I need help so bad my mom and dad might get a devorse and I start 4th grade on wednsday.?

Jay	it will not effect ur school work if u dont let it, when i was in 3rd grade my parents got divorced and i did not let it affect me, i just thought to myself " the divorce is for a reason, and she was unhappy during the marriage, when they are apart her life will be a lot better, as long as she is happy then im ok with it"

VEGAS	Just be glad there doing it now and not 20 years from now! It's better to deal with it or get over it because it will affect you, now and in 20 yrs. sorry!

suzanne_sauls	remember that if they do get a divorce it has nothing to do with you. They both love you very much but just can not live together any more. You need to love them both equally. Letting it affect you school will only hurt you. Make them and yourself proud by doing your very best. This will also show that you are mature enough to realize that they do love you regardless of their feelings for each other. Hang in there!!!! You will go far!!!!!

pplsgal07	i have a daughter your age who is acting the same way and i just think that it is something in the milk, ha ha ha ha ha , well just go on to school and do your best and when you are at home don't do anything to upset your parents. talk to them and ask them what they expect from you and how you feel about all of this and im sure that it is more to this than you think, ask them and see what they can do to make it all better.

Shannon V	actually concentrating on your homework would not be a bad idea as it would get your mind off of what is going on between your parents. if you are feeling stress over the divorce you need to sit down and talk them i'm sure you are feeling a little insecure in the midst of this just remember it doesn't mean they love you any less dear. let them take care of the adult stuff right now. but talk to them it will probally relieve some of the fears you are having!!!

athulahemantha	Dear.. You will be ok. Take it easy and good luck for your education. Be tough

Johnny Transplant	Just remember you are not the reason why your parents are getting a devorse. Some times couples do not get along married but become good friends after they break up. Remember they both love you . Ok here is a joke not a good one but here it goes. Two flies on a tolet set and one gets pissed off.

kellygirlaj	I don't have any jokes for you, but I do have some advice and answers. Your parents' divorce will only affect your schoolwork if you let it. What's going with them should stay between them. What I mean is, don't let your mother or your father speak badly against the other parent in front of you. My father did that with my brother and sisters and me when we were young and they were getting a divorce. It worked on them, but not me, only because I knew what kind of person my mother was, and I knew that my father was telling lies about her to get me to hate her like he did. You are allowed to feel sad, angry and depressed that your parents are splitting up, and that's ok. Cry if you have to, yell, scream, throw things, do whatever will make you feel better. Call a friend or a school counselor and have a talk. Make sure that what is said between you will stay between you. After a while, they may still get a divorce, but you'll feel better about it, and your parents will be impressed that you handled it so well. Good luck!

pepper	I am very sorry to hear about your mom and dad. I wish that more moms and dads would think seriously about how their fights are affecting their children. Unfortunately, many times people don't think. They get self-centered. But please try not to let problems between your mom and dad interfere with your school work. Carry on as if nothing has happened. Keep a stiff upper lip and show your mom and dad who the real adult is in your family. Be strong, Okay?

momoftwis22002	mE AND MY HUSBAND ARE GETTING A DIVORCE I HAVE TWIN 4TH GRADERS AND I JUST KEEP LETTING THEM KNOW IT IS NOT THERE FAULT JUST LIKE IT IS NOT YOURS. YOUR MOM AND DAD JUST DON'T WORK TOGETHER BUT THEY WILL STILL BE GREAT PARENTS FOR YOU. tHEY WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS AND SO WILL YOU

thachu5	Sorry to note that your parents are going through divorce. These are some of the hard times one has to face and i feel sad that you have to face this so early. Talk to your school counselor or seek help. You are really a strong girl, you surely know how to cope,look you appraoched for help, keep it up! There is the story of a pastor who got up one Sunday and announced to his congregation: "I have good news and bad news. The good news is, we have enough money to pay for our new building program. The bad news is, it's still out there in your pockets." Hope you liked the joke

WKDPIXY	No matter what's happening between your parents, it's not your fault and they will both still love you even when they no longer love each another.

ally'smom	you'll be ok

ryladie99	Are you sure you are The 4th grade and I am sorry that you have to hear the sad story from them. It will interfere with your school work because, you will hear the argument and fight and custody and court hearing. Whatever happens it will happen.You do not allow it impact on you,and you need to go to school and move on your life. Try to support your parent s who are in troubles and You know what to do just watch the Sim-son for a change and I am so honor to answer your question and I am speechless.

2cool4u	it will be alright,i know you will feel sad but you have to concentrate on your work,pray to God and he will help you, and maybe he may even stop your parents from getting a divorce,it will be okay if you,just do your best and leave God to do the rest everything will work out fine,Take my advice and you will see that your frown will turn upside down!!!!:)

Kendra W	My parents got divorced when I was in 4th grade. And what helped me the most was talking to my teacher. She comforted me and re-assured me that both my parents still loved me. You'll get through it. Keep your head up. :)

tigerjennie2006	your not 4

Pauly	Hi Devil Ok i have a joke for you The captain of a ship, opens a radio chanel with a dot on his radar, he says "This is the captain of the US navy vessell, Freedom, you will divert your course by 15 degrees to the east." The reply came across the radio "Please be advised that you will have to divert your course 15 degrees to the West to avoid a collision" To which the Captain replied, "Im Captain Blake, We are a United States Navy Vessell, equiped with the latest military surface to surface hardware If you do not divert your course 15 degrees to the East we will open fire on your vessell, Change course NOW" Reply "thats great pal, and were a lighthouse" Hope everything works out with your folkes, try to remember not to think about home when your at school. Draw a line between the two in your mind, and remember, its not your fault, and no one wants your schoolwork to suffer. Goodluck :)

hajgora7	Oh, man. This is rough. I've heard divorces are hardest on the children. I'm so very sorry. Send your father and mother a copy of this. They should hear it now rather than later. Oh, yes. Right. A joke. Ummm... Why did the chicken cross the road? To get to the divorce court!

lost in love	hey keep your chin up !!!! i hope you dont let their problems get in the way of your schooling. if you need to talk go to the school counselor they can help.

Neptune2bsure	Honey that is grown up stuff, your mom and dad will always be your mom and dad ok? I'm sure they know how stressed you may be over this and are trying to minimize this, usually parents find a way, talk to them if you have to and ask them how it will affect your studies. tell them honestly how you feel and most of all this is the most important part. It is NOT your fault ok? I hope they can work things out but its ok if they don't too, tell them you understand and that you love them both and that you still are a family, its really rough being a kid in that sort of situation I wish I could give you a hug and tell you everything is going to be alright, because it will honey, be strong you'll see.

hopelovesu2004	Oh sweetie, it not your fault and i hope you never think it is. Your mom and dad have had a falling out and sometimes it happens in a marriage. Sometimes its over money, or other grown up things. That don't mean they don't love you. Sometimes keeping yourself busy is a good thing to keep your mind off it for awhile. And don't be scared to ask mom and dad questions that is what they are there for. Call a friend or another family and talk to them let them know what is on your mind sometimes just talking about it to someone you know helps. Just let mommy and daddy know you love them both and keep your chin up sweetie.

Jessica R	Don't worry about it sweetie it won't interfere with your school work if you don't stress about it. Your parents need to handle their problems it's not healthy to worry about things we can't control. If your parents stayed together and argued constantly that would make you sadder than this. They still love you and that's why they're doing this they don't want you to see them unhappy

n3rdluvr2001	Hang in there and focus on your school work. Know that your Mom and Dad love you the most. I know it does not seem that way right now, but it is not your fault. Your parents just have some issues that they can not fix. GOOD LUCK Q. What is the best time to go to the dentist? A. TOOTh HURTy (2:30)

marrissa	Try to focus on the positive things ya all had to share and just stay positive you will be okay

onelonevoice	que sera,sera, whatever will be,will be. the future's not ours to see,que sera,sera.

justthinkin	for so young you have a very "old" name...devil in heaven.....are you sure you in 4th grade?

Chris	the same thing is happing to my cuzins that r the same age as u the only thing u need to know is it is not your fault and my parents r also divorced it all turns out ok

Alex	Dont feel so bad. :) I'm going to be 20 in about 3 months and I had something like this almost happen to me too when I was younger. Once you hit the bottom, you can only go up right? Things will get better, you just wait and see. Just keep focused on your school work, enjoy your days at school with your friends, and dont feel o-so-sad. :)