If your husbands talks to other women on the phone is that consider cheating?

curious rudy	only if it offends you and hurts your feelings to think that your husband would need other women to confine in, next time they call tell them your busy making love If it's women from work tell them the same thing. Be abrasive and say things like, "Oh!, it's you again my husband is busy is there something i can help you with. Always tell them that you're husband is busy. SEE IF THAT WORKS. GOOD LUCK

Jazzy Faye	NO, WHAT CAN TALKING DO?!

sweet	yes honey he's cheating. no need to talk to other women if you there. put a stop to it. if you love him.

You call that CHANGE?	This is a form of cheating, Yes! And very disrespectful to you, and I wouldnt put up with it at all.

angelicprincess23602	Yeah I think he's cheating emotionally. if he already stated that he doesn't believe in guy/girl "friend" relationships then he's has to be searching else where. try to communicate with him and see whats going on with him and find out whats so special about her, most likely he's finding something in her that your lacking or just not doing...IE communication. so just talk to him as a wife not an investigator and see what he says AFTER listening tell him how you feel.

Philanthropist	In all probablity, yes, i'm afraid. at the very least in the mental department. but if it has not progressed to physical adultery, u can still take steps to salvage your matrimony. pls let him know your fears and hurt feelings. it will help bring him back. have a heart to heart talk, ok?

giddyupgal0709	heres the deal....trust .i'm all about it is what it is...if you love and trust him .try gettin some male friends to talk on phone with ....talk wheather see how long that will last.....

sokrvolleyhoopsmom	I know men, who are married and happily that have friends that are women, BUT, they are also friends with the wife, so maybe you should say, either stop, or get out. I agree with the person who said talking can develop other things....yes, if his heart is aiming for that. Confront him and tell him what you feel....and do not be weak be strong in your conversation. So he knows you are not backing down.

TRABCO	I have friends that are girls and I talk to them on the phone. I never cheated on my wife (married for 30 years) And I am not cheating on her when I am on the phone with them. The word TRUST comes in here. I trust my wife and she trusts me.

Garfield	If he's on the phone now, he'll be in her bed later. Cheating is cheating whether it's on the phone or in person. Get rid of him.

cassie12	Ask your husband if you can talk to a guy friend on a regular basis and see what he thinks of that.

?	Don't put up with that crap. He's full of ****!

sarell	if he gave you enough attention then you would trust him so get this done and you will know..................//................â€¦

?	yep

Frank R	The seven year itch with one in the oven.

4real	As long as he tells me about the female before hand and it's someone I know. I'm cool. But just for the fun of it...OH NO!!! I am enough woman for him to talk to.

sweetblonde	yep he is, may not be just on the phone

prlnr	YES I WOULD KILL MINE IF HE DOES THAT

<<SEXY MOMMA>>	LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE IS CHEATING ON YOU WHILE YOU ARE PREGNANT

sweetie	yes,it is called emotional cheating! I think maybe he is feeling overwhelmed with fatherhood,which is no excuse.He must start communicating with you or it has to be over

SexyEyes	It depends on what they are talking about and how long he has know this lady. If she is someone he works with and she need help with something that has to do with work, then the answer is no. If she is a long time friend and has a husband of her own, then the answer is no. If she is a person he met on line or in a chat room and she is single then the answer is, yes he is on the border line of cheating. Sometime it is best not to play with fire, you could get burn.

cowgirl_nc_21	Well what is he talking to them about? If he is talking to the lady at the bank about something on your account then, NO. If he has gotten a girls phone number from somewhere like at work or a bar, then I would say YES. More then likely if this is the case then he is also seeing this women. IT IS CHEATING. Are you married? Well here in North Carolina if you have been together for 7 years or more you are considered MARRIED. So I would take him to the "cleaners"!!!!!

ssunfish	Check it out: YES! If hes talking to her hes stealing from you 'cause he could be using the same time to talk to you! That is yours..hes giving your $&*% to someone else w/o your permission.. No brainer!

daddys_girl319	It depends on when he's talking to her and how. If he can't be in the same room ever or is talking funny then it's not OK. You'll now when it feels like more than friends. It's not OK if you have a feeling like somethings up, but if your just jealous then that's not fair

chhabhi	no

arizonabrat	yes and extremely disrespectful.

aj_lets_go_shopping	Depends on who it is and what they're talking about.

Mama Mia	In my opinion, Yes...because he is cheating with his mind and heart. A relationship can bloom from just talking... No matter what he says about it.