I want to get back together with my ex husband. But I'm pregnant with another man's child.?

abbohill2000	if he really truly loves you he will.

conservativegirl	Ohhhh sure he will!

TeKe	Did you try asking him? i know i would not but maybe he will.

Deathbunny	That's up to him.

fsxploration	Why would he want you back? What do you bring to a stable, loving relationship?

Jessie	If he loves you he will

Franky	If he still loves you, it may work, but you gave him a big pack to live with. Franky

kagnomi	Pretty low. Plus even if you didn't have the baby, he might not want to get together with you.

Warren F	Well you should ask him and tell him you love him and he might good luck my friend!!

ndnqt1966	He may take you back...but I sure wouldn't blame him if he didn't....guess you will only know by asking him... Would you take your ex husband back...if he got another woman pregnant?

Changita	If he loves you he will take you back. Seems like too much drama. If he takes you back he must love u alot and keep him close and take care of him.

sportyhorses	if he is an idiot, as irresponsible as you are he should seek full custody of his kids and get them away from your whoring around ***.

RedRabbit	One in a million. Just because you have kids together, doesn't mean he should take you back and raise a child that he didn't conceive.

Agent319.007	It's really up to your ex husband. If he wants to be with you, things will fall to your advantage. If not, you really don't have any choice in the matter.

rach73030	since you have kids together, you'll have a higher chance. If he still holds the love for you as when you were together than theres an even better chance.

Paul	Not good. I could not raise another man's child, for example. If I were your ex-hubby, I would tell you to make the best relationship with the other man for the sake of your new baby and say goodbye.

Cham	why are you runnnig from one man to another....STOP IT..you seem VERY co dependant..and NO he probably wont take you back...he has probably moved on...let him go mentally ..raise your child that YOU chose to get pregnant with...learn some respect for yourself and get some therapy hun..

â™¥volleyball//star<3	Well.. hopefully he doesn't have another girlfriend or wife.. and he might not accept the fact that you will be having another kid that isnt his. But then again.. you guys have been married for 10 1/2 years.. I dont know.. Sorry! Good luck, anyways

debra k	I've made my share of mistakes too! Thank you for not aborting the baby! Since I don't know your Ex-Hub, You just have to leave this in God's hands, as they say! You'll make it! Nothing horrible lasts forever, I wish the best of luck to you!

angelia b	BABY THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN ANSWER THAT IS HIM. AND YOU WILL HAVE TO ASK HIM SOON BEFORE IT IS TO LATE! YOU WILL NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU DO SO. DO NOT GO THROUGH LIFE WISHING AND WONDERING " WHAT IF" WHAT THE WORST COULD HAPPEN? HE SAY NO, THAT IS IT. OR IT COULD BE YES! GO GET YOUR PRINCE GIRL! HE PROB MISS YOU ALSO.

shannon	it really depends on what kind of person he is, and how forgiving. something must have happened for you guys to be seperated. and then you went with another man. i dont know i dont think there is a good chance that you guys will get back together. but maybe you will. it depends on you guys and your past relationship. if you want him bad enough put 150% into it and show him.

car253	You have to ask the man you left. Before you do anything you need to figure out why you made this mistake. This guy does not have to take you back. You already rejected him. How much more abuse should be take? You already broke up his family. So, if he does take you back, don't expect too much.

Lee	tell you what - you ask him, and then let us know. this is funny for a man, you're pregnant, and he may still love you - but for thenext 18+ years he will look at this child and know it's the result of an affair - while there are plenty of men who are capapble and will forgive and raise this son as if it was his own, he may or may not be one of them... you'll never know until you ask him. P.S. Does the father of this baby not want to be in his/her life? There's another monkey wrench in your situation!

Jennifer S	None. Your relationship is broken beyond repair. There will be no trust between you and he will never look at you the same way he used to. It's unfair and unreasonable to expect him to take you back when you're pregnant with someone else's child because he has no ties to that child and he may not want to raise it. Let the man get his life back together. Leave him alone and just take care of your children.

DRide	It all depends on how things were left between the two of you and if he's open to raising another man's child. My suggestion is if you're sure this is what you want, be as honest as possible and make sure he's getting something out of the deal. you guys divorced for a reason, so make sure those issues are resolved or can be resolved before you try and get back into a relationship with this man.

cynthia s	if you were with this man for over 10 years i think he would take you back and be the father of this child. i don't know what kind of man the child's real father is..but i think the man would take you and the child back. if he wont take you back and he says its because of this child...i don't think that would be why. while you guys were separated he was probably with another woman also, hes just a man so he cant get pregnant. a child is not a mistake. it is a miracle and you were meant to have this child and show it to the world. so don't think of it as a mistake.

SÃ¢ndrÃ¢Ã¢ In The Sky With Diamâ™¦nds	If he truly truly loves you then he will take you back. If you tell him how you feel and that you made a mistake. If his love is strong and true then he will see past that. True love isn't jealous, is forgiving and unconditional. Thats very hard for a man to do he has to have a real good heart and swallow his pride to be with woman that left and had a child from another man. And If he doesn't take you back, its probably not that he doesn't love you. He probably feels as if you don't love him. And probably feels thats the ultimate thing you could of done to him. But if he truly loves you and feels like theres no other woman he can be with than you. Then yes he will take you back. It will be hard. But he will take you back. Just talk to him. He can either say YES or NO. goodluck with that !!

Jenn	There is NO WAY some one on the internet can answer that question unless your ex husband is reading this. If he loves you and is open and forgiving, than he's likely to take you back. That is a VERY personal decision and you have to do what you feel you need to to make your family whole again. I say if you want to make it work with your ex and you have kids together, then by all means try to work it out. I mean, you didn't get pregnant by cheating on him, but by getting back together, he will have a responsibility to a child that is not his. Tough one.