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I keep sleeping with our childs nanny!?

My wife hired this nanny I think she is like from brazil or something, but any ways I have been sleeping with her for the past two years and now she is 6 months pregnant. I dont know what to do, I am trying to think of a way to tell my wife so we can all live together and be a big happy family under one roof. Do I have a chance? I need suggestions on what to tell her?







me4tennessee
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Wow, I have been sleeping with her and your wife together! Maybe the baby is mine?


Forlorn Hope
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You mean she hasn't noticed??? You are in trouble... 'Fess up!! And next time, use protection...


bad_bob_69
Lotsa luck!


▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™
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The only way you have a chance at that is if your wife believes in the polygamous lifestyle.
And...
I'm sure you already know if she agrees with that or not.

As in telling her, wow, just say it anyway it comes out...it's better to tell her now than her to find out later.

Good luck with your situation!


just_me90
Tell her to divorce you, find a good lawyer and take you for everything you've got because you are a useless and vile human being.


grandm
No, you'll never be one big happy family. You've cheated, and now you've created a situation that violates your marriage vows. At least be man enough to tell your wife the truth; then she can get on with the rest of her life!


acmeraven
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You have the chances of a snowball in hell. It sounds like it is a little late to tell you about the "birds and the bees". What were you thinking? Happy is a word you had better remove from your dictionary for a few years. Realistically the only thing to do is set both females down in the same room (without anything laying around loose to throw or cut or strike blows with) and put all the cards on the table and see what they decide to do to you or with you. Make sure you have a new will made out providing for your new soon to be child; and that your life insurance is paid up. Good luck and try to quit being so stupid in the future.


paki
duh, why dont you just figure out how much your wife is going to take you in the divorce, cause that is where you are headed. Nanny is going to have a baby and when it pops out and looks like you, just pack your bags. i know no female is going to put up with that unless you are a mormon


duritzgirl4
Your wife will probably kick you out, and you deserve it. Have fun in Brazil!


Luv My Corgi
No you don't have a chance.


Almack
Hey you know people can view your past questions right. You're a liar man or your life is really screwed up. Based up your previously asked questions

1. you slept with your wife's twin sister
2. you've been sleeping with your nanny
3. you're in the middle of a divorce
4. kids are in another state
5. you want your wife, nanny, and kids to live together
6. And you also have a girlfiend that hit you with a pot
7. You are a woman beater


right
what's the guarantee that you won't get more women pregnant and want to have them under the same roof with your legitimate wife, what kind of home are you preparing for your chidren? they are the ones i pity most not you. confess to your wife your sin and ask for her forgiveness and ask God to forgive you too. control yourself now or this would just be the begining of your misery


mj_jll
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maybe the wife is sleeping with the nanny too. then when they tell each other everyone will be so happy and they all lived happily ever after


Le_Roche
What are you? Twelve? Go do your homework!


nancy w
Are you kidding?.... or do you think your wife is totally out of touch with reality? You'd better start thinking about what you are going to tell the Divorce Lawyer and plan on paying child support for the nanny's baby and your own...Quit dreaming...your wife isn't going to live as one big happy family once that baby is born and you are all goo goo over it....You may have a chance with the nanny though since she was just as lacking in morals as you were.


Scott B
Give your wife eveything and go with the nanny. You already made that choice so do it. I hope that nanny loves you because if not you may have lost both


kra_z_fly_chic
Man! You are in a mess! I realy doubt you are gonna live happily ever after with both of them. You probably need to figure out who you wanna be with and choose. If you want to be with your wife you need to break it off with the nanny ( still take care of your kid of course) and tell your wife and beg for forgiveness. If she loves you she will want to work it out. If you want to be with the nanny tell your wife. The truth will set you FREE!


Saint
You are SCREWED and I hope your wife kicks the Sh*t out of you.()


freeman3905@sbcglobal.net
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well for one its my baby. and don't call her nanny


MsFancy
Are you sleeping with Bin Laden too?
Check all of his questions out, people. He is messing with us.


peyton p
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Why did you sleep with her in the fist place?


kellz_car
What do you think????

If you were my husband I'd cut your balls off!!!!

Why on earth would you sleep with your nanny and then to get her pregnant is the ultimate betrayal. AND then to think you could all live together happily.

Sorry mate but your dead meat!!!!! For your own sake at least have the guts to be honest with your wife and tell her the truth! At least that way you could show some resemblance of being sorry.


Baps .
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I don't think that you are going to be one big happy family. However you need to sit your wife down and just tell her. She is going to be angry but you need to tell her and the sooner you do it the better.

Also you need to look at things from your wife's view she isn't going to want the woman that you cheated on her with to remain in her house, and worse the woman is now going to be having your child. Be prepared for fireworks, but you need to look after your children in all of this


Southern Asker
Yeah, let me know how this works for you.

Any change your wife is bi? Maybe you've got a shot, if she and the nanny have a thing going.

If this works, you may have a better life than most guys fantasies... of course if this doesn't work you're about to be in a living hell.

Hey... is this question on the level?


jun s
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dat wil mayB work f uf a muslim but f not m so sori 2tel u bro dat find a way na to talk to ur nanny dat she must understand d situation dat she must liv w/ har parents & u wil just support ur baby.


Shenaid d
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Well if you were my husband i would seriously have to cut something off, you cannot love two woman at one time, it is not fair to anybody, what are you going to tell your children when the new baby comes, how do you expect your wife to trust you again. BUT if you and your wife have that kind of relationships where you dont mind the one sleeping with the other then that is cool, just think about how you would feel if you knew that your wife was shagging your best friend and she fell preggy with his child, if this make you easy and happy and not uncomfetable then sit her down and chat to her about it, you have to be honest, honesty is the only way healthy to keep a relationship going.


texascomet
Yeah, that would probably be fun, go for it!


Muslimah
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I think you pretty much have no chance, but good luck anyway. Atleast you won't have to hire a new nanny for the new kid.







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