I have 7 children by my husband,he verbally abuses me and rarely helps me with housework should i kick him out?

charlesjerrell	no i wouldnt kick him out, but i would kick him off every time he mounts me, or have some tubes tied

Seriously Though	You don't want ur kids growing up around that. They'll think it's normal.

nydp02	I can't believe you let yourself get into that situation. Be smart and let him go. You are already doing it on your own!!

kittykatsback	Your avatar looks nothing like a fat black. Have you heard of condoms?

Horse Up	Well, should of thought about it before popping all those kids. Makes no sense.

blahh.blahh	dump him! if your worried your kids will be upset if u do! they probarbly will be but theyll understand if hes been treating u like ****!

Missy M	kick out ? NO... re-build? Yea :) LOL cuz girl you need all the help ya can get with 7 kids ;)

Made in the 80s	I say just keep him around just to get what you need. Get someone on the side that makes you happy.

the1andonlytyrese	screw him!!!!!!!!!!! its his fault ur having kids causing u 2 gain weight boil hott water n burn his *** and kick him out im sure u will find somebody deserving of you and your kids!

jessieblue	what day did you say the garbage men called , , why have all these kids with him , whats wrong with you , toss him out ,

dreamer	7 kids, God Bless you, as for your worthless husband throw him out and sue for alimony and child support

dee oo double dilo	wow 7 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVjuNfJDP_M

FlutterBy	dump his butt, no one deserves to be mistreated if you have to question whether or not to be with him, that should tell you by itself good luck beautiful :)

Loving Life Now	set boundaries, seek support, there are agencies in the community that can help you with abuse issues to empower you to stand up for yourself, no one has the right to abuse another person.

big_cheesin	yes.. my mom waited too late to divorced my dad. lucky for her after gettin 5 stitches three inches form dying, she lived and is living very happily as a single mom with three children and a mate.

Aly	Scold him, argue, anything to make him work. If not wanted, kick him out of the house, sort this out like an adult, or just continue to do the work and like it.

Leah Y	yesi did it it was hard and i took alot of strenth i devorced him and i am a better woman i moved in with my mother i lived with her and so did my little girl now its been almost 2 years and i am better and i am now seeing someone who treats me better

whoowhoo42	If you think you can support yourself and 7 kids on your own, sure leave. If you can't then think of something else. Then again, maybe you shouldn't be dependent on a bunch of adolescent girls for marital advice.

simplygorgeous	omg!! that's terrible! but the craziest thing is that ur considering this now after 7 children!! thats crazy!! i can see ur problem because raising 7 kids is alot of work and without ur husband then that would be excruciating! ur children need both of you guys the most. i would say leave him but thats too late.

Nic E	leave him and get protection from some governmental divorce! DO not just kick him out, you should divorce him! You are obviouslly not happy, you do NOT have to be with him! Divorce him, find someone that understands and loves you, and you will be happy!

Dance4life94	Nobody deserves to be treated that way. No woman should ever be treated that way. You should go to the police and kick this piece of garbage out! Either that, or go to a friends house with the kids. I would phone a friend, and talk with them maybe you guys can sort some way out. Good Luck.

shittalker	Yes you should leave him but discuss it with your older kids who would understand your sitiuation. and if i were i would get him back then leave him:) hope all works out and better to do something now then wait and see how it turns out , because you dont want your kids to see it all happen and them to think its ok to treat someone like that.. GOOD LUCK.

Video_Production	Apparently he has been doing this for awhile, why continue bringing children into this world with a guy like him? But I wouldn't stay with someone that treated me like crap, I also wouldn't have continued having children with him either. Please leave this guy alone, and please, no more children.

Private B	You even have to ask? Honestly. Say this sentence, really actually say it, out loud to yourself: "My husband cheats on me and verbally abuses me. Should I leave" CAN YOU HEAR YOURSELF?!?!? Get out now. Run away. Save the children. Save the shreds of yourself you still have. By the way: Calling you black is so not an insult. Black chicks rock my socks.

rpetch007	good on you . for thinking about yourself.. as well...... and yes you should kick him out unless he helps around the house .. and i am a man to.. as for him calling you names ..tell him to stop it .. as it hurts you..if he was a dad then he would look after the kids he made .. i think he a lazy pric..k get him to cook .. clean... do the shoping as well.. and see it he likes it ... again kick his lazy as$ out the door ....

mallgirl305	Yes you should woman and Children should no be treated like that you can find some one better un till when you do tell him that it was not woring ou and after go live with your parents or best friend or sister woho evere is close to you you might find someone who can support someoe you and your family it might endup like yours mine and ours the movie good lucy Mall girl

Cole	Why in the world was it neccessary to have so many children with such an unhealthy marriage? Those kids deserve a home full of LOVE so if your husband is treating you that way, yes, I really do think you should seperate/divorce. Do I think a divorce benefits children? No. But I also know that he will not change the way he is treating you. So you're basically picking the better of two bad options.... probably didn't need to pop out so many kids though.... find a man that will treat you and especially your children right.

mul4912	Verbal abuse is abuse, it does not matter if you are fat or skinny he should treat you with respect you are the mother of his children. And if he is cheating on you this is adding to the problems in your marriage. You need to think of yourself and children no one should live like this. The answer to your question yes leave him.

Tonja K	7 kids - WOW, I thought I was crazy with 4. First - it's called birth control, bringing children into a broken relationship is never a good idea and I feel really bad for your children. Second - do you work on top of raising all of those children? How do you intend to support your children? Most definitely NO, you should not put up with his abuse, whether he's hitting you or not it's still abuse and you are teaching your sons its ok to lie cheat and belittle women and you are teaching your daughters its ok to live with a man that does those things. Is this what you want?

Ash	Honey get him out! I was in a very bad relationship myself and it took his Psychotic butt trying to run me off the road to get the courage to leave. NO ONE deserves to be mentally abused. In many cases the verbal abuse it worse than the physical. I find that to be very true, and you don't deserve it. Not only are you hurting yourself, your also hurting all your children. You may not think they see or hear it happening. Unfortunately kids see allot more than you think. You are giving them very bad signals. Letting your sick husband treat you that way gives the children the idea that its ok. They are all at a very impressionable age. If you don't think you can get out of the relationship your yourself, do it for your babies. Please check out this site, and find somewhere close for you and your children to get safe. http://www.hopehouse-ejc.org/ There is no reason to be ashamed, there is nothing you have done to make him this way. There is absolutely no way you deserve to be treated in this manor. There are people out there that want to help you, let them.