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Im 15 am i to young 4 a baby if me and my boyfriend are getting married in a couple months?

me and my boy friend are both 15 we were born 15 days apart. We have been best friends ever sense i can remember we played in the same play pen as Babs and are very close and sure about our relationship. And we are tying deside should i get pregnet to be able to live together again because my family moved 3 hours away from him.please help deside by February 2.







Eric L
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Oh Honey!


John
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idiot.


I'm over it!
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Don't get pregnant, honey- you'll regret it and you'll be stuck.


Invisible Pink ~ RN
Very bad idea -

Watch the show The Secret Life of The American Teenager!!

You will so change your mind after this


Christopher
Yes you are TOOOOOOOOOOO young for a baby!
Finish school and then think about it.


Insert clever name here
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Why are you considering having a baby when you don't even know how to spell?


Josh
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dont get married..your 15....dont get pregnant your still in school...i see girls with babys in my school and it just makes life so hard for you...trust me just be boyfriend and girlfreind till your out of high school


T -Money
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verry much too young! i know many girls your age who wish they could have their teenage years back because they had a baby then.


None of your buisness
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My mother in law has a 1yr old son who is my brother in law. She's 40 and still cant take care of the kid. I guess anything is possible. Knock yourself out kid.


anna
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well how in the world are you getting married? and you are just baby having a baby this young could be a big deal you should live and have fun. dont slow down just yet


Krish
You are young for children. Settle first in your life and think of kids only after 25 years. And you can meet once in a month, so that it brings you closer .


Aulynnr
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Babies having babies.

No, it's not a good idea to get pregnant. Perhaps staying in school and concentrating on your education is a better idea.

Second that with the marriage idea.


KDavis
WAIT! You are too young and have your whole life ahead of you! Babies can wait! Enjoy your childhood! Make sure you can afford to live on your own and pay ALL the bills that come with that before you add a baby into the mix! Just WAIT!


Naomi
uhh, well you're fifteen, so no. that's a horrible idea.
and if you are going to get pregnant, you have to be able to take care of yourself.
and your baby, and your boyfriend.
it's your choice, just remember how hard it's going to be raising a child.
but don't do it, it's so stupid.


Evanna
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honey don't do it while you are in school you should wait till your at least 20 to see if it plays out right not right away and don't get married so soon its going to end badly when your young most likely just wait and let time play out just DO NOT get pregnant


Comer29
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I am 15 years older than you and I cant say that I was ready for a baby. It is very hard financially and very time consuming. You are 15, why the marriage rush? You should reconsider your thoughts and take the high road. You can do so much more than become a statistic.


Marilyn Monroe
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Ummm...your 15. Do you know what its like to have a baby to take care of? Its a 24 hr a day job with no breaks in the beginning ,they need so much care and i garentee you that you will be the one up at 2:30 am feeding the baby. At 15 you don't need to be married ,whats the rush finish high school at least.


Malign
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hm you can't spell so what makes you think you're smart enough for the responsibility of caring for a child?
plus you can't get married at 15..
and if you get pregnant chances are he'll leave you or recommend an abortion.

sure my gf and i chat about having kids but it's just visualizing.


Hi it's Allee
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I don't usually stray away from Polls & Surveys, but I am here to tell you that you are about to make the biggest mistake of your life.
Don't do it. It's selfish of you to trap a newborn in a life with a mother who uses 'Sense' in the place of 'Since'. Don't do it if you have any 'Sense' at all.


dancing_smurf
You are not being logical here. Even if you did become pregnant that would not stop you from moving away from him. Only once you become 18 can you make that decision and until that time your parents are responsible for you. There is nothing that you can do that can stop your parents from moving you away from him. Granted it may hurt you allot to consider that but in time you will heal from being that far away.


cool breeze
My sister tried that..my mom acted like the baby was hers and since my sis was under age she couldn't do anything..,my mom used the baby against her to run her life and control her..the boy's family got scared of having to pay child support for their son so they took the baby daddy and moved several states away...My sister is trapped with mom forever because of the babies connection to both of them.she has never been able to get married since..my mom is possessed with her and the baby..that whole idea can backfire in so many different ways little girl..having a baby underage when you are not legally allowed to make your own choices will hurt so much if other people are deciding what to do with your baby and how to raise it..his parents can go for custody if they get the child support bill..it's such a bad idea..talk online..on the phone..next year or sooner one of you can get a drivers license..heck..you can't even drive to a job or baby doctor appointments your self now.not old enough for a work permit..very bad idea !


