If someone told you that they did not love you anymore would you continue stay with that person?

Fannie	Nothing gets back 2 normal after someone says they don't love you anymore. Keep your head up, cry when you need to, it's OK to get mad, but never, have another relationship with that person again, even if they say sorry. They're wanting to try new things and meet new people, but, this person sounds like they've already met someone.

*Pretty In Pink*	I would not stay with that person because I would be thinking that it made no sense that the relationship goes on. I rather be alone than be unhappy. Eventually I too would get over my feelings. This is nothing that you can change that person's heart and mind to even come to you and say this they have been feeling like this a while now. You can never change the mind of someone unless they want to change it. Please let bye gones be bye gones and move on.

treasuredwife69	They are trying to get out gently. Let your spouse go, if they need their freedom. That is so much easier to do it on peaceful terms than clinging to hold onto something that is no longer there. People grow apart.

aejr2005	I would leave and start over,its hard to leave someone you have known for that long,if you stick around then you are just going to be hurt even more,and she is going to make you look like a sad lonely fool.

just help ducky	If that person saying that the love is gone is wanting to continue the facade of a relationship, the receiver of that epiphany should understand that they are being used. It is time to get yourself in order and move on. You cannot go back to normal, it just doesn't happen- the actions remain the same, but the person who says something like that means it or is not in love and giving fair warning for a big bomb waiting to explode. Then he or she can say "I warned you when I told you that I don't love you anymore. You stayed," as he or she tramples all over the other person's feelings or worse yet brings home a STD because they are continuing a facade while having potential new relations. Just not a good situation no matter the outcome.

poodle mom	no way would i stay there, i dont think things would ever be "normal" again.

delux_version	I wouldn't leave! I would let her go though! I mean I wouldn't chase after her. If she would be willing to work on the relationship then by all means do so. But, don't head in the other direction just because someone said something that may have been stupid, or rash. Believe me, some women do speak before they think!!! Give them the chance to think, and apologize!

Girly	Hmmm... gee thats a hard question... let me think on it a minute.....um NO!!

*suger()lips**	no whats the point in it. the only way to make things work again is if your'll each other and will do anything for each other

Lisa D	Unfortunately no. If a person says that they don't love you anymore, it's been a long time coming. Especially if it's a woman. There have probably been things that have happened that continually validated their reason or rationalizations as to why they fell out of love. I would say begin to make the move, go on with your life. Move on. I would ask what it was in particular so that in your next relationship it's something that you're aware of. Best of luck.

bigmama	no way, 12 years is not important, today and tomorrows are the most important, go out find another one

Mr R	Nope, it's over. What's the point? If the love is gone, it's gone. Move on.

DEBBIE G	No, I wouldn't continue to stay with that person. No matter what people believe -- there is nothing you can do to make someone love you. I wouldn't waste my time trying to make the impossible happen. I desire to be loved -- I would have to move on.

thresher	That would depend on communication,if the terms are not flexible,and other factors like,living separate lives,how volatile is communication.Is one controlling the other?

Daiquiri Dream	It is unfortunate. I, myself, would need to move on without the person, then. I'd thrive on being in love with my significant other (if I had one). Without love, there is nothing. All humans need love.

gymmum	No..I personally couldnt, and wouldnt want anyone to stay with a person that didnt love them, how could someone even say that. i think that is the time, that a little white lie wouldnt go astray. That is just the cruelest thing to say to another human being.

Me777	Now if I really loved that person and did not want to lose him , I would find a way to change my behavior and do my best to have this person fall in love with me again . If this person tries to take advantage of this then I will get the point that he does not want to love me anymore and his eyes are open to another person and he has his mind made up .

bestadvicechick	I'm sorry to say but I think it means you need to go your separate ways. It doesn't have to be the sad ending you speak of.....after that long together, hopefully you can part ways on good terms, respectful of the love you felt at one time, and realizing you both need the freedom to now move on and love other people. To ignore what that person said would be extremely foolish. It would only hurt you both to just go on like nothing happened. It was said for a reason. If you really love this person, then you will let her go so she can find someone to be with that she truly loves. And by doing so, you can move on and find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved too!

Michelle	you can try to start fresh from the begining and try to rekindle the romance. its not worth staying if you dont plan on changing you ways

Rose M	i would have never stayed. it'd ruin my life

Mint_Always	i am sorry, but i wont stay with that person any longer as long as love aint present. That is a pure torture to stay with a person facing him/her daily knowing that love aint there anymore...

â™¥Sabreâ™¥	no why stay with someone who does not love you or want you in any way move on and find somone who will

dad	TO HELL WITH THEM !!

solotrovo	Normal is two people living together 12 years to love each other. Personally, I would live and not look back.

Here's your change	I would cut my losses and end the relationship. There's no sense in staying with someone you no longer love or want to be with, and it's pretty selfish to think they should stay so you won't be lonely.

olderbutwiser	You can NOT continue to live with them, and once they tell you that....it is OVER! Move on!!

dirbe22	Nope I would want to be loved and cared for.

jbmasterdragon	if they told me that I be gone

Spazzcat	Nope. Once you fall out of love that's it....the resentment is too strong.

Mumbling Girl	No, things cannot go back to normal and you should leave this long-term relationship if she said she does not love you anymore. Without love, I'm not sure it will last any longer. It had happened to me before and I'm the one with faded feelings. My ex did not do anything wrong, my feelings are just not the same. I can't lie to him so I just told him straight up about my feelings. I suggest you move on. Things won't be the same, but you will feel better over time.