If your husband will not tell you his "type" would you be upset?

Mary Mary Jane	He married you , and besides , you are probably attracted to men with different hair colors........hair color is not a "type" The "type " has more to do with someones personality , looks as well but you can be attracted to more than just hair color...... Ive been through this before, since I have been married for 12 yrs. Take it from me...leave it alone, You chose him , and he chose you!!

morena	if you werent his type he wouldnt never been with you so dont bug him because he fly off.

Kitty	Maybe he doesn't have a type... Get over it. He slept with a girl because she was there, not because she was or was not his type. If you have a real problem with your husband, you need to talk to him about it - but it sounds to me like you're picking on him, and anything he says will be interpreted negatively. Back off.

AndiBaby	i think that some guys, or most people in general, don't really think of themselves as having a "type" at all. having a "type" means limiting yourself and what if you were to find someone you were attracted to you who wasn't your "type". if you're already married then obviously there was something about you that attracted him to you, something in you that he liked. i don't think that its much to worry about, that just because sandra bullock has brown hair and so did this person that he slept with, doesn't mean that is the only thing he is looking for. my concern would be more on the fact that, split up or not, he slept with another person. i think there are maybe some larger issues here that need to be delt with either by you two together or appart. maybe some marriage counceling would help you get to the real root of your concerns.

gothgurl113	i might be some what upset. But, he loves you so don't worry. Maybe you need to go and try counseling to see what really bothers you about it. I understand that you are probaly just worried he will leave you and that is why bothers you so much. And, don't worry about it...sure you maybe blonde and maybe he likes brown haired girls ,but that doesn't mean he loves you any less. plus obviously in someway you are his type because he married YOU in the in hun. So it is ok. Sometimes types aren't what decide who we love and end up with and types aren't always important. I hope i helped. And, don't worry take a deep breath and tell him how you feel or just don't worry about it. You could also maybe ask a friend too.

Society Dweller	I have the same problem with my wife. She says she doesn't have a type, but love a particular rock star, and I am on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. As for me, I wouldn't say I have a particular type, I like someone who carries them self with confidence, and is not afraid to show who they are, and what they have. My wife is absolutely gorgeous, but doesn't think she is worth a squat, even thought guys always stare and hit on her. Another thing to consider is that your husband may be embarrassed by his type. He may not want you to know what turns him on. Good luck find out.

grtoo9	Lots of women do this to guys. They don`t want to make you feel jealous. In this cases the truth may hurt and he doesn`t want to hurt you or make you feel insecure.

ShoopBahDoop	His "type" shouldn't matter if you're married.

goldlust74	maybe he don't have a type. maybe he likes a woman because certain things about her appeal to him could be a different thing in every woman that appeals to him......but he chose to marry you.

bossquad5	does it matter - he chose you - maybe he does not know what you mean he may not have a particular choice - maybe you are all he sees as "his type"

schweetums	If you he is married to you, then obviously you are his type! If he answers something different (as in his ideal woman is dark hair, brown eyes), it will only cause discord in your relationship. He is smart to not say anything. Focus on your happiness with him and try not to worry about him wanting someone different than you. I think it bothers you because of the girl he slept with. That's a hard thing to get over and normal to be jealous and a little worried about his attraction to you. But if you've decided to work out your problems and stay together, you will need to get past that one way or another.

chula_rica21	I wouldn't be upset because guys are weird to begin with. In order to understand them you must think like them. Guys will have a variety of tastes but if you think about it every guy you see has a different taste when it comes to celebs compared to their significant other. He obviously married you for a reason try to find out what sparked his intrest in the begining and replay it for him to remind him why he was with you in the first place.

Suya	Well if he's your HUSBAND then obviously you are his type... besides I bet if you wouldn't have brought it up it wouldn't have given him the chance to second guess your marriage. Who cares he cheated on you for a girl that looks like Sandra Bullock I guess that just shows that he's kind of shallow and he's just attracted to the outside not the personality.

DoMiNiCaN pRiNcEsS	maybe he dosent want to make you feel worried but dont worry u could look the exact opposite of his "TYPE" BUT U COULD THE NICEST SWEETEST PERSON EVER LOOKS DONT MATTER!!!!!

Donna D	Does it matter? He married you! Some of us can't even get that far.

Trollkepr	You must think he is pretty shallow if you think hair color is what he thinks is important. Stop being insecure, insecurity is not attractive in anyone.

cute_thang4714	are you guys still together for one thing? because i need more information to answer this so called ''question''

JK	Quit nagging him about stupid stuff before you run him off again! Have more confidence in yourself and just be you...obviously he came back to your crazy A $ $ , so he must love you!

special_edd_yay	He married you, take his answer at face value for God's sake! Another post proving if men spent one minute in a womans head we would go insane for life!

PraiseBob	I think you should stop obsessing about his "type". Otherwise his "type" is likely to turn into "anyone who isn't you".

Uncle Pennybags	Don't bug your husband about this. This is really one of the annoying questions husbands get along with "Tell me what you're thinking." In fact, most men are attracted to a variety of women. I find my "type" of woman is almost any hair color and body shape, as long as they are fit.

llsnwtsn	do you feel like he is hiding something? maybe he really doesn't have a type and looks deeper than the outside package. don't let it bother you.

Mrs.Franklin	maybe he just doesnt want to split up again try and convince him to tell you

nanny4hap	I wouldn't push the issue of what his "type" is, you will only get more upset, no matter what he says. You need some counseling to resolve your insecurity, self doubt, self esteem and other issues. Good luck.

Eve	Probably because in his fantasies you're not his type! LOL They'll never admit it though.

DL	Of course you are his "type" or he wouldn't have married you. You shouldn't be upset about it.

ktray1275	well he married you didnt he

jayfrezzy	Why do u care? He's with u. Just be happy n live gloriously

free_angel	Have him wondering what your type of man is.

edoubleyou	Men don't have types. We most defiantly can identify various different types and discuss the the advantages and disadvantages of those types and, during those discussions remember another type that also has some extremely nice attributes and don't even get me started on red heads... If your husband is withholding anything it's the my favorite actress is Sandra Bullock thing as if there's only one. Let me illustrate, here is a just quick, short random list of a few of my favorite chicks, Barbra Streisand, Cameron Diaz, Catherine Bell, Charlize Theron, Demi Moore, Emma Thompson, Fiona Apple, Geena Davis, Goldie Hawn, Halle Berry , Heather Graham, Holly Hunter, Isabella Rossellini, Jenna Elfman, Jennifer Lopez, Kate Winslet, Lucinda Williams, Marg Helgenberger, Nicole Kidman, Olivia Newton-John, Penelope Cruz, Renee Zellweger, Sarah Jessica Parker, Uma Thurman, Vanessa Williams, Winona Ryder, oh and Sandra Bullocks' pretty hot too. You can't believe how hard it was to edit that list. You're you and I bet you're pretty hot too, if the problems are over than forget about types, guys don't have them, oh my god I can't believe I forgot Meg Ryan!, sorry Meg