I told my wife to clean the house and have dinner cooked?

Libs should stifle themselves	Gee isn't she exhausted from watching Oprah all day, give her a break, changing channels is tiresome Archie

LUVVEDONE	SHE DNT KNOW HOW GOOD SHE HAS IT...SHE NEEDS TO GET HER NALGAS UP AND HAVE THAT HOUSE CLEANED AND DINNER READY...SHE NEEDS TO HAVE YOUR SHOWER RUNNING WITH CLEAN CLOTHES OUT FOR U...SHE NEEDS TO CATER TO YOU...ESPECIALLY IF SHE AT HOME KICKIN IT ALL DAY AND U R OUT WORKING...SHIT I DO IT FOR MY MAN....AND I WORK HOUR DAYS AND HE DOES TOO....TELL HER TO MAKE IT HAPPEN OK...

Poopypuss3	You have some serious relationship issues! You really need to sit down and watch Fireproof, starring Kirk Cameron, as a couple. It will solve your marital problems. God Bless. Oh yeah, You forgot about the laundry.

wayne2write	It has to do with your approach. What if you had asked her to instead of ordering her to. You should also look for the root of the problem. She is doing something besides not doing cooking and housework.

Sydney V	I understand why you would think that she has to clean the house but maybe the way you said it hurt her feelings. You should have a talk with her and tell her how you feel and why you think that she should clean. then she will understand your point of view!

Samantha Knight	let me tell you my husband is the only one working and i sit home and do nothing and i dont clean every day and i certinly dont ever have dinner cooked ever when he gets home. and if he told me to i would leave

rock of ages	Maybe it was just the way you said it to her. Like an order.

Mama Tex	She is your wife not your keeper or your cook. If you mutually agreed she should stay home then its not up for discussion. It doesn't however make you her keeper or boss. Just as she doesn't tell you to have your books lined up, your route finished by 9 or anything else in regards to your job. you have no right to dictate hers. Should she have dinner going or ready sure. Do things come up yes. Should she clean to her standards or yours. If its her job then its to her standards. If you don't like the way she does something then either you learn to let it go, you higher someone to do it your way or you do it yourself.

JCMOMMY	It depends on how you said it. Did you demand it "have this house clean and dinner ready when i get home!!!!". If not she shouldn't have a problem doing things around the house like cooking and cleaning. If she doesn't want to be a housewife tell her to get a job.

QandA King - Back!	I would have also dictated a proper uniform for her to wear while she was performing these tasks. If she was a bad girl and did not complete her tasks properly then she would know exactly what punishment she would be in for.

Display Name	If she has no job then taking care of household duties should all fall to her.