Derek Arnold
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Let me put it this way: if you have a baby now, you will never go to college, never have a decent education, never get a good job, never make decent money. Your time will be spent raising a child in an inadequate environment. IF, and i mean IF, you and your boyfriend truly love each other, then you will be able survive being separated for a while. If you can't handle separation, then what you two have is not true love.


Lina
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You're too young to be getting married let alone having a baby. Do you have your parents consent to get married anyway?

You're probably sick of hearing it but you are too young. You need to live your life before sharing it with someone. You have alot to learn in life and not just in relationships either. Its great that you feel like this about someone but you'll be moving too fast too soon. You really need to talk to your parents about this and most likely his as well. Slow it down and enjoy life...for your own sake do not get married and definitely don't get pregnant.

Best of luck.


Lady B.
Living ln this day and age, I cant understand why you would want to make a fool is mistake,take it from someone who got married at 15,Life changes.Whats the hurry if your connected like you say you are then you have the rest of you lives.Do you pay attention to whats going on around you? Are you in school? Where you should be.Their must be more to this ques ton,I wish i knew. please don't do this,why do you need to bring a baby in to this world? Just to get married?Something is wrong,Do you want to go on welfare?Can your boyfriend support you and a baby?You need to rethink these thoughts.


Cinderella14
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Getting married is your choice. It sometimes will work out, but keep in mind that you will be doing ALOT of mental growing between now, & the future.

Don't put so much on your plat.

You have all your classes, exams, money, family issues, marriage...AND a BABY??
Babies are sooo much work; believe me.

Continue with school, keep good family relationships, work on your marriage & work on getting a good education, otherwise you have no future to give a potential baby.

If you have baby fever very very soon, try it in college; personally I would wait because college is still school (&& you have to go to college or you wont have a good life for your child.)

Please,, wait for kids & GO TO COLLEGE!!!!!!

Good luck on your marriage sweetie!


texaswildchic
Well First you can't get married with out your parents there to consent on it.
and i really think that both of you are way way way to young to even think about having kids or even getting married if ya'll are really in love then ya'll should be able to wait for years and still be in love because that real love however if your just looking for away out of your house then shame on your for wanting to bring a baby in to this world to get away from something. i think that you should really think about this and sit down with your boyfriend and ask him where he wants to be in 10 years and where you want to be how do you know that ya'll want to be in the same place also how are you going to raise a kid at 15 while going to school and work so you can have money for this child because nothing is free in life so why don't you wait until you can afford a child and can live on your own and not need your mother or your father there to have to sign for you to do anything...i really wish you best wishes in life and i really hope you don't do this to yourself and to this boy that you say that you love..if you really love each other then ya'll will wait


Sue C
you are still a child no matter what you think and to even consider bringing another child into this situation just to get what you want is crazy! You are 15! You are still in school, how do you expect to take care of a child. You can not get a decent job with out an education so you would be living in poverty or end up on the streets, unless you are one of those kids that think "well ill just get my family to help" and in that case you should really not have a child because a child deserves better than that. If you 2 are really what you say you are and are ment to be together then living 3 hours apart is not going to change that and when you finish school and grow up you can be together and get married and all that and THEN have a baby.....besides you can not get married at 15 with out parental consent and just cause you have a baby does not change that....Be smart. Think about it, think about the babies life you would be making miserable just to TRY and get what you want.


tifquestions
You are too young to be considering such a delicate, drastic measure. A baby has feelings and necessities. Which you will not be able to provide. If you have a child your education might be at stake not because you cannot continue school, I am in college now and more advanced than many of my youth peers, but because at the moment it will be easier for you. And when you consider going back, it will be harder. And the relationship with the boy may be great now, but how about later on when he wants to go to clubs and experience traveling and many of the other wonderful things, the load will be uneven and the baby will pay for the consequences. Try instead to maintain your relationship with him until both of you are grown enough to go out and visit each other.







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