Is Flirting OK if you are married ?

katkouttyy	innstead of waisting the energy on flirting with new people put that energy on ure relationship it will work much better coze u dont want to be burn ull never know wat it could lead too and then regret it

Ker Plunk	Depends how far you take it.

Greg	Only if you're flirting with your spouse;otherwise, it's disrespectful.

Karen M	NO! It is disrespectful and thoughtless. It tells me that your wife is self-centered not couple-centered and needs to act out in order to boost her own self-esteem.

CuitePie	Depends on your definition of flirting. I bet we all flirt a little, and don't even realize it. It is really disrespectful to openly flirt with someone other than your spouse though.

Jan L	it all begins with a flirt. Your need for attention will eventually lead you to divorce. If you really love your spouse you would not make your spouse uncomfortable by flirting with some one else.

~BlondieBruin~	I guess, if you have no intent of getting with another guy/ woman.

love_2_be_loved!	i don't think it is okay. if she loves you she or if you love her she wouldnt want to flirt with anyone else.

*AntA mAriA*	No, what message would you be sending?

Audrey L	flirting is not a big thing.. as long as it doesnt past that... and as long as you and the other person know that its not going anywhere!...

honeyb	There are so many different levels of flirting and so many different ways to flirt. I personally don't think that all flirting is bad. It really depends on who you're flirting with and what you're saying with your flirtatious actions. It's one of those things that everyone will not see eye to eye on. Some people and relationship are not mature enough to handle any kind of flirting. It's about trust. If you or your partner have trust issue, then don't flirt. Flirting is not cheating!!! What may disrespectful to one may not be disrespectful to another. Your wife is most likely doing harmless flirting which is common. If she's telling you then that's a good thing.

kao x	Of course it is, but you might want to understand your spouse's feelings first.

HowAboutIt	Depends on your spouse, they should be first concern, if it bothers them then don't do it. Respect each other.

Clueless4209	NO IT IS SO DISRESPECTFUL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oklasoonersgrl	It depends on where you stand in your relationship. If your husband or wife knew that you were a flirt when the two of you got married........then expect it. Everyone looks and flirts. Its ok I think just as long as your spouse isn't offended. Communication is the key.

Common Sense	Yes but be careful and don't hide it from spouse... If it is OK with spouse then it is OK...

firewall	it is not ok but most married people do .

Billie	yes

crazylegs	Pretty natural I suppose. But you need to be careful with whom your flirting and not go overboard as others may not take it as flirting and believe that your hitting on them.

mobildik	Flirting is NATURAL and most people do it at times. If it goes beyond the flirting stage it is wrong.

RoushGirl#99	No. Go flirt with your spouse.

i_b_winkn_at_u	If its with someone other then your wife...then NO its not ok.

Hi its me again	no, is that what you would want your spouse to do to you? It only makes the other look foolish for putting up with you. And their will always be someone else to take your place when they get tired of being made a fool of. so tell her that

American Beauty	Why does she tell you something this stupid? What intelligent woman tells her man that she's a flirt? Makes no sense.

Qyllix	you have to ask yourself, would i do this action with my wife standing next to me? If so, then you are ok, if not then stop it.

Noe	I think its only natural as long as it doesnt go past flirting.

Angie	Its fine if you are ok with it. I flirt all the time and my husband loves watching me do that. However if it makes you feel uncomfortable, she needs to stop. Plain and simple.

number7ministries1977	Is Flirting with the devil or demons OK? Ofcorse not! How ever in marriage its not about controlling the other person or fault finding its about controlling your self and being the best person that you can be and in doing that hopefully your good light will influence your partner to be the best he or she can be.