I told my friend now she's mad at me....?

Viva La Grenade	i agree with you because you didn't do anything wrong, you were just looking out for your friend and she's too stupid to realize that, and i would have done the same thing, i applaud you for what you did.

anais-india	I have no idea. That's a tough one. If you do want to continue being Stacii's friend, try speaking to her on the phone, or get together with her for lunch or something. Let her know that you are there for her if she needs any support. Good Luck! Hope you two are friends again.

slickwilly_m	run red run

â™¥lauri babiiâ™¥	ypur friend has enough prove to know that he is cheating on her but she got ma at you cause she did not want to know cause she loves him to much, i agree with you but i would not have told her to live you alone cause you are her friend and she needs you the most right know try to talk to her

Q	ur right, u saved ur friend, she is upset with her soon to be husband, but she cant do anything about it, her heart is broken, she is taking her anger out on u, so be patience...dont leave her alone at this difficult time...ur doing good..good luck!!!!

grrrl	You told her what she probably already knew but didn't want to face up to. She is mad at the world at the moment and needs you more than ever. Please step back in and be a real friend.

girlluveglitter38	God yes you shouldve told her. Give her some room to be mad and grieve. If the relationship has ended, she will need some time. Even if the guy is a cheating snake, she will feel dissapointed that its over. Be ready with a shoulder, chances are she will come around.

andrea kk47	probably not said anyhting... ; )

BTB{06.22.09}	I would have told her... Been there, done that and she was mad at me too. But you have to realize that it is difficult for anyone to hear that kind of news and it's easy for them to pinpoint their anger on the messenger. You did the right thing. Someday, she will thank you. Just try not to let it beat you up!

Rainwalker	You are in a damned if you do and damned if you don't. If you didn't tell her you could of heard - you are my best friend why didn't you tell me. If it was my true friend - I would have told her and made sure she understood that I told her because I am her friend.

hotteacher106	Stacii shouldn't be mad at you...Just give her a little time to come to grips with him cheating...

Navi W	wow seems like stacii wasnt a real freind at all. same with erika aka miss SK*nK. couldnt keep her legs closed. screw them all, your better than that, just dont talk to them and they'll come crying back to you . enjoy yer life. and dont even bother getting invovled.

Gary M	ya, you don't want to be in that mess. If Stacys your true friend she'll call and apologize..except nothing less.

tommy	kept my mouth shut!

farien3	I would have done the same thing, and 'Stacii' has a few problems: 1. A cheating fiance. 2. A cheating friend. 3. Inability to receive bad news without blaming the messenger. 4. A ridiculously spelled first name. If she has the sense that god gave grapes, she will eventually realize that you were only trying to save her from a disastrous marriage and she will stop being such an immature twit. If not, she wasn't that good a friend to begin with.

SWEETYPI	Your friend is just killing the messenger. Give her sometime to cool down. It's always hard in these situations, as you feel she has the right to know, but noone else was going to tell. I think I would stay out of anyone's business in that triangle. Let them deal with their own mess.

sjh	You did the right thing and if she stays mad then you did the right thing by getting away from them all. She may just be dealing with the mess. Similar situation happened with me and my friend also named Stacey was eventually very grateful for me telling her. She would have rather me told her than to know and say nothing.

girlnextdoor409	I think you did the right thing. Your friend is probably just hurt right now. Wait it out and be patient.

Kat	it wasnt your place to tell her anything.. reason being you will be the one that will pay for it in the end.. and they will go on with there happy lives together or apart and both made at you for butting in..

Pete B	A true friend will stand by you, Believe me she will find out he is a piece a crap, I hope she just isn't going after him for his $, STD is what she is going to end up with. You did the right thing.

krysabelle89	In a way yes and in another way no. You should have just been there for your friend when she found out her hubby was cheating on her. I probly would have just been supportive

xxshawnc1233xx	I Agree With You That Was The Right Thing To Do!

candy r	i would have kept it to myself until the issue of marriage came up n there is no wau i would let someone i cre for get married to a cheater - she would be mad if you didnt tell her to just move on sounds like too much drama

jtease	I would too tell my friend what I know, simply because she's my friend. For me I would still talk to each of them because I am still there friend plus I was the one that told her the truth so be there for them, they need to talk to someone & just be netural.

so Fresh	I never tell, women never believe it. I would have told Erika that she needs to tell Stacii or I would tell her, and if that didn't work I would have not talked to Erika. But my true friends would understand, so maybe you are better off without all of that drama.

private	You may be sued for breaking up a possible marriage. <}:-})

J'adore	well if she is stupid enough to marry him...... but i would have wanted know..... better to find out before than have to get divorced a month later

onemorchatykathy	Just remember that the 'bearer' of bad news.....is always going to be remembered by the bad news, whether it's true or not.... So you have to deside if you are willing to be always remembered in that light, by the innocent person who you are about to inform. Years ago I knew something bad and was advised to tell my best friend. I did not! A few years later she was killed in a car accident....I have been ever sooooooooo thankful that I never told her.....It would not have changed a thing....except it would have forever changed her. And for what???

darlin	I probably would have, even though I shouldn't have, you saved her a lot more pain than she is feeling right now. Had she gone through with the wedding, it would have devistated HER!