If you're not in the mood, do you "service" your partner?

Bushrod Isbister	I have, Kyle. Funny thing is, I don't like her to do that and will avoid it if I know shes not in the mood.

cis242	If your married then get used to it. If not then you might want to find some one else (I hate to say that but).

Lulu	yes i take Frumpy Santa to Jiffy Lube Ill place you on the naughty list.

tweety10157	No, how can you if your not in the mood. Unless, they can get you in the mood. It does not seem like if would be that good if your not into it.

Flying Pig a.k.a The Fat Lady	Considering that my partner is my husband....yes and no. It becomes routine most of the time, BUT..holy crap! when it's not (like 3 days ago), there is nothing better than servicing and being serviced in return! There really is something special about being pleasured by someone who knows everything there is to know about you...there is no feeling shy or unsure. love is what it is...pleasure given and pleasure recieved.

Shandlan	I always give full service at my "resturant" because my husband needs a meal no matter how I feel because I dont want him going to the drive thru window of a "fast food resturant"...lol...We all know that fast food can be addictive...lol...

Right all the time!	That's one of the reasons we are partners. If we can't "hook each other up" it's time to look elsewhere (unless it's because of an illness). We're not just room mates, we are "best buddies."

butterfliesRfree	It means nothing if you are NOT BOTH in the mood at the same time. We can always "service" ourselves (ha ha) if and when necessary :)

Track1	Oh yeah! If you take the time to think about it, mood or no mood, you know it's gonna be good. Often times, it's better than good! Try it, you'll like it.

wicked_clown_1975	First off I don't agree with the term "service" your partner. I believe if you are in a intimate relationship I hope that you both are in love. In love, I believe its a give and take situation. It takes sacrifice and giving and receiving. Communication is very important, so if your not in the mood, express that in the most kind and gentle way as possible, and if the person truly loves you hopefully she will understand.

New England Babe	Absolutely, once we get started I am in the mood.

Me	Yes, very very rarely would I not. It is part of the agreement really, and after you get started you start to enjoy it.

Mommy of Lily, Daisy, and Jayson	nope, he won't do it for me so I'm not doing it for him.

just bored	no you shouldn't cause its just fake making love should be a two way street...sounds corny huh...you both should enjoy it .

Vanessa	Yeah, I figure that he would do the same for me.

Meg	well, it's not like it's rape if you just give in maybe you should just give in.. it might cause some drama if you hurt their feelings

box of rain	Sure. That's part of a successful relationship. Get used to it. Good luck.

Chipmonk	Service? What happened to respect. If anyone "serviced me" I would be insulted!

arizona wolfman	I wouldn't, but it seems I am always in the mood.

Rinkidink	Only if I can do so without feeling that i am compromising myself or getting resentful. otherwise just gotta say not in the mood at the mo

interpol	Yeah I do, and he does his best on the reverse. But I'm much better at not being crap than him.

Genua	So far I have never not been in the mood but yeah I would, if it were him not in the mood then I'd rather do myself

Mr Big B	My wife does to me. Especially when she is on her period. My wife she is mostly I can wait type.

Debi	yes because if i don't he irritates me to the point of getting angry or he tries everything in the world to get me in the mood

Ethernaut	Occasionally, depends to what extent I don't want to. Same situation for the reverse.

jelisa3120	i wouldnt he can just wak off!

James H	If they want it, yeah.

dormi22	If it will shut him up

Chris	no