I slept with my ex husband. Question please?

Sherry F	He's afraid you will tell reassure him that you won't say to him this is our secret.

neesie2120	You are wrong in sooooo many ways, honey. You got divorced for a reason. Best to leave it be and hope neither of your spouses find out. Geez Louise, why in the world did you let it go so far??

stephbbear	...sometimes I wonder about the world! Does anyone ever sit back and re-read over some of these questions? Especially the person ASKING! You`re divorced 6 years, remarried, slept together, and now you wonder why he doesn`t call??? It doesn`t matter! YOU`RE MARRIED AGAIN!!!

sexylovelet	If you are so sure of his character then you shouldn't have allowed hin to go through with it. I guess his wife got him so upset that he wasn't thinking clearly because the number of years that you'll have been divorced is a lot for feelings to play out in the situation. I guess he's probably beating up himself about it now. Don't call him back it will do both of you some good.

So sweet it hurts!!	If you didn't want each other the first time around why would you go back for seconds. Maybe he was not getting enough and had a heat of the moment situation, figures it was not really cheating in his mind and found out it was a giant mistake after it was over. If it was not in his character he is guilt ridden right now and realized why you two broke up to start with. If you have a good thing now with the one you are married to, keep your legs together when your mans not around. How many times can you make the same mistakes before learning a lesson? Being married should mean more than what you seem to make it out to be!!! I'm sure at this time he is really mad with himself.....

childrenrthefuture	I hope he is mad at himself, and you should be to, did you forget that you mentioned you both re-married. So now you have both cheated on your new loves because you guys got horny. Now you want to have him as a friend with benefits. Wow, your new husband should have ran from someone like you, hopefully he finds out and leaves you. You know nothing of the meaning of marriage and what it is to give your life to your husband. I have no respect for someone like you.

brown sugar	umm both of you are wrong on so many levels you both cheated on your spouses and think about it you are exs for a reason and it had nothing to do with feelings of wanting to get back together you were comfortable and easy to bed without to much effort and what do you mean not his character people change and you don't know what kind of person he is now because if he was so noble he would have stopped it before it got too far and you should have done the same thing if you cared anything about you new husband and respected his new wife

Jean	What exactly is your question? You're both pigs.

Tangled Web	Are you sure you don't want to get back together with him? Sounds to me like you fell for it because you still want to be with him. I hope you didn't get divorced because one of you cheated...wouldn't that be an irony of all ironies? How about leaving your EX husband alone and focusing on your marriage?

Chris	Shame on both of you, but don't beat yourself up....just don't let it happen again for the sake of your new marriages.

Morbid One	Probably a little of both. You two got divorced for a reason, perhaps it's your feelings he is afraid of? You said cheating on his wife was out of character for HIM. Is it in character for you?

Butch R	wait a minute both of you are remarried and slept together and your surprised because its not in his character but that most mean its in yours? well i hope that your spouses don't find out

Jules	He regrets it.

Personal Genius. x	I know it's hard to hide your feelings of 'lust' for him, i mean you obviously have a past with each other. But you must think of the others concerned, It's not just you and him in this it's your new partners as well! You should think about leaving this altogether, but if you REALLY REALLY want him & he feels the same... Go For It! Good luck chuck :D

**~Jon-Jon's Mommy!!~**	he probably is mad at himself for throwing away his vows on a whim with you.

dancing_smurf	Gut feeling is that he realizes that he made a mistake and let things go too far. It is also possible since he remarried his wife found out and is quite upset so he is avoiding making her too upset. Personally if this is the case I would not push it if he does not respond back and accept the situation.

shellshell	You should be mad at yourself for cheating on your husband. Gross.

testpilot61	Very dangerous situation for the both of you. He is probably feeling very guilty just as you are. The both of you need to make sure this never happens again by staying away from each other.

Mean Carleen	Perhaps he got what he wanted and sees no need to talk to your also cheating assss any further. You both deserve each other!!

Zebra Lover	How about leaving him alone since you both are married???

chancireese	i dont think so i think he used you

Kari	There's still a connection between the two of you. Maybe, you should have worked on your marriage a little harder before getting divorced. I'm sure he's ignoring you because he has a new wife and you have a new husband and you are doing nothing but hurting them.

Mrs D	So you both cheated on your current spouses with each other? Friends with benefits... LOL He's not calling you back because he's afraid his WIFE will find out...

concerned1	More importantly, how would your new husband feel about it? Don't be concerned about the the ex. You both have just cheated on your spouses.

Mr. Taco	Perhaps he just came to his senses. He started it. But you let him. If you have even half a brain, you will never do this again. You are just asking for trouble. Friends "with benefits" is a really, really, really bad idea. I guarantee it will bite you in the butt in the end, and no one will feel sorry for you.

SoCal Country Girl	It was a bad mistake since you are both married to other people. Maybe you were looking for closure or you just missed the relationship that you used to have. Now you have decisions to make... Do you want him back? If so, you need to come clean with your husband. If not, you need to decided if you want to tell your husband the truth about what you did. It won't be easy, but you can you have a true relationship with something this big hiding between you?

maroh5	Maybe he is afraid you will tell his wife?

A	He is feeling bad for cheating on his wife.