If my friend was cheating on his wife, should I let her know?

nonameblonde	MYOB!

â™¥Luscious Lips Schlongettaâ™¥	i would have big ones and tell her face to face. Nothing worse than finding out for yourself!!! been there

Mum 0f 5	U r in whats called a catch 22 if u tell her she will says ur trying to cause trouble and if u don't she will hate you. The only way to do it safely is anonymously by letter

no_limit_pryo	LMAO....sounds to me like you want his wife.

MACmommy	ABSOLUTELY!! Having been cheated on in the past, once I found out, he had to choose me or his friends since none of them had the balls to be honest with me and helped him lie. He ended up choosing me, so his friends all lost him anyways. I say definately tell her, and doing it anonymously is probably the best route. Make sure to include information she can easily verify. Allowing someone to lie and cheat without telling the innocent party just proves how little character and integrity you have.

eve	Have you heard the saying " kill the messenger?" You don't want this to be you. She may resent you for telling her if she doesn't already suspect or know this to be true. As hard as it may seem, it's none of your business. If you feel you must do something do it anonymously. If you chose to do it face to face but ready for the fall out of it. You will prossibly lose both as friends.

christineth1	Thats hard, if you do , you will loose him as a friend, if you dont and she finds out your *** is grass for knowing. I think you should, if you have to think about it, you already know what the right thing is... Good Luck.

Anita	Yes, but do it anonymously.. So you don't get crap from neither.

Zac	Stay out of it. It will blow up all over you!

Sorta	sure ! do it as soon as possible. thus we could eliminate cheating. just kidding

Ian's Mommy	You should let her know. Sometimes when someones cheating on you theres a certain feeling that something isn't right, and if the person that's cheating won't own up to it it can only make it worse.

eillem123	Anonymously, if at all.

Donnie H	i would say is not your business, your not part of that house, .,,that person may already know it

deesh	Dint try to do mistake otherwise you will be looser

aa889d	Stay the hell out of it !!!! Nothing good can come from you spilling the info. You will be the villian to at least ONE of them and very well may be viewed that way by BOTH of them. She'll find out soon enough - this IS a case that people often shoot the messenger.

â˜…SoCalMamiâ˜…	Let her know

sweetsfromdat817	nope, not your business. stay out of it. You do not want to get caught up in someone elses mess.

Badkitty	Not at all, its none of your business. She knows.

jammer	things like this have a way of coming out. if you get involved and they work it out you will be the bad one not the cheater. sounds stupid but i wouldn't get involved.

PB	If your friend is a true friend, YES let her know!!!!!!!!!

Vicky	If I was you I would not say anything because eventually it will come out.. What's done in the dark comes out in the light.. Just stay out of it and let it happen on it's on.

OhWell	Yes you should, I would do it outright, its not good for a man to conceal secrets for evil men's actions.

Dick Fitzwell(Anti CockBlockers)	You probably need to mind your own business. If he is cheating she will end up finding out somehow.

grimstress	i think i would tell. not anonymously though because then she probably won't believe it. if my friend was cheating i would tell the spouse.

Islander	Mind your own business.

Anthony F	No, how would you feel if she killed him or something.

sweetpea5499	Family member... yes let her know. Friend... stay out of it... you will get burned in the end!

xraycarol	Well here goes. . . at least this is what I would do. I would confront the cheating friend. I would tell him that I know he is cheating, and to either leave the marriage and continue the fling or tell his wife. I would also add that if he hasn't told the wife in two weeks, that you are going to do it. You may loose a friend, but you also may save a marriage.

â˜…â˜…â˜… Katharine â™¥â™¥â™¥â™¥	this is a guy to guy friend.. Ummm..NO - you can give your thoughts to your friend..and i'd definately do that-