I have caught my wife with another man 3 times sneaking around,they text each other all night now she says ovr

Gar	Dump her now once a cheater always a cheater and whose is to say she wont do it to you again get the love and respect you deserve from sum1 that truely loves you

bowhunter2006	To me this sounds like a marriage on the rocks. I would try to confront her and calmly talk to her and ask her what her feelings are. if there is a chance that this marriage works out, the both of you you should try to go to a marriage counseler and get things worked out. If she doesn't want to work things out with you, I would consider divorce, which is painful especially if there is kids involved. good luck, hope thing work out for the two of you.

sublimetranscendental	Hit the road and never look back. You don't owe her anything! She will never change and she doesn't give a flip about you. You owe it to yourself to move on and make a better life. She already has.

Diya	You really need to get yourself out of this situation. 92 out of a 100 times, this kind of relationship wouldn't work anymore. Ever heard of tying back the broken thread, but still loop remains?

Jodi C	She is still seeing him. Get out while you can, because she has been lieing all this time. You won't ever fully trust her again.

mugget	Love her, why? What's lovable about her?

free2bme	Honey, I think it is time for you to face the music. If you think there is a chance, ask her to go to a counselor, minister, priest, whatever, and get things out in the open. Ask her if she wants to stay with you. Ask her if she still loves you. And have her look you in the eyes when she answers. You will see the truth there. Unfortunately, your situation does not sound good. Find some good support while you work this out. Good luck! I wish you the best.

monkeyface	Once a cheater, always a cheater. Kick her into touch. You deserve better.

leslie	i would drop her butt like a hot potato, she doesn't deserve to have the title as someones wife, and her mother doesn't sound any better, accepting her daughter has a new boyfriend while she is married, even if she doesn't like you she shouldn't be giving her daughter the message it is OK to ruin a marriage, get out of the crazy family as fast as you can before they turn you crazy to!

grandm	Get rid of her and find someone that you can trust, once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater!

p.ocean	divorce her i cant believe you havent already

Jeans	No matter how hard it may seem....You need to leave this relationship. Take yourself in conseideration since she doesn't. She's gona rip your heart out and scar you for the other woman that's out there somewhere waiting for you. You deserve what you give, and your geting the complete opposite. Don't let her trash you like that! Care for yourself!

jencaldwell1975	Simply PEACE THE **** OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! C YA

Exotic Pink	3 times??!! I would of gotten rid of her the first time it happened. You dont need to be in that kind of relationship. If she has done it three times there is no way you can trust her again. There are plenty of fish in the sea that will treat you so much better. sorry I am so blunt but its the truth. Good Luck!

southern belle	she's going to keep doing it because there are no consequences for her actions. You'll put up with it- end of story

n065js	She's going to give you the clap.

samgodwin	ur divorce will make her go free... do smthng like asking some goons to throw ur wife BF out of ur way

ev234	It's not really over if they're still telling each other they miss each other and love each other. "Working it out" will only work if she's as committed as you are - if she's still in touch with the guy, then she's not committed to working it out, and she'll just be going through the motions. And you have to wonder what the hell she's doing introducing the guy to her mother. She's lied to you and you're right not to trust her. You'll either spend the rest of your life not trusting her (a pretty lousy way to spend the rest of your life), or spend a few weeks/months/years not trusting her, right up to the point where she leaves you for some other guy. Sorry, but you're best off getting rid of her.

joey21030	divorce

mistermeow2004	u say u love her but cant trust her. Without trust, there is no love.

classymissgypsy	FFS! You know what to do! You have to let her go! You don't have a marriage anymore anyway. You have a situation where you are being used to pay bills and babysit while she and her mom go on double dates. Don't be made a fool of, man. Get gone!

ladyarrian	Ouch, bad situation....For the sake of your sanity and your health, leave her...She's lying (and has been) to you, chances are she has no intention of ever leaving the other guy and is probably planning on leaving you. If I were you I would make an appointment with a divorce lawyer and a doctor(get checked for every STD known to medical science) as soon as possible. No one deserves that kind of treatment, especially from their spouse.

chlschr	Time to face the reality like a man. She's been fooling around and it's only her guilty conscience which is saying that it's over with her and the other guy. She is only cheating you further by speaking another lie. Time to be serious about this and move on.

boowiebellazena	I'm sorry to say but once a cheater....always a cheater. 3 times cheating....i dint think she will change. She obviously thinks that you will hang around no matter what....so she is using you like a door mat. Leave...move on....you deserve better

the_silverfoxx	why dont you drop her and go out and find a real woman who isnt a cheater you can beat that at a w.... house my friend ?

Tim	Divorce. shes not worth it. you need someone that will love you the way you love them.