I just got married!?

Nancy D	COMMUNICATION!! Always be open with each other; talk to each other as if you were best friends. Compliment each other; don't "assume" he should know how you feel; especially if your're angry because they don't assume anything. Don't say things in anger that you'll never be able to take back; it's better to calm down and then try to discuss the problem. Love him for who he is; not what you'd like him to be.

shannon G	congratulations! Well, be understanding even when you know you are right, and when you don't want to be understanding. Remember that although he has a child, that child's mother and her step father do not belong in your household. Keep them at arms length and do not let them in on your personal affairs ( Unless it involves the child, or where the child's welfare is concerned) Too many times, things seem like happy go lucky, but the ex's tend to somehow get placed first or the baggage gets in the way. Remember that your marriage is apart of growing together and also individually, give eachother space, but also set time out for eachother. Nurture eachother, be kind and never hurl insults in an argument... they are disrespectful and sting when you say them out of anger or in jest to the person you love... words do cut very deep so speak from your heart, with honesty encouragement and respect. HAVE FUN! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

queenie one	Good Luck and I 'm glad your communication is well with the child's mother and husband try to keep it that way I hope you treat this child as your own even when you have your own make her feel loved as yours maybe one day she'll l be just like your own. It''s hard bu if you treat them the same your never know how much love your heart can feel. God Bless You ALL

xyz	What I think is that just keep things the way they are. Sounds like they are working. I have been married now for a year and it does not seem to be any different like people say things will change once you get married. Just communicate and enjoy your time together. Congratulation. :)

?	hiii great to hear you doing well, life should allways be about fun times planing for eachother nice things remmber why you got married for its love caring being togher just never let that part go or forget live for eachother thats being open shering working togher with all things remmber things work out fine when its taked openly and most of all remmber to tell eachother how you feel . good luck lots of love best wishers fun times forever.

Bex	first of all congrats! and really you dont need advice just keep doing what you are doing and spend as much time together as you can, go out places and make your life together interesting.

Tigger lover	Open honest communication with all parties involved with the child. If adults dont tell the truth, you can bet a kid will. Make time for yourselves, you are newlyweds, but always make time for the child too. Good Luck to you all.

Chef Susy--Cookin it up!	don't have kid's together for a while a long while! marriage is a tough row to hoe....with a baby it becomes more difficult in numerous ways. congrats!

pmsajones	Just keep Jesus in the middle of your marriage and everything will work out perfectly. He's the Solid Rock! And any marriage built on The Solid Rock...will last. Congradulations!!!!

zimp	why do u want to marry a man with a kid? this is foolish on your part Answer my question by "adding additional points on ur question" we shall dicuss

As Real As It Gets	The only advice I would give is to be careful of what advice you take. No one else is in your relationship but you, your hubby, and the child. No one else can know what you're feeling, and what works for you but you. Obviously you've figured out how to get this far, so whatever got you here is the foundation for what will carry you through the coming years.

runs_with_scissors	What Romance said, plus: Never expect your spouse to be any more or less than who he is, and vice-versa.

Jon's Mom	Congratulations. Sounds like you are going to have a great life together. Advice-when something goes wrong (and it will) don't just give up and leave. Learn to talk. It is hard to do sometimes.

happy	from where did your hubby get a daughter when you say he has not been married before?

vishal..in seach of friends	there should not be any misunderstanding between both of u ...if there is ny ..just tell him ..ask to hav a solution...

jimbobob	One word.........PRENUP!!!!!

*~~Tessa~~*	You'll be just fine. Good~Luck to you all.

openminded	Always be honest.. and do little things for eachother, not buying things but getting a glass of water, make dinner, take out garbage, wash eachothers cars, get mail, things like that without being asked. It keeps me and my guy feeling loves and appreciated!

Megan G	Stay friends. Stay involved in each other's lives. Keep up the communication - that's the number one reason people split up. Congratulations!

Kate	congratulations...I hope all your days will be good and I hope your years will be filled with happiness As for advice, I think you should be giving us some since we are not doing so good...

auburn	Always be honest with each other and find the time to share little things. I have been married for 25 years and have found that communication is the most important thing.

catwomanmeeeeow	Congratulations! Keep it up!

razi_woman	Sounds cheesy but never go to bed angry with each other, even if it means staying up all night lol.

Steve Urkel	....Poor you.... marriage is the devil!

goodguy_46947	Just keep on doing what you are doing.

RomanceStuck	Always respect one another, put one another first, and keep the lines of communication open. Congratulations to you both!!

Docta Jones	Congratulations.

Pantherempress	You keep doing what you are doing. Friends with ex's is always the best for the kids.

Thomas J	don't put yourself in situations to cheat. that may sound dumb- but it is sage advice. if you don't put yourself in any bad situations, you will never regret anything.