I just found out that my bf is going to take?

AngieDee	Wow Why did he want her to go with him? It would have made more sence for you to go with him. However, they are getting divorced, so don't start getting all crazy yet! Maybe you should go with them! Express your concern to your boyfriend about this. Tell him it just seems really odd to you and it makes you kind of uncomfortable.

KiarasLilMomma	He still has feelings for her. He may have left them for you but hes going to realize he fell inlove with her for a reason all those years ago and most likely beg for forgiveness and go back to her. He probably thought the grass was greener on the other side and come to realize that all relationships actually take work. Hes a dou*ebag... a real prince charming cough* Dont expect much faithful and honesty out of him... he doesnt respect the family he has.. I mean he cheated then left his family to be with you, what in the world makes you think he is going to turn into a saint and be loyal to you?

l2onaldinho1010	Kids are a sign of love, regardless of the marriage/marriage status, he will love the kids - ESPECIALLY if they are younger. He COULD be rethinking, reconsidering his marriage, but don't jump to conclusions. Good luck.

Medic123456789	they're still his kids. leaving his wife for you was obviously a stupid thing to do. you didn't expect him to forget his children too did you?

Wheat Cracker	Because like it or not they are a family unit and are trying to maintain a sense of normality for their children. Holiday's are important family times and I'm sure you will find that this will not be the only time this will happen. This is the price you pay to have a relationship with a man who already had a family.

thresher	Come on, He's doing this for the kids.

GithiomiM	he left them for you?? How horrible... stop thinking of yourself and let the man be a part of his family's life. I can't believe you would be prideful about a man leaving his whole family for you. Take a look at yourself and consider why you are asking this question. I think you need to do some soul searching- you think you are more important than children?

The 3rd Nipple	Yeah this baffles the heck out of me too. I'd ask him why because I wouldn't even think of bringing my daughter trick or treating with the ex-girlfriend. Currently I'm dating a woman whose doing the same with her ex....and when I asked she said they remain friends because of their history and to get along when dealing with the child. I think though things would be different if me and her were married (and you and your boyfriend were married)....I don't see the ex being in the picture then.

Gordon Q Hinkley	Oh, you sound like a winner. He's still their dad. No matter what you do, you can't take that away from those kids 'Matter of fact, he sounds like a winner too. I suspect you two deserve one another. Good luck

â™¥ Ä‹É‘ÄºÆšÉ›É¾z â™¥	I wouldn't really worry about it. They do have kids together and if they both want to see them trick-or-treating they are going to have to be civilized together.

Bailey F	calm down!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he wants this to be a family thing and doesn't want the kids to be upset cause they arent together. its ok to do things as a family even if you are divorced

BETHDAFAIRY	That does sound weird. Sounds like the Ex was more willing to let it go than he was. If he asked her to company him then there is something up with that I'd say. Depending on how long it has been since he left the picture. Maybe he just wants his kids to see mommy & daddy together because he knows it hurts them when they are not. Maybe he wants to let them know that they still are OK with each other. You should ask him & then ask her what he has been saying.

inverted	r u a guy and r u his girlfriend er somethin and if u r i doubt ur his ur bf

esteefyou	You have a problem with him doing "family stuff", with his own children?? Let the kids have a semblance of a normal family life, they deserve it.

PrissyBitchxo	He is probably going just for the kid's sake. I wouldn't be too worried. You can't be selfish about, and try to take him away from his children if that's what you plan on doing.

cookiey02	You said that they were HIS kids.. so yeah.. whats the problem with that.. plus you sound like a complete mole by the way.. he left them (his kids as well ) to be with you.. how could you let him do that .. COUGH COUGH *********

MICHAEL	Well, it is a family outing, maybe both together for the sake of the kids. If I were you, I'd prefer to just leave it at that, it's much less irritating that the thought of the two shacking up together, etc. in secret.

Maya	BACK OFF! You need to NOT be the jealous girlfriend. So he left his EX WIFE for you...that doesn't mean he should leave his children. If you can't take the fact that he's a father and has responsibility, you are barking up the wrong tree and find youself a man that doesn't have that type of responsibility.

super_siked	he wants to spend time with his kids. not his ex. there's a reason they're getting divorced. think about that.

donutkid: hammer of Thor	He left his family for you? Wow..what a decent guy. Disgusting.

blondissamo	He's a father. She's the Mother. Some things are in the best interest of the child. It's not about you.

Michelle	Maybe he want's his kids to feel like a regular kid with a mom and dad.

gator_ce	Stop being so selfish, if you think about it, why should the kids not get to have both parents with them for trick or treating. After all two kids and one adult is not that safe.

The Golden Buffalo	what'd you expect when you were the 2nd women? your turn to be left alone with two kids.

babakanoosh!	He wants to be with his kids and not let them see the crap between him and his ex. He is trying to be a respectable father, that's whats up with that.

The Fat Man	He can do as he pleases. As his soon to be "gf" you have no say in the matter.

Boring	Never get with anyone until divorce is final. Easy way to avoid drama.

amanda_dedebant	Soon-to-be-ex wife? If that's the case, it's still his wife and he has the right to be with his children.

Annoy The Demon Masters	Even if he left her for you, they are still his kids and she is still their mother. That will never change.