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If your spouse were to pass away would you do this?
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If your spouse were to pass away would you do this?

If you spouse were to pass away, would you remarry again? Why or why not?

Are there benefits to a second marraige that is not in the first marraige?

What is your take on this?







Joe S
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I don't think I could ever love another woman as much as I love my wife. She's my best friend, and has been since the 7th grade . I would not remarry, I would probably just give up and die also.


my skittles are green >.<
this is kind of a personal preference.
personally i wouldnt. it woudl be too depressing....
the person, depending how he/she takes the death, will most likely carry the sadness into the current marriage...


and no i dont think that there will be any different benfits from the second marriage then the first...besides the fact that the person hasnt passed on.


(i dont like remarriages. both my parents have remarried....stupid >.> )


~ILovePuppies!!~
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Yes, I would. I would because if your my first husband truly loved me he would want me to find a new person to love me just as good and possibly better. He wouldn't want me to suffer and be alone. There are kind of benefits depending on who you are marrying and their personality. I think it is a good experience so you won't turn old and bitter.


Nikole T
Well it all really depends on how old you are and how long you were married.... One thing dont think there is only one person out their for you to love... There will always be someone out there who is better than the last. I would consider it. I would know deep down that I loved my husband and I would hope that if he loved me enough he wouldnt want to me to be alone... There is always a place in your heart for you loved one but there is always room for another...
That is a good thing to talk about with your spouce. Just talk to them and let them know that if somethign were to happen to you that you would want them to be happy and find another person to love. But you will never forget them.


SFK
It depends on how old I am, how our marriage was, if we had discussed the matter about dating after death.

There are lots of things that would factor into the decision. For example, if they die and I am 72 years old, no....I'm not going to re-marry. Give me another situation and I might.


aisha l
Sometimes its not always best to remarry but its not good to stay home mourning over their death.The only benefits that there really are is not being alone but a person would never forget about the first marriage.I really don't know what to say because I never had a spouse pass away.


Nikiter (lol)
depends how much i loved my husband. if i really loved him and cared the world about him, then no way! but otherwise yeah, but only if i found someone even better than my ex-husband. definetly not right away though.

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calendargirl
I would definitely marry again if I found the right person. The benefits of a 2nd marriage are you know what to ask before you take on that responsibility the 2nd time.


Keeping it Real
It would really depend on the age! If I was like in my mid 20 or early 30 yeah probably... If I was much older there wouldn't really be a need for me! And considering if I have kids... i wouldn't want to expose them to a new mother figure either! so it all depends on the position you are in!


Michelle
You live and learn so you may be better in the second marriage. If you find another person you'd like to spend the rest of your life with.I cant see meeting a life partner too many times in life, makes you wonder about these people who get married over and over again.


Jib B
probubly cuz sooner or later you will meet some one else but what ever you do dont forget him


deefa0711
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no one can say as you never know


tbteddy64
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Why would you even ask such a question? You are a mature adult -if you want to be with someone that is normal. It is no fun living life alone. Your deceased spouse would want you to be happy.


Chris
I would not remarry


booboobunny
yes it is ok to marry again. not sure about what benefits as each relationship will be different. and anyway your spouse would want you to meet someone else and to be happy and not be on your own.


Kyle D
If you have kids than you ask them first if they are ok with it than find a nice (single) spouse with a good paying job and a VERY nice Car like a mustang or a corvette!!!!!!!!!!


craig b
Yeah, I would.
I'm just waiting for her to die.


Dagny Justice
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I would not remarry. It would be difficult to find someone compatible with me who can properly handle what comes with me.


crystalhatesyou
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I do not think I would remarry again just date around. It would be too hard to get married and you would just be comparing them to your first husband.


nick jonas luva
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depends. and well i haven't been married yet because i am only 13 but if i was old enough i would say that.


Jackie
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If a person met a person that they thought they really loved, they'd marry them if they thought it was worth it.


velvet-screams
I don't think I would remarry, if my first marriage was true love.


thecrad
sure why not, life insurance money never hurt anybody either


alexisanyomous
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yea


Gretchen V
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I would not re-marry. I love my husband dearly, but when I get to the point of being ready to have relationships again after his passing (knock on wood that doesn't happen for a very long time), I think I would like to keep things casual.


mescalero_apache10
of course you should marry again if it makes you happy!
if your unhappy being alone go meet someone.


Hachi
Yeah, if it makes you happy and you fall in love again.


(:
i think i would so i wouldnt be lonley but i wouldnt marry right away!!


Mike
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No I wouldn't marry again.







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