If you wife constantly accuses you of cheating on her?

Kitty	If someone kept falsely accusing me of such nonsense, I wouldn't be with this person for even 5-6 weeks, let alone 5-6 years.

leigh	Make her see it in a logical sense. Ask her "calmly" what has happened- or what you've done to make her believe that. If you truly aren't doing these things- then when she aqnswers you- it won't make sense out loud. She may just be paranoid because she's been cheated on before, or she may have a guilty conscience. Do you have any reason to believe that she might be the one who's dishonest? If these things don't help- try and get counseling- maybe an outsider could help the both of you see what is causing these thoughts and how to fix it. Good luck:)

Richard F	Warning: if she continues to accuse you of cheating, you eventually will. So she needs to stop. Couple things going on here at once. She feels insecure. You both have some blame there. She thinks you are cheating. You both have some blame there. She feels like something is lacking in your marriage. You both have some blame there. Please, the both of you get to a marriage counselor before the situation explodes.

haveyoueversleptoutside	She is obviously lacking trust. Maybe she is "codependent" http://www.allaboutcounseling.com/codependency.htm Are there real life events that lead her to even worry about this? If there are and you don't talk about it, that could cause her jealousy. If there aren't real events, she could be having delusions about it perhaps because she is depressed (or codependent!) umm.... Jealousy comes from the fear that we are going to lose the one we love. I know my girlfriend was always supportive and never gave me a reason to believe she would cheat, but I thought she would still. I am working it out now based on Cognitive Behaviour Therapy. I really wish I got to keep my girlfriend AND figured out my problems, but I am not as fortunate. Get her help and keep your commitment! http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/mentalhealthinformation/therapies/cognitivebehaviouraltherapy.aspx

Blessed!	I would be straight up with her and tell her that's what I'm doing. It's gonna shock her and hurt her at the same time. Then later on tell her the only reason you told her that is because that's what she wanted to hear!

imtheonenobodylikes	It's not that I accuse when the girl has the nerve to send me the actual email's from him to her. He tell's her bull s*** stories like I am a jelious ex who don't want to see him happy and all. I don't accuse when I know the truth and when he email's her off of his military {goverment} account and he tries to say that someone hacked into his military account when it's not possible because you got to use your I.D. in the I.D. reader in the computer and it goes to your account only no one else's. After each time your done on the computer, you have to log out successfully and take your I.D. with you. So, that is how I know my information.

el espia	looking to a professional person they can helps with your relationship

$$$$	well, that's sad, if she doesn't trust you, then why whould you spend a whole life with her, i am sorry man!

pebbleish	I kept doing that for a while, its insecurity. Do you make her feel pretty, do you compliment her enough, does she feel like when you look at her, you do it with love, and when you touch her, does she feel like its out of love. Maybe she doesn't feel pretty enough, or good enough anymore. Maybe she was used to the ways things were years ago, and now its just that you have gotten so comfy around her, that you don't feel like you should have to do all that sweet stuff anymore. I don't know. I am just saying from experience.

Marinersfan	She's feeling insecure ... or maybe she's cheating on you and wants to know that in a twisted way it's OK Have a good heart to heart with her - and promise that neither of you should bear any grudges regardless of what comes out in the conversation

David J	I would act like I cheated. I'd point out some old grey hair and tell her yup did her last week. Sounds like wife needs to lighten up some. The way I handle uptight people is to overly joke with them. Other then that you need to have a sit down talk with her no fighting no fussing, just be nice and firm tell her not to ever do that again. Good Luck

Jasmine D	i would say that i am not cheating on you and why cant you beleve me? isnt marrige about trust and is she still keeps doing that then it is time for a divorce because it looks like it aint gonna stop

dustin s	Is that supposed to be unnormal? They are all crazy like that. My GF of 3 years did the same thing, then she cheated on me. Do the same thing to her so she can be put in your shoes. Tell her you can't go on with her being so controlling.

surgeverge	get divorced

Mr Ed	You could 1. Get marriage counselling 2. Get her checked out - she might be having a mental problem that could be helped with medication.

CBS Network fan	Sometimes, when one person is consistantly accusing his or her mate, it means that the accuser is guilty of wrongdoing herself.

jay k	She's either cheating herself or crazy jealous, either way, run and fast.

cryptoknight	Some times that happens because man are very mysterious, just open up to her. Renew your vows or w/e and tell her how much she means to you and htsat you would never hurt her.

Daft One	Make it happen for real. If you are going to be accused of it anyway, you might as well do it. Your wife is a freaking moron and you deserve better! Cheers and hugs :-)

Christopher H	Sorry dude, your wife is sleeping around.

sunflower	just tell her the truth if she breaks up with u its ok girls like me like truthness

johnnytrulove	the person that usually always accusing is the person whos cheating.... im sure youve heard that b4, i suggest you sneak around and see what shes doing

crankyissues	Usually, the one doing the accusing is the one committing the crime- Maybe you should be asking her!

butterfliesRfree	She sounds really insecure and possibly needs counseling.....she's not a happy person.

gâ™£â™£glâ™ quâ™ â™ n	get therapy! any other option is ditch her or start cheating on her and that is not very good advise

dtown	Women's intuition....you probably are. Or, she's cheating

Sammie	there has to be something your doing to make her think that. try and talk with her and ask her why she thinks that, i am sure she has her reasons.

foxymoron	she has low self esteem and needs you to reassure her how beautiful you think she is...

gibsi girl	I would wonder if she was cheating or if she is just really insecure! Sorry about that it must be rough!

steve.c_50	It's been my experience that it means that she's cheating herself.