. Maybe he is just being friendly, but better to find out, then decide from there about future lunches with him.

Brown Water Drinker	This was like the time I was seen in a Martini bar.........wow If my friend would have caught me it would have been over.

?	He wants to eat lunch and have a bit of conversation, or he wants to boink you. My guess is the first.

Pam H	Have you asked your husband if you should go out with this guy on Friday? I don't think you should. I know grown ups can have lunch together and it doesn't necessarily mean anything is going on, but what would your husband think about it?

~NIKKI~	I think he is hungry winkwink* in more ways than one ... ...And hell no do not continue this if you value your relationship with your husband

~Brittles~	talk to your husband see what he thinks...guys opinions work

Gary C	He wants to enjoy your company for lunch

big d	Maybe he just wants to be friends....Make sure he knows that's all you want.

jules vane	No!

Mickey.Slick	he wants lunch. guys like food.