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If she's cheated on her husband should I trust her to be alone with my husband?

This lady a year younger than my husband braids my husbands hair. She has cheated on her husband numerous times because her husband has cheated on her. My husband wants to get his hair braided so they are going to be alone for a while because I am at work and her husband is too. Do you think it would be wise to drop my husband off or either let her come pick him up so he can get his hair done? My gut instance is telling me if I was to do this I'd be making the biggest mistake of my life! Even my husband said she looks like she'll cheat with anyone. I feel the same way. So, should I just wait to take him over there when I get off of work?







Joseph H
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NO, because if yoiu both feel the same way from what I understand in the paragraph then it is obvious to me that she will try to convince your husband to cheat on you with her... So I would not trust her one but with any man for that matter... If I were you I would leave her alone and talk to your husband dont trust her around your husband (even though you trust him) still the impossible could happen or I should say enexpected....


freedom
Don't never leave your man alone with another woman, her past is irrelevant. A man will be a man and women are snakes. Women very rarely show loyalty towards other women. It's not about being insecure, that's all game. It's about being wise. Now a days sisters, cousins, mamas, friends, will all sleep with each other's man, so what makes some freak doin hair any different from the rules. If he says she looks like she will cheat with anyone, he's letting you know in a manly, sly way that he knows he can hit that if he wants to, and if you don't respond to his comment, well basically that's his Playa cue that you either don't care or you are just too slow to pick it up. Use your head chic, a woman's instinct never lies.


Blunt
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Once a person cheats, they get a "rush" from it and they won;t have any problems attempting it again... that's why theyr say, once a cheater, always a cheater. People that cross the line of faithfulness, don;t see why other people are faithful and therefore, they don;t respect the boundries and believe that everyones is available, married or not.

I say, go with him and sit there until she finishes. Don sit there being nasty, just sit there as friendly as you can be. Is she the only hairdresser in town? If you have a choice, find someone else to do it.

Even your husband has a bad feeling about this... so why going trough all of this emotional pain??? to save a few bucks??? It's not worth it honey, get an apoitment somewhere else.


Trust your gut instinct...always,

Good luck


berry
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Don't go to her for the braid. Get someone else.


guardianangel
I wouldn't trust her. Once a cheater always a cheater.


tcameron_2004
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well i wouldnt trust her no but if you trust your husband than you shouldnt have anyting to worry about. But... if you gut instinct is telling you something is going to go on then drop him off pretend you are going to work call in sick wait an hour or so and drop in. That way you know whats really going on. but if you have trust in your husband surely he wont do anything.


Beau
really the question you need to ask yourself is 'do you trust your husband?'. if you do then there isn't a problem. so i what if she comes on to him.... he'll knock her back and then you can both have a good laugh when he gets home at the sad, lonely womens expence!!!


bliss
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you should trust your husband first


Oreo wit out the O
HELL 2 DA NAH! that would be so stupid to leave youhusband alone with her...u know how she is so why would you put yourself through that...even ur husbnd thinx its a bad idea!!!just wait til u get ff from work to bring him over there so u can keep an eye on her


stanfan01
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To be honest with you I wouldn't drop my husband off after work. If something was to happen he wouldn't say anything especially her. Like they say "that's too close for comfort."


pamela_jake
you should find some one else to do his hair men know if they can sleep with a girl if he says that she will sleep with any one then he is prob right


tipper
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The question is, do you trust YOUR husband not to cheat? If you do, then regardless of what this woman may throw at him, nothing will happen. Your husband may be tempted, but if he loves and respects you, then he won't throw your marriage away just to sleep with this woman.

And since both of you are aware of her behaviour, my guess is that your hubby wouldn't do anything either. If he does, then he's the weakest man in the world.


?
trust Ur gut.... U stay with Ur husband while he gets his hair done.... so there will be no misunderstanding....


quietgiant
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the question really is do you trust your husband to resist the temptation....go with your gut ...only you can decide this one


NONAME
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Give your husband a break. Long as there is no penetration, you shouldn't worry too much about just touching, kissing, or fellatio.


?
Why don't you watch her do the work. Take a magazine with you and just sit there and read.


sissy
if your husband feels uncomfortable then wait and take him there yourself, if your husband states that she will cheat with anyone , then why would he stoop to her level, ?


Shayna
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You must not trust her...she has proven she is not trustworthy. However, you must trust your husband because relationships are built on trust. Tell him how you feel. Reassure him that you trust him but you feel threatened by her character issues. This should encourage him to feel that you value him, trust him and he will prove trsutworthy. Pray, Dear, God will get you through this. Love & Peace to you.


I hate friggin' crybabies
What the hell are you worried about HER for? It's your HUSBAND that will either cheat, or NOT cheat. Re-direct your concern to where it belongs. Can you trust him? If so, then you have nothing to worry about. If she tries to put the skeezer on him, he'll man-up and tell her to step off.


~Amor~
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Have your husband's hair braided with you right there with him.


Kris W
I wouldn't trust her. can't he find someone else to braid his hair?


smeezleme
Trust your husband!


Jen
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If you trust your husband and his love for you, let him go get his hair braided. She cannot make him do anything he doesn't want to do. You'd hope and pray he'd have enough sense of mind and devotion to turn her down if she came onto him. That's a tough decision to make though, I understand where you're coming from.


goldlust74
but do you trust your husband?


Annie
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If you trust your husband then you have nothing to worry about


holly w
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nooo girlfriend!! no matter how close you think you are with someone.. hormones surpass friendships when in the right environment.. it is easy to trust your husband, but if i were you iw ouldn't want that homewrecker alone with my lover..


John Scary
No


Allen
First.....tell your hubby to cut his hair
Second....it's obvious you don't trust her, but do you trust him?
If the answer is yes.......what's the problem?


♥ ღAngelicaღ♥
I would doubt her, but do you trust your man??


Radagast97
Do you trust your husband? If the answer's no, then you have your answer.







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