If your husband or bf got a postcard that said this...what would you think?

TrAvii3zAâ˜º	I would be scared since nobody could of have written that.....

Dria V	I would be suspicious but talk calmly about it to him and see how he reacts.

ilovesam	i would investagate, get into his email and stuff before acuzing

FaZizzle	Why not just ask him about it and then throw it away. There's no shame in asking him for the truth.

Ammmz	I think you should ask them about it but don't over react in case it isn't what you think.

Badkitty	I would think someone was playing games and trying to start trouble.

Courtney	I would ask him who it is!! Its blaitently a girl ... Why would a bloke say that? Dont take nun of his crap ... If u think he is cheating go with your gut feeling hunny. Good luck xXx

free_angel	I would tell him obviously that post card isn't fom me. If I were to send him one, I would write, "Having a great time!!! Glad you're not here!"

ablex	It would remind me of that joke, where the guy sent out 500 Valentine's Cards with no signature on them. He was a divorce attorney.

David Devoted	Gay lover. Definitely a gay lover. ADD: Sorry, just ask him and pay close attention to his reaction.

lil'leen	just ask them the truth. don't trust your first impression maybe it is just wrong. maybe it was from his long lost relatives or friends.

*sullengirl*	Ask him calmly, and then depending on his reaction decide whether or not he is cheating or whatever.

Haylz	i would sit down with my husband and ask who sent this to you?... if he knew, if he stutters or acts nervous, it was an x-gf?!

blondie	i would think someone is thinking of him that shouldn't be and that someone knows something i don't...he'd have some serious explaining to do!

cutekitten	sounds like it's from an ex that is just wondering how he's doing but doesn't want him to know where she is. i would ask him who he thinks it's from & see what he says.

Melissa D	I'd ask about it. Maybe it is an old friend. Possibly an old girlfriend who just randomly thought of him and sent a note to say hello. It's probably harmless.

Jilly	I would know EXACTLY who it was from. And then I'd probably feel superior because he married me and I won. I'm a petty, petty woman but that's the honest truth.

LIBERTY	I wouldnt jump to any conclusions. I wouldn't tell him. I would just keep my eyes open and see if anything else weird happens.

brainiac	WOW, what a fantastic trick! I could send it to my enemy and then his wife would make his life hell. actually it is too cruel...even for my worst enemy

CAlice	ask him about it and see what the reaction is. The card could be from a old girlfriend/lover being mean, so hold tight, don't jump to conclusions just yet.

TRIXIE	i would think one of two things.. A. he knows who it is and what it means or B. he doesn't know anything about it and someone is messing with YOU or him.

Anthony	Did you look at the postmark? Where was it mailed from? If you even have to question his loyalty then you have more problems in your marriage than a random postcard.

Lloy	I think you need to DUMP him...he is obviously totally in love with someone else and the postcard is the def proof... which reminds me...next time I want to dump a guy, I am going to do tath and tell him he was cheating ...it's genious...

Susie	I would immediately ask him who sent it, and tell him that he ought to tell the little homewrecker not to harass YOU at your home, because I'm sure she KNEW you would read it. She can send him all the cutesy little notes she wants to AFTER you kick him to the curb. Good luck. Now I'm mad!

raynestar3	It could be a past lover before you, it could be a simple minded relative who forgot to sign it. Who knows? I say ask him and check out his reaction. If he doesn't know who it is, then just let the matter drop. No sense making a huge issue out of something that could easily be nothing at all.

kink	it would be hard, but id first try not to jump to conclusions. and after i had calmed down abit, id calmly hand it to him and say "this came for you" and watch his face for a reaction. if he hurries off without saying anything and hides it or looks awkward or shifty, id be worried. but it may just be a friend. hope this helped :)

Jacki	Has there been anything stressful going on in his life or something? I don't know...I wouldn't jump to conclusions right away. Maybe just ask him...watch his face. If he gets all defensive about it then I would worry. If he just answers something normal and innocent, I wouldn't worry quite yet. If something was going on I don't think a person would send it to your house. So maybe it's even just a relative worried about him or something. I wouldn't jump to conclusions unless you have something to back it up.

harlowtoo	Is it addressed to just him or to both of you? It would sure make me wonder who it was from, but I would try real hard not to jump to any conclusions. I would certainly ask him about it - if you don't, you'll just continue to worry about it, & it may be completely innocent. There is also the long shot that someone is trying to cause trouble between the two of you for some reason. But please talk to him about it, good luck!

Becca	Actually... this post card really depends on yours and his relationship. A) Ask your self if he has a history of cheating or B) Ask your self if you honestly trust him There could be a thousand and one reasons as to why someone sent your husband an anonymous post card. Don't jump to any conclusions, if this is your first eye opener... then give it some time and always trust your instinct. Give him the post card and act normal as if you knew who it was from. What his reaction, keep your guard up but don't over react until you get something solid.

snyderhope2007	as much as i hate to say it, this is something that needs to be put out on the table. you need to be straightforward about this. it sounds to me like theres a girl involved that wants you to know whats going on. its not from relatives, or else it would be signed. someone is trying to sound the whistle without getting too close to the situation. why? guilt, maybe. more likely, she thinks if you know about it, youll break it off and then hes all hers.dont be naive. i know in these cases its easier to turn a blind eye and stay ignorant, but the mess that will creep up on you later will hit hard.