I was laying out in my backyard getting a tan and I can't believe what I saw?

3-Digit IQ	The neighbor was going out to do some work and imagine what he saw! What a treat--I suggest you actually go to a private locale such as a tanning salon to even up. Otherwise you just may as well post a schedule for all to enjoy!

Paul	You're an exhibitionist. You enjoy that or you wouldn't be here telling us about it. You love attention. You got attention. Maybe your hubby even enjoyed it. Nobody is wrong.

DJ	You are. If you plop 'em out there, some people are low class enough to drag out a ladder (and binoculars) to get a better look. Unfortunately, we cannot force people to act by our own personal sets of principles. Ownership of a particular property does not guarantee privacy. Outdoors in most neighborhoods is still generally considered public domain. Why do you think tanning booths are so popular?

ï½‡ï½Œï½ï½— from within	He is completely wrong. So is your husband... If I were you I'd go over there myself and tell him what I think of him... (of course with some kind of weapon just in case)

fmlj072	personally, l think the neighbour was in the wrong. There is no such thing as privacy anymore. your partner may have been concerned with keeping the piece. Sing that sometimes we have to live next to our neighbours for a very long time. Ive wanted to do as you did, but guess what.....lve got noisy neighbours

Derek S	it depends on what he was doing. if he was doing home repairs and just happened to look over then you are to blame, but if he just has the latter up to just take a peek at you he is to blame by the way i need help with this question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=X3oDMTE1aThkdWZ2BF9TAzIxMTU1MDAxMTgEc2VjA2Fuc19ub3QEc2xrA2Fuc21vcmU-;_ylv=3?qid=20080530193810AAfZv5Y

Steph	Your neighbor should not be hanging over the fence staring at you. The fence is there to protect your privacy and divide the property, not for men to climb and invade your privacy.

lilly l	you!! Girl you have to see that man now !! Give him a smile and say ...I caught you looking ...boy did you teach me a lesson!

Sgt.Green	If you were my wife I would of talked to him to see why he was lookin at you

Queen of Beer	He isn't to blame b/c he was on his own property, if a guy sees ta-ta's, he is going to look. Your husband would do the same if a hottie was half naked in the next yard, so he can't really be that mad.

coley200722	You deserve your privacy especially if you paid for 10 foot hedges why should you have to pay to go to a salon to get an all over tan. PS your skin won't be beautiful for long if you keep tanning keep that in mind. sun spots fine lines deep wrinkles

Pain_of_Unhappiness2	Stop doing this miss! Any guy can lose self control like this. I freak out when my female neighbors have this extreme cut up tight shorts, and are in their back yard next to my yard cutting the grass and growing flowers with potting soil. It sounds like a tempting inivitation with the girl next door.

practice_what_u_preach	well knowing that google now does maps and you could end up photographed I think your in the wrong lol. You like the attention admit it. I could do this as well but you never know if the mail man comes or whatever. Your neighbor nows you liked it so looked.

Puhleeze!!!	Well, I highly doubt that the guy has been waiting on his ladder for years to see you topless. He was obviously doing something & just saw you. Maybe he looked a second too long but I'm sure that's not what he was expecting to see today. So no, I don't think your husband needs to confront him like he's some sort of pervert.

rON m	hi don't worry about it i do it in my backyard and so the neighbor looks

ensoman	maybe he was doing some work with the ladder and saw you. We men don't expect top less women in back yards so I can see why he would be stunned. Even if your husband told him, in his property he has legal rights to "see" what he wants. If the yard is secluded I highly double he even knew you were there but came across you by mistake.

Alrozz	If your neighbor knew you were there and wanted to look at you then I would say he has a problem, but now if he was trimming the hedges and just happed up on you laying there with no top, I would've looked too;However, I would of been kind enough to say "excuse me miss, but I am going to trim my hedges so you may want to cover up and I do apologize for this disruption with your tan." On the other hand...I may have cut my hedges all crooked with a V cut.

Belinda E	ur wrong 4 not making sure u were alone he's wrong 4 staring and not saying anything ur husband is wrong 4 not sticking up 4 u

doglover4343	Can someone as pretty as you really be wrong. Ha, ha.

dreammergirl	YOU are!

My name is Darren Gove	dont take off your shirt if you dont want people looking geez. i'm your neighbor bahahaha

green eyes 4u	creepy...I go tanning to get myself tan all over.. Then when I'm in the sun I tan my legs and arms.. I don't like tan lines either.. But I don't want creeps checking out the girls either..

I â™¥ Cowboy!!	you!!! if you have neighbors they have the right to look at your property

girlfromny428	It depends on where the ladder was. Was he trying to look at you or was he doing home repairs etc & just happened to glance over & see you?

Incipient_planck	Do you do this a lot? He may be waiting for that.

ll <3 II	you, even if your yard is secluded, it's indecent exposure.