If you are already cheeating on your wife does it matter with how many different women?

gunney	once is one time to many . marriage is forever . or till death do u part.

CJ	For court purposes the judge should know how bad you cheated!!

Edward Bongshanks	As long as you don't have girlfriends and just bang them once she'll never find out and it'll never matter.

Sweetheart	ur BAD

The Bobster	Yes. The same as it matters if you get shot once or 5 or 6 times. Once may not kill you, but each additional hole your odds of survival drop dramatically.

Emma	it DOES matter! if it is one, it could actually be love, but any more is VERY disrespectful to your wife! =[

Mrs. S	It matters when you give your wife herpes or HIV due to your infidelity. I can't understand why someone would stay married and have half a dozen mistresses...just divorce and then play the field.

Trav	Once is forgivable. 5 or 6 is insulting and mean.

Byung	well I guess not cus you have already lost her trust I guess the more ppl you sleep with the more it just shows that you just dont give a f*&%.

Zalec	No. I've cheated on my husband with three different guys at the same time so who cares whether it's one or fifty. Cheating is still cheating, but very satisfying all the same.

Babytru	Yes it matters! If your speaking about yourself I really hope you are keeping yourself protected. If your cheating on your wife why don't you just get a divorce before things get out of control!

andrea	of course it matters. it will matter to her. it should matter to you, too. don't you have any respect for your marriage, your wife, or yourself?

shopping_for_pies	OHMYGOD!! YES!!! if your wife finds out, it would be better to be cheating on only one person, than like four!! .... GOOD LUCK. p.s. i dont mean to be rude, but you're so unfaithful to your wife!! :(

Nomad	I think one single very intimate relationship would hit harder than a dozen on night stands. The intimate relationship is an emotional betrayal while the one night stands are mostly physical.

Shorty	Ok seriously your a pig for even asking this question! Cheating is nvr ok! If all you wanted to do was get laid you should have never gotten married in the first place!!! Have sum respect for your wife and yourself

Peas_and_carrots	How do you guys find other hot, fine looking women to cheat on? Where do you find time to do this? Must be nice for the husband to attract more hot fine women then his very own wife.

Maddiebaby	wow.. if you don't care about her or your marriage anymore, i would say no it doesn't matter. But if you want to be with other women then why are you even with her? If you do care and are scared she may find out then you should probably stop. What a question... ugh

Sharon P	Speaking from the perspective of a woman yes it does matter because not only have you disrespected her once, but you feel no remorse or guilt and are able to do it again so yes in my opinion it does matter.

Nicole	If it is just the one woman then maybe she would forgive you, but it would still crush her. If it is more than one then there is probably no chance of forgiveness. But in my opinion, i wouldn't forgive cheating no matter how many people it is with.

ecstatic	I think the number of women matter. Most women will take back their man if he has cheated with one women in the hopes that it honestly was a mistake and not a habit. When it is more than one women than it is well known that it will happen again. That is my opinion.

agello24	women will tell u yes. men will tell u no. my view, nope it does not. you have your reason for cheating and im sure she has something to do with it. as long as you dont break down like an idiot and tell your wife your good. BTW use protection and dont leave anything at her house that she can scam you with later.

catrina	the FIRST thing is you need to figure out why your cheating. if your wife is not doing what a wife should do then the two of you need to talk. if you are just a dog and doing it just to do it you need to man up and tell your wife you need your freedom. the damage your doing is unfair to her. et her go and find someone that will love and respect her.

drmchaser72	If you get an STD does it matter if it's one or six or seven? You are a disgusting pig who doesn't deserve the woman you are married too. If I knew who she was and had a way to tell her, you better believe I would tell her she is married to a dirty, cheating scumbag.

sceron	no, if youre already cheating you might as well keep goin. while youre at it you should turn it into a business to make you extra cash...become a pimp. sounds like youre headed that way anyway. just get the women to work for you, sleep with them for free and then give your wife some of the money...everyone is happy.

jus guess	If you already cheated with you shouldn't even be with her anymore. You have to make a decision of which woman you're going to spend eternity with. And grow up. Especially all of those answerers that actually say it's okay.

melcees	It matters. There could be two views on it: The more women, the more promiscuous and the more hurt your wife is likely to be because women generally don't see an excessive number of partners as being a good thing. However... If you were to cheat with only one woman, that can imply emotional intimacy and reflect a genuine interest in that one person.