I haven't seen my dad in 3 years and I still don't want to. Is it wrong of me?

NWI friend with benifits	if you dont sit down with your dad and explain what you feel inside and tell him why you are so angry with him then i can gureentee that if and when he passes on you will be feeling regret for the rest of your life knowing that you should have talked to him, life is too short to hold grudges and would you realy want him to pass on knowing that you hurt his feelings and he doesnt know what he did wrong or how to fix the problem? i went through this same thing with my daughter 3 years ago and there were many night i was deeply hurt wondering what was wrong or how i could fix the problem, but befor i had a chance to fix it or even talk to my daughterit was too late she was taken from me and i will never know ...and that is a pain i would wish on nobody

shirley s	why you afraid of your dad? why did you lock yourself in bathroom hes your dad? has he harmed you or you just angry with him? your brother seems to be ok with seeing him it sounds like you got more going on them what your asking your not saying why you have theses feeling about dad do you talk with mom on this does she know how you feel if you cant talk with her then find someone you can talk with if dad has done nothing then your missing a big part of your life being this way.why did he leave a watch for you maybe its his way of breaking this silence you got going on him.maybe hes not coming around more cause he gets hurt knowing you feel this way about him. dont take on the blame for the divorce just enjoy being with both so many kids have dads who want nothing to do with them an its sad if hes done nothing but get divorced from mom. write dad a letter,tell him how you feel if your mad tell him if hes done something to you tell him but break this running hiding locking yourself in rooms YOU DONE NOTHING WRONG

â™¥Princess84â™¥	I don't see why you hide from him. He's still your dad no matter what. You should appreciate and Be thankful that he atleast goes and "tries" to visit, some father's or mother's don't even try to make contact with their children. Why don't you just stop and ask yourself why you're avoiding him. I'm pretty sure it must really hurt him to see that you don't want him to be a part of your life. Your parents are the ones who got the divorce, that doesn't mean you have to change the relationship you have with your dad. The day you sit and talk to him, you'll feel so much better and you'll wish that you would've done it along time ago.

mrNiceguy	I believe your mom brainwash you. girl usually moms side and boys usually boys in dad side me in the other hand also separated and has a son my ex say bad things to my son about me and even i hate my ex to death and I still say good things to my son I love her mom just for him not to become rebellious growing up. As long you dont have a drunk, addict, bad type of dad 'll say talk to him and give him a chance.

Firebird	This might be one of those medicine things, where you need to take it whether you want to or not. There are certain things that you need to get from a relationship with Dad.

Nikki	What happened?? You're not giving the whole story or you wouldn't react this way. That is how I react to my step dad but he beat my mother for twelve years and had a weird obsession with me which was very scary!!!

Owen E	I have not seen mine since 1991 and I do not care if I ever see him again. He deserted my mom and I and refused to come to my wedding just because my mom would be there. Alot of kids disown family memebers because of who they are or what they did it is normal you most forgive him for your own good but there is no need to stay in contact with him. Look towards our heavenly father for strength and wisdom. God Bless and Best Wishes.

Mariah V	well. if he wants 2 pay attention 2 u then yes, he is trying to create a bond and if he doesnt then no i dont see y u should be scared of him. he is ur blood father and u cant hide it. u werent scared of him b4