If I cheated on my wife should I tell her?

moocowkicker	tell her because it's bound to come out in the long run anyway. I bet she'd rather be told by you first then find out from a friend months down the line, and you're gonna get a kicking anyway, so be a man and don't run away from what you've done.

Ã—Ã— M. Jordan Ã—Ã—	Yes, she'll probably receive you back and forgive you than not. Unless she's not the forgiving type, you'd better zip up your cheating.

northindycpl	No. It can only hurt her. Next - STOP CHEATING Next - Go GET TESTED FOR STDs NOW!!!!! Next - Have conversation with your wife about what is lacking Next - FIX IT!

Tjsmom	ONLY IF YOU WANT YOU A** KICKED. IT ALSO DEPENDS ON WHO IT WAS WITH.

marabierto1961	are you nuts?!?!?!?!?!!?! no way! was it fun?

kingpeter47	i dont think so

hanshinboy Â©â„¢Â®	Dude ! You should not say anything. It will be our secret. Oh btw, your wife called and said she will be home late tonight.

crazylh555	yes why? because the guilt will be probarly eating you anyway, you want to work things out with her before you go off and be a serial cheater, she deserves it, your both living a lie, etc etc good luck

gailforce_wind	No!

chelle	yes

Wilford	No, women don't deserve the truth, they can't handle it anyway.

texaschick	Well if you can't live with the guilt anymore tell her, if you can don't. The only person that's going to be okay about telling her is you. You may destroy your marriage for a clean piece of mind. The choice is yours. If you are asking this question you already know what you want to do.

ever1wolf	No offense, but I'd say just by virtue of your "NAME", here the situation will "evolve" to a point that she will become aware. It's a Darwin Joke More importantly however are questions you should be asking yourself in the "WHY" category,,, IE: "Why do I feel a need to cheat?" Rev. Steven

vixenrules80	No. But don't do it again.

ft3535	no not even in your dreams never ever tell her no not at all what are you crazy NO way forget about it no matter how many time you do it, do not ever tell her..and if she ever asks you say NO not me dear.. and if she says I know you were with so and so..denie it till your death and beyond... I hope I made myself clear Thank you

Big Kahuna	Nope. Live with the guilt. The only reason you would tell her was to alleviate your own guilt and that isn't fair. If you want to make a confession, go to church, if you want to hurt your wife and further damage your marriage then tell her. You already screwed up and now you feel bad. Leather up, Mary and live with it.

heavensent	Where were you when I was with her? I'm a women and she was good. I'm not sure she would care after our night one way or the other. Do you know she shivers when she has an orgasm?

tony1z	Yes, Then shoot yourself in the head. Death will be better than living with her after that.

born to be wild.	eventually she will find out from someone. she might be more inkline to forgive you if you tell her yourself.

braysgurl18	she has every right to know!! Thats wrong that you would do that in the first place, my fiances ex fiance cheated on him but she told him, (really f*cked him up) but he still has respect for her because she was honest, just tell her dont hide crap cause shed rather find out from you than someone else.

crazylady1193	lmao@ hanshinboy!

Brillianâ€ world-beyoundsur	yes!, do, pls! --then u'll end up with a bullet in the back of ur head!!!

Anatomy	no. but she will find out eventually. worlds a freaky place.

Denetrials lady 9/28/06	yes it will be the best thing damn u r married dont keep things from he r what happened "TO have and to hold " at your wedding

fekri73110050	don't do it

arya	Well..if you want to be very truthful and honest, and you feel damn guilty about it and cant get it away from your mind, AND you feel sorry about it and wont do it again...then yea, why not, but it could be a risk. But all the same, you could make up for it and promise you wouldnt ever hurt her again and how you feel that you love her so much that she should know. But if things are okay and quiet, and no harm is done where she doesnt least suspect anything, and you are not cheating now and you have promised yourself you wont, then dont, cherish your relationship with your wife and appreciate the relationship that you have with her. And STAY OFF !! from wandering again !! good luck !

nikkymos2000	yes

lynn	No. But you should start thinking about why you cheated & discuss with her whatever your problem is. If you're going to continue to cheat, she will find out, she will be hurt & she'll probably never trust you again. You need to work on your relationship or let her go.

SunBunny	Ya..tell her so she can move on and get a 'good' guy